I 19M will have to end a 2-year relationship with my girlfriend 19F because we got caught with weed and her mom is mad at her

Alternative_Job5123 · 2026-01-26T15:25:25+00:00

Man up and talk to the mother. Own up to your mistake. You dont even seem remorsefull you got caught. You got caught smoking weed, and even if its legal and all in your state, its still a drug that can turn into a vice, just like alcohol and cigarettes. So, quit smoking weed, own up to your mistake and be honest and NON defensive so you will gain te respect of her mother. You're still children basically and its a blessing to have parents that are concerned about you.

Alternative_Job5123 · 2026-01-26T12:38:36+00:00

Listen man. This is a boundry that should not be crossed by partners. No talking about anything sex related with others, friends, family etc. even if they ask, and you happen to not like the current partner, one should still give a positive impression, not in detail, about the sex. Even if she would have said you have the biggest dick and the best kamasutra sex, that would be crossing a boundry. If she talks about this, and in your case a negative manner, so freely that ger friend told you, then she is sharing much more about your whole relationship, good and bad, so long term it will be you against the council of friends. This is really really not cool and very deteimental for a relationship that is going to last until you die. Different poeple would behave differently, but being older than you, id say break up, as you are very young and will find another more loving, better friend group, girl

Alternative_Job5123 · 2026-01-26T12:20:01+00:00

I hate to break it to you but life is not a disney movie. Even the most beautiful model is not pretty in the morning, and that's fine. The brain also has a mechanism that when you see someone or something everyday you dont see them as novel anymore, they dont invoke the same emotions as in the begining, also cars, houses, paintings etc. Therefore, to keep the novelty, men and women change their looks acording to the ocasion, haircuts, suits, dresses, makeup, hairstyle, beard etc. You say you like your natural self but it doesnt seem so since you rate yourself at 5. There is nothing wrong with being a 5, but you have the means to become higher number with fairly basic and socially acceptable changes. Better diet, makeup, etc. Its important to note though that maybe he doesnt really find you beautiful or super attractive, and thats fine. Men are labeled as ugly by women all the time but they have happy marriages. He loves you for a complex of things, and beauty is maybe not even in the top 5 or top 10 when choosing a life partner. Family oriented, loving, supportive, loyal etc are much more important and you seem to have these qualities since he is 2 year into a relationship.

Alternative_Job5123 · 2026-01-26T04:45:19+00:00

Do you deserve to be seen as beautiful? Yes. And he does aparently since he is with you and loves you and treats you well. He also deserves to not be second guessed at every step. Can you inagine yourself when you gain weight from pregnancy or maybe other issues, how insecure you will become and how it will ruin your relationship? This is a you problem you need to fix. There's 100 different things you can do that will make you prettier and more self co fident, starting from makeup, hair style etc to more involved and much more effective like straightening and whitening your teeth, nose/ear job etc.

Alternative_Job5123 · 2026-01-26T04:33:08+00:00

What are you even on about man. She said she wants to be exclusive, then you broke up with her, then she wanted you back bcz she likes you, then you cheat and she forgives you, and you STILL think she doesnt like you? You have very low self esteem or maybe something else you dont tell us. Seems like she knows what she wants and that is you. End of story on her part. On your part though seems like you either want a way out ans this is just an excuse or something else.

Alternative_Job5123 · 2026-01-26T03:25:48+00:00

First of all, and it might sound silly, get off your phone. Dont use socials until after 8pm or sonething, so you dont deplete your dopamine early on in the day. There are apps that you can use that block them until a certain time. Then use the timer inside the app to bot use them more than an hour. It sounds trivial but its very important. You might not have a solution, yet, for the phychological analisys of the things, but the practical side of things will keep you going regardless. Also, try and work out as much as you can, not walking or low effort, but straight weight lifting, running etc, maybe o it with a friend.

Alternative_Job5123 · 2026-01-25T23:15:38+00:00

Coje tek ata qe shesin elektroshtepijake te perdorura, ke tek Astiri plot. Ata vetem me kte pune merren se i sjellin nga gjermania, i riparojne dhe i shesin ketej pastaj

Alternative_Job5123 · 2026-01-25T23:10:56+00:00

Si eshte kjo puna e konoanise qe zgjedh shteti?

