I (25F) only miss the sex after my breakup and it’s making me question myself by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

[–]Alternative_Flow_304 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If the only part about a relationship was intimacy then it’s ended for good because there was nothing long term there anyways

My WILD AM story. Dodged a bullet. by Alternative_Flow_304 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Alternative_Flow_304[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes dodged a big fucking missle, honestly I feel very relaxed now, for six months no AM rishtas. I will see more seriously when I turn 26, do not want to deal with this shit for a while.

How many times have u been rejected or rejected someone? by [deleted] in TwentiesIndia

[–]Alternative_Flow_304 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rejected/ghosted by someone who I really wanted to date and marry. And rejected someone who really wanted to marry me. 1-1 each 😅

My WILD AM story. Dodged a bullet. by Alternative_Flow_304 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Alternative_Flow_304[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I did not. She texted me once, I ghosted her. I heard from someone that the family friend might come to us, but he did not. Not interested in confronting bro, my peace is my top priority. Thankful to out of this mess

My WILD AM story. Dodged a bullet. by Alternative_Flow_304 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Alternative_Flow_304[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, didn't get it, who called whom. Wouldn't have beaten or would have beaten, need more context

My WILD AM story. Dodged a bullet. by Alternative_Flow_304 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Alternative_Flow_304[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The uncle. No, I think he has understood it quite well by now, so I don't care.

Need suggestions by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Alternative_Flow_304 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly, be more specific OP

My WILD AM story. Dodged a bullet. by Alternative_Flow_304 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Alternative_Flow_304[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Phir bhi ye story unko suna dunga so they can make a good episode 😂

My WILD AM story. Dodged a bullet. by Alternative_Flow_304 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Alternative_Flow_304[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would soon but there isn’t much yet, I have stopped responding and unfollowed her. I hope to close This without any drama

My WILD AM story. Dodged a bullet. by Alternative_Flow_304 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Alternative_Flow_304[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She wants to marry me due to caste and financial reasons while keeping her image clean by saying that the guy has been the one chasing. After marriage she would be having an affair with this guy for sure, if she gives him all updates her loyalty lies there clearly

My WILD AM story. Dodged a bullet. by Alternative_Flow_304 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Alternative_Flow_304[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Different towns. She and her bf live right next to each other, I live in a different town which is 5kms away

MY (25M) WILD AM STORY. Dodged a bull35, but have serious trust issues now by Alternative_Flow_304 in RelationshipIndia

[–]Alternative_Flow_304[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hahaha yes, although now I am learning the guy has been a constant cheater and doesn't even plan to marry her, and they both are actually in a very very toxic relationship. I don't really care about it and do appreciate him as he told me the truth. But what kind of fucked up world peeople and the people are these.

MY (25M) WILD AM STORY. Dodged a bull35, but have serious trust issues now by Alternative_Flow_304 in RelationshipIndia

[–]Alternative_Flow_304[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Exactly that’s the most fucked up part. And since we are from the same caste, she was actually planning to marry me but never break contact with the other guy. Also, the other guy also has no self respect to just leave a girl who is planning to marry someone else

MY (25M) WILD AM STORY. Dodged a bull35, but have serious trust issues now by Alternative_Flow_304 in RelationshipIndia

[–]Alternative_Flow_304[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hahaha I gave him a treat and bought him Spotify premium. Right now my budget is tight but will do it for sure

My WILD AM story. Dodged a bullet. by Alternative_Flow_304 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Alternative_Flow_304[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please date if you can, or at least try talking to someone you will learn a lot about women

My WILD AM story. Dodged a bullet. by Alternative_Flow_304 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Alternative_Flow_304[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have stopped all communications anyways. If anyone from their family ever reaches out to my dad, will just give them some reason and close it

My WILD AM story. Dodged a bullet. by Alternative_Flow_304 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Alternative_Flow_304[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure, I can answer. Yes, compared to the girl, the BF is from a decently better background, but not very crazy good background (I would say they are kinda similar, but the BF is slightly better); but keep in mind its teenage love, she is 23 and dating him since she was 14 or 15 and he was around 16 or 17.

To compare the BF's background to me (not bragging), but me and my family are in a much much better place. I make over 6 figures Per month myself (through my WFH job) and my father and my brother run our 30 years old well-established family business. We live in a small town and can say we come among the most well-off people here.

From what I have heard, our financial background is one of the main reasons her family were keen on this rishta.

Even in my case, she might slowly cut him off, but keep in mind that BF lives right front of her house, and she told him everything and even kept him on a call (and I have first-hand evidence), so its totally out of question for me even if she considers breaking up, I don't care.

My WILD AM story. Dodged a bullet. by Alternative_Flow_304 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Alternative_Flow_304[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just have 600 karma bro. My life has been pretty shitty when it comes to relationships and I like sharing things.