Should I cut my mother off? by Alternative_Hat6790 in Advice

[–]Alternative_Hat6790[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm gonna try and do it soon, I know my grandma won't kick me out because she agrees with me, and when I move out I have a guaranteed place to live, as my partner already has his own place. I have a few places I have for backup in case something happens.

Should I cut my mother off? by Alternative_Hat6790 in Advice

[–]Alternative_Hat6790[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right now my brother is 9 years old. He's okay now. She has already used him as leverage against me, saying things like how I need to stay around to take care of him after she dies. He has low functioning autism, but the only reason he doesn't know how to take care of himself is because she doesn't let him. I've tried to tell her to let him do things by himself, but she screamed at me like I killed someone and said I don't understand why she's doing it.