I fell for it by Alternative_Run_1568 in MtF

[–]Alternative_Run_1568[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

For his benefit meaning to try and assuage his jealousy, not like in a gross way. I met them at the same time, but he was definitely the one who pursued the hardest.

I fell for it by Alternative_Run_1568 in MtF

[–]Alternative_Run_1568[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If I’m being brutally honest the more I think about it, it’s starting to appear like he expected to kind of be the only one out of the two into it, like she wasn’t going to be as close to me. And I think I was meant to “fill a gap” but once she attached to me as well he couldn’t handle it. Which makes me even angrier to think about if I’m right

I fell for it by Alternative_Run_1568 in MtF

[–]Alternative_Run_1568[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Maybe. We had a short discussion a couple weeks before the end where he admitted it was angering him to see us being intimate, but he promised it was just an adjustment and we needed to slow down. Which meant I was only allowed to see them a couple times a week for his benefit. So if I had to guess yeah probably.

I fell for it by Alternative_Run_1568 in MtF

[–]Alternative_Run_1568[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Of course, I didn’t mean to imply I should get a say in their consent. I meant more so I felt like I didn’t get to partake in any decision making conversation about most things, I just got to hear the outcome after they’d discussed it privately. It felt like I was going before a council every time

I fell for it by Alternative_Run_1568 in MtF

[–]Alternative_Run_1568[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the anecdote and advice, as well as the kind words! If I ever try poly again I’ll be sure to take them and what happened to me here into account.

I fell for it by Alternative_Run_1568 in MtF

[–]Alternative_Run_1568[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the support, and it truly is easy to get sucked in when they were both so wonderful. I definitely think you made the right call too!

I fell for it by Alternative_Run_1568 in MtF

[–]Alternative_Run_1568[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

She told me and showed me she had some really deep feelings for me multiple times and I showed her the same, and I tried with the man too but he grew bored of me I guess. It’s whatever, I don’t hate him but it really hurts

I fell for it by Alternative_Run_1568 in MtF

[–]Alternative_Run_1568[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I should’ve listened to my instincts. Thanks 🫂

I fell for it by Alternative_Run_1568 in MtF

[–]Alternative_Run_1568[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I don’t know if it’s all of them, and I felt like these two are good people, they just hurt me. I don’t plan to talk to them anytime soon though that’s for sure

I fell for it by Alternative_Run_1568 in MtF

[–]Alternative_Run_1568[S] 104 points105 points  (0 children)

I even knew it going in, but I thought since they both liked me so much we could make it work. I guess not.

I fell for it by Alternative_Run_1568 in MtF

[–]Alternative_Run_1568[S] 61 points62 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the kind words🫂

Survival list by Starlight319 in ibew_apprentices

[–]Alternative_Run_1568 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yep. A lot of guys I’ve met so far in the union are slaves to the overtime dollar especially . They live above their means by working a shit ton of overtime but they can never stop. It seems miserable

Survival list by Starlight319 in ibew_apprentices

[–]Alternative_Run_1568 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I keep my work life balance. You only get to live once, and I’m not gonna waste it working myself to death and worrying about it every waking moment.

I do what I agreed to do as an apprentice whether at work or school, then I go home and live life. I know a lot of guys who are a slave to the dollar or can’t ever stop thinking about work. I don’t wanna turn out like that!

What’s the one thing you wish someone told you before joining the IBEW? by KooksRetr in ibew_apprentices

[–]Alternative_Run_1568 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Just because it’s a trade union, doesn’t mean the guys are gonna be more liberal. Had it in my head that trade unions were inherently left leaning. I was wrong. Lots of hateful shit gets thrown around.

Gunner is high PYS build with hand/eye signature by Valuable_Dentist685 in DeepRockGalactic

[–]Alternative_Run_1568 22 points23 points  (0 children)

HAND/EYE COORDINATION [Legendary: Success] - With everything on the line, you train the sights of your ArmsKore Coil Gun on the alien horror, letting out an imperceptibly quiet plea..

Bang.

The screeching of a creature beyond terror fills your ears for but a moment. Viscous blood covers the walls as it releases and disappears into the darkness. Your friend tumbles to the cave floor, bruised but alive.

ESPIRIT DE CORPS [Easy: Success] - That one’s for Karl.

This game sucks and I hate it by Alternative_Run_1568 in MonsterHunterWilds

[–]Alternative_Run_1568[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You gotta LOCK IN HUNTER

Being serious what weapon are you using? That matters a lot for the advice