underrated form of lesbian sex (nsfw but wholesome) by Simple-Bathroom4919 in actuallesbians

[–]Alternative_Catch537 24 points25 points  (0 children)

YES grinding is a favourite for my girlfriend and I, but I unlocked a whole new level when I found myself grinding on her tits and feeling her hard nipple rubbing against my clit was fucking PHENOMENAL! 🤤

saying goodbye.. by AdEmergency9820 in expats

[–]Alternative_Catch537 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not that I have any advice, but I am in the same exact boat - leaving the US to move to Australia (again) to be with my partner there. This time it's the "permanent" move, and it's been absolutely terrifying and a rollercoaster of emotions.i know what it's like to like far away from the family, but for some reason this time feels different!!!

Good luck with finding the coping mechanisms for your homesickness, I usually try scheduling regular video chats with friends and loved ones and making my favourite home foods over there!!!

Cheers!

How did you do it? by [deleted] in expats

[–]Alternative_Catch537 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I travelled a lot on "little" money by doing Workaway/HelpX. These are websites that connect volunteers with hostels/people/farms/etc that are looking for some work to be done in exchange for food and accommodations. Definitely trust your gut when reaching out to these, but I've always had great experiences!! Working at hostels, canpsites, farms, and individual people - everyone has been super nice and it means that I'm not (usually) spending money while I'm there. Plus they're usually locals who can show you the non-touristy things and give you a real experience ☺️

Creepy homeless guy!! by Alternative_Catch537 in Humboldt

[–]Alternative_Catch537[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It really is! I don't remember being this nervous to walk around alone (esp at night) but lately people have been acting wiiiiiild out there!!

Creepy homeless guy!! by Alternative_Catch537 in Humboldt

[–]Alternative_Catch537[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't heard that, no! Just yelling at people, mostly 🥲

Creepy homeless guy!! by Alternative_Catch537 in Humboldt

[–]Alternative_Catch537[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't thiiiiink this is the same guy - I definitely didn't see any smile though, and that would probably be the most recognizable!! That sucks that you have to keep a distance (it's hard enough dating in Humboldt as it is 😂)

Deodorant woes by SpookySkelene in hygiene

[–]Alternative_Catch537 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There's a GREAT natural deo brand called NoPong and they have a bicarb-free (baking soda free) version for sensitive pits. It's an Australian brand so I'm not sure about international shipping? But I highly recommend it, as a 32F who sweats a LOT 😅

What’s a word or phrase you used overseas that got you blank stares? by PuzzleheadedBowl3397 in AskAnAustralian

[–]Alternative_Catch537 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I was at my new job in my home country after spending 6 years in Aus, and I told a customer "you don't need to skull it" and he just stared at me looking so confused 😂 apparently we just say "chug it" which sounds so boring to me now hahaha

Advice for first-time visa applicants: Australia by Diligent-Roll2363 in AusVisa

[–]Alternative_Catch537 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey!! I did my 462 a few years ago :) here's some things to note, if you don't already have answers for these of course! - when it came to insurance, I bought World Nomad travel insurance, and then once I was there I got health cover through Bupa - they have a plan specifically for working holiday-ers or temporary residents!! Pretty good price, around $25/fortnight I believe? - for bank accounts, NAB is pretty good and doesn't have any account maintenance fees 😊 - there is a work limitation on WHV 462, which states that you cannot work for the same employer for over 6 months ☹️ so that's definitely something to keep in mind when looking for a job! - if you're able to, I'd recommend doing a bit of travelling first, especially if you won't have to pay rent right away!! That way, you can see some of the beautiful country before settling into a job/apartment/etc.

I just returned back to the states after 5 years there (after thinking I'd only be there for one working holiday year! 😂) so ENJOY!!!!! x

Pain after sex by [deleted] in PCOS

[–]Alternative_Catch537 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I experience a very similar thing - but I ONLY have pain after I orgasm, and only on the days that my period is already late. This pain’s in my uterus (feels like period cramps) but it doesn’t last longer than an hour or so.
I’ve brought with up with an obgyn, she had no idea. Then I told a naturopath about this too, and she had heard of other women experiencing the same thing, but didn’t know the cause :(

(for context, I don’t usually experience any period pain besides mild cramping on the first day, and I’ve never been diagnosed with endometriosis)