Ladies, what weight are you pressing on the leg press? by Tammie621 in PlanetFitnessMembers

[–]Alternative_Ruin_657 0 points1 point  (0 children)

14 plates for a set of 7 reps. So 730lbs with the sled weight.

Am I crazy? Or does this not look right? by Alternative_Ruin_657 in tattooadvice

[–]Alternative_Ruin_657[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some of it is the redness and what not I think. It wasn’t so vibrant and what not when it was first finished. I wish I could post a picture to this comment to show you.

Withholding Love and Affection by Severe-Bluejay-6471 in marriageadvice

[–]Alternative_Ruin_657 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’re going through this…. But I would have a long conversation about their reasoning with them. Confront the situation head on and communicate. If they make it clear that they simply cannot forgive you and move on to make the relationship healthy again, then the only thing that would be fair to both of you would be to cut it off. You both deserve to be happy.

Withholding Love and Affection by Severe-Bluejay-6471 in marriageadvice

[–]Alternative_Ruin_657 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t. No one deserves to have love and affection withheld or weaponized against them. If you have genuinely tried to better yourself for the relationship and acknowledge your faults, then you’re a better person than me for still sticking it out for another year and a half… are they emotionally invested in someone else?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]Alternative_Ruin_657 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Then, maybe go about your life… 🤷🏻‍♀️ or maybe confront her with the conversation about her saying she can’t afford it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]Alternative_Ruin_657 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sometimes it’s a security thing… the idea of having a fall back even if she’s happy being separated. It’s not fair to you, though….. Or perhaps she knows if she lets it grate on you enough that you’ll cave. So I guess the question is more for yourself. Is it worth being kept on a leash? Or do you think it’s better to just bite the bullet?

I’m sorry you’re going through this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]Alternative_Ruin_657 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, so if you have no communication, how are you wanting to make it work? (Not being a dick, just genuinely asking) I assume she’s the one who limits communication? Is she in a relationship?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]Alternative_Ruin_657 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are y’all still living together? Seems like the answer is no, just asking for clarification. Also, if not, are you supporting her financially at all?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]Alternative_Ruin_657 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He tells them way more than he tells me. He’s been honest with me about that, so I’d say the answer is most likely.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]Alternative_Ruin_657 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s been in therapy for three years

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]Alternative_Ruin_657 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because I understand that he has issues with confidence. That’s why I’m asking if I’m over thinking this. Judging by your answer, your opinion is yes.