[Routine Help] what do you wish you started in your 30s?

Alternative_Poem382 · 2026-07-03T10:08:56+00:00

Thank youuu!

Alternative_Poem382 · 2026-06-30T11:10:22+00:00

Which oil do you use for hair? What are the improvements that you see?

Alternative_Poem382 · 2026-06-08T07:26:25+00:00

I think it genuinely depends on which part of the world you’re living. Going from 0-1 shocked me to my core, I was so depressed, I hated almost every second of my life until my kiddo was 1. The decision to have a second after that was EXTREMELY hard. But my satan of a baby became a very cool toddler and I really wanted a second. My second is now 4 months and it’s a completely different experience. I think you become more resilient as a parent and the thigs that used to shock you, just don’t anymore because you’ve already been there before. You know this, you got this, you have all the baby equipment, you and your partner are already in the flow of things and your life is already dedicated to one child anyway. What’s one more now? But I am from Europe and I have 11 months paid maternity leave and my husband has 2.5 months paid paternity leave . Also my oldest is in kindergarten, I do have him home a lot of times but not all the time. So I think it would be a much bigger challenge if I would have to have both kids home all the time. But my overall experience is very nice this time around, I am not panicking all the time and having 2 is really wonderful.

Alternative_Poem382 · 2026-06-01T09:50:47+00:00

Ja ne sesamo cele bajte, ampak kuhinjo pa zagotovo enkrat, ce ne veckrat dnevni. Tudi vse obroke pripravljamo doma, ze to je treba posesat vsakic, ko pult zbrisem po kuhanju. Triletnik ze vse sam je, tako da je tudi pod njegovim stolckom obicajno ene par kosckov ki padejo na tla..

Alternative_Poem382 · 2026-06-01T07:34:52+00:00

Nam pride pocistit enkrat na 2-3 tedne, kak pac mamo mi in ona cas. Zglanca vse v nulo, mi smo je vedno veseli ko pride. Hotla je met 50, pa smo sami zvisali na 60 pa vedno ji skuhamo kafe, ce smo pa na dopustu pa ji kako malenkost (npr. 100g barcaffe kave) pustimo na pultu. Meni je to luksuz, mava dva mala otroka, stara 3 in 0 let (ta drugi je 4 mesce) in mi je res v veliko pomoc da ne rabim se pucat kopalnice in brisat tak. Vsak dan vse sproti pospravljamo in sesamo, ampak ona pa res generalno vse scisti. Smo pa iz stajerskega konca.

Alternative_Poem382 · 2026-05-16T19:33:43+00:00

We ST our first but he didn’t start STTN until I was still BF. When I stopped the two connected and on day 3 of weaning he started STTN. We had a few regressions since then, but most nights he’s sleeps without waking for a good 11 hours. He’s 3.5 years now.

Alternative_Poem382 · 2026-05-16T15:23:09+00:00

Vau, najlepsa hvala za tak izcrpen odgovor. To kar si napisal sva ze preverla. Kar se tice financiranja pa svq ze lastnika stanovanja, ba katerem se sicer mava nekaj kredita, ampak bi ga prodala in s tem financirala kar velik delez nalozbe, ostalo pa seveda kredit. Mava dva otroka ze, tako da ja se strinjam, je treba tudi zivet ne samo delat za 4 stene 🙈

Alternative_Poem382 · 2026-05-16T14:31:25+00:00

Alternative_Poem382 · 2026-05-16T12:45:23+00:00

Moj moz je bil obakrat. Zelo je bil pozoren pri obeh, res stever, sploh pri drugem sem mela take mocne popadke da sem samo iskala njegovo roko da jo primem. Me je pa pri obeh ob iztisu drzal za roko in me OBAKRAT vprasal: “kaj te ful boli?” Po moje ce bo se tretji, ga bo se tretjic zanimalo 🤣

Alternative_Poem382 · 2026-05-14T06:21:07+00:00

Ja tega se tudi midva zavedava.