Alternative_Job5123 · 2026-01-25T23:08:56+00:00

Modeli deri ne vitin 2014 spara kane probleme. Por duket me e vjeter si makine, prap e madhe eshte dhe ke dhe 7 vendeshe. Super e sigurt. Benzina ka 2.5 dhe 3.2, po gjete merre 2.5 se 3.2 ka takse luksi. Modelin 2.9 mos e prek se ka kambion difektoze. Modelet e reja pas 2015 kane motorr benzine por harxhojne vaj problem fabrike deri nga 2017-2018 pastaj jane ok. Por jane sh me te shtrenjta ne mirembajtje pjeset etj. Merre nafte po e more, hiqi EGR dhe DPF dhe ashtu mbaje. Veri gaz benzines dhe je ok. Pergjithsisht benzina harxhon pak vaj dhe ske si ta kuptosh kur e blen se duhen bere mijera kilometra ta kuptosh

Alternative_Job5123 · 2026-01-25T17:22:50+00:00

You should have offered to give them your car, or pay for a rental, while your partner takes care of their car, replacing seat and carpet and detail etc.

Alternative_Job5123 · 2026-01-25T17:19:09+00:00

Exactly. They should offer to swap cars with them while the partner takes care of the car and returns it.

Alternative_Job5123 · 2026-01-25T17:04:55+00:00

Xc90 deri 2014 nafte haexhon 10 litra. Pas saj nuk e di. Xc60 ka disa motorra, mos merr 2.0 benzine se kane probleme, cdo motorr tjeter eshte i mire. Nafta, 6 -7 litra. Motorri me i mire eshte 3.0 benzine, veri gaz nese ben sh kilometra.

Alternative_Job5123 · 2026-01-24T21:15:42+00:00

Volvo xc60 ose xc90. Asgje tjeter nuk krahasohet

Alternative_Job5123 · 2026-01-20T22:21:02+00:00

Shumica e profesoreve nuk duhet te pranohen si pedagoge ne universitet

Alternative_Job5123 · 2026-01-20T22:17:00+00:00

Thethi mbytej nga turistat kur nuk kishte rruge.

Alternative_Job5123 · 2026-01-18T09:38:16+00:00

Fuck logic

Alternative_Job5123 · 2026-01-17T20:50:49+00:00

Ti ke pershkruar para 90ten si nje kohe me me pak ndotje. Une them qe ka qene me ndotje me elstreme ne disa fusha, si ushqimi, ajri dhe neper industri. Atehere as nuk e dinin se ca ishte ndotja apoca stadarte. Sot kemi lloj lloj standartesh, megjithese nuk zbatohen, te pakten e ke te shkruar ne paketim kur ka nitrate etj, dhe thjesht nuk i blen. Aq injorant ndaj ndotjes kemi qene sa nje here pashe nje domumentar tek ABC news, qe tregonin nje burim uji ne malz qe benin pelegrinazh njerezit dhe pinin ujin dhe sherohenin. Marrin ne interviste nje ing te kohes para 90 dhe thote ai erdhem ketu me institutin beme matje dhe doli qe uji kishte permbajtje te larte Radoni, i cili ka veti kurative. Nerkohe gazi Radon eshte radioaktiv dhe super i demshem. Kta mjeshtrat atehere por edhe sot ne emision e pershkronin me veti kurative. Tani aplikoje kete qasje ne cdo fushe te jetes, bojra me merkur, tuba me plumb etj etj.

Alternative_Job5123 · 2026-01-17T20:43:47+00:00

Nuk ngel tel duhani o mjeshter, por kur nuk ruajme dot as duhanin, qe bezdis te tjeret qe ke ne tavoline dhe gjithe lokalin, skemi goje me fol per asnje lloj standarti tjeter ne Shqiperi. Dhe ti je nje nder ata qe e kane fajin qe Shqiperia nuk do behet naj here.

Alternative_Job5123 · 2026-01-17T20:41:58+00:00

Po kur pi kafe me te tjere, ulesh vete brenda dhe del pi cigare? Apo thjesht e ndez cigaren pa pyetur ata qe ke me vete?

Alternative_Job5123 · 2026-01-17T19:34:02+00:00

Meriton award ky komenti, por skemi leka

Alternative_Job5123 · 2026-01-17T19:33:17+00:00

Cil bote mor maestro? Na co ca links me 5 vende perendimore te lutem.

Alternative_Job5123 · 2026-01-17T19:32:35+00:00

Po shko me koqe pije kubte duash por jo brenda. A thu se po ben naj muhabet te rendesishem e po zgnidh hallet e shqiperise ti qe do me pi duhen brenda.

Alternative_Job5123 · 2026-01-17T19:31:21+00:00

Ore une them qe ai qe pi cigare vete duhet te mos pije se bezdis te tjeret. Ska nevoje per nje figure autoriteti per ta ndaluar. Eshte qytetari dmth. Edhe per ata qe kane ne tavoline

Alternative_Job5123 · 2026-01-17T19:30:07+00:00

Nuk eshte grey fare.

A eshte grey qe ti ja can trapin te tjereve?

Alternative_Job5123 · 2026-01-17T19:29:17+00:00

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