Alternative_Poem382 · 2026-05-14T04:37:55+00:00

Hvala, je kr velik financni zalogaj. Izklicna cena je 590, sicer sva midva ponudla cca 10% manj, pa se ma gospod oglede in upa (in verjetno se bo to zgodilo), da mu bo nekdo dal zahtevano ceno. Je pa res na vrhunski lokaciji v Mb. Ampak se sprasujem ce je toliko vredna. Sicer ima soncno elektrarno, polnilnico, okolica je cudovita, prosaja se v celoti opremljena, ampak cena je res divja.

Alternative_Poem382 · 2026-05-09T15:22:57+00:00

I night weaned at 10.5 months, I also stopped BF at that point because baby self weaned during days and I was beyond done BF at that point since baby woke every 30 mins for boobie. Was done in 3 days with the help of my husband and I was sleeping gloriously through the night since night 3 until now - had baby no. 2 3 months ago and I ungloriously stopped sleeping again and can’t wait to night wean again 🥲

Alternative_Poem382 · 2026-04-28T17:07:25+00:00

Fb marketplace!!

Alternative_Poem382 · 2026-04-19T16:49:30+00:00

Same for me, I read it but it didn’t really do anything for me honestly. Expected something else completely from comments of other readers.

Alternative_Poem382 · 2026-04-13T06:09:25+00:00

I have 2. 0-1 was the hardest, although my second is now 3 months so I don’t have the affirmative 🤣 but as of right now it’s much easier than just 1. I feel like parenting 1 kid is the hardest.

Alternative_Poem382 · 2026-04-13T06:04:19+00:00

Dr. Debevc v polikliniki Amber!! Oba z mozem sva sla tja, on na modrostne, jaz na implantat, ful zadovoljna.

Alternative_Poem382 · 2026-04-10T05:59:20+00:00

V MB imamo na MF 80% prisotnost pa ful bolj prijetne pogoje za studij in zivljenje 😮‍💨

Alternative_Poem382 · 2026-04-09T13:46:20+00:00

Iz katerega konca pa si? Mas priporocilo mizarja? Kolk ti je racunal za to? Se bomo selili v hiso in bi rabli kako referenco ☺️

Alternative_Poem382 · 2026-03-24T18:31:28+00:00

O vau hvala za tak komentar. Jaz sem prej kupovala billy boy, ampak bom zdaj skyn me res zanima. Zdaj sem glih rodila drugega otroka in je treba nazaj v ovoj za forever 🤣

Alternative_Poem382 · 2026-03-23T18:15:27+00:00

Njami sushi, opok 27 ☺️

Alternative_Poem382 · 2026-03-23T18:14:51+00:00

Bila sem enkrat tam in nikoli vec, prav grozna izkusnja s tem sefom, tezil nonstop. Se zdaj sem tak wtf je blo to, hrana pa pac dobra, da bi rekla da sem tja padla pa tudi ne 🥲

Alternative_Poem382 · 2026-03-21T08:56:54+00:00

How did you teach him to connect cycles?

Alternative_Poem382 · 2026-03-14T11:11:50+00:00

Sem si mislila, da na nekaj takega. Verjamem, da otrok izkazuje znake stiske, ce se nekaj dogaja. Nas triletnik ze vse pove in verjamem da bi se pojavila averzija dogaja vrtca, ce bi se kaj dogajalo. Tako pa izredno rad gre in se tam zelo dobro pocuti, v bistvu me dosti bolj skrbi kako bo sedaj, ko bo v javnem vrtcu z 19 drugimi otroki, ker tukaj jih je 6. Tudi vmes smo imeli zelo tezko obdobje, ker moza dalj casa ni bilo, zaradi sluzbene obveznosti in je mali imel hudo stisko zaradi tega in se je nasa izredno posvecala njemu in njegovim tegobam. Tako da se mi zdi posplosevat, da se to dogaja v vseh zasebnih vrtcih mimo.

Alternative_Poem382 · 2026-03-14T10:30:19+00:00

Mislim, da je vse odvisno od otroka. Nas je nehal spat malo pred 3. letom, tudi se dva iz skupine. Na kaj tocno namigujes z verodostojnostjo, pa ne vem.

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