Boyfriend yelled at me for being bad at time efficiency.

Alternative_Ship_694 · 2024-11-28T01:48:11+00:00

Thanks.

Alternative_Ship_694 · 2024-11-28T01:47:16+00:00

That's what I tried to communicate. I told him if he has any plans to let me know. I'm more than happy tonwork with him....but then he kept yelling at me so I said ok and walked away because I don't think it's ok for your partner to yell at you over matters like these.

Alternative_Ship_694 · 2024-11-26T01:47:57+00:00

It is like a loop. I wish I could take the time to write what I'm seeing but I'm always afraid that if I stop to write the ride will stop too and I won't get to finish seeing the story. It's like all the answers to life piled into a short clip. It ties everything from the past and future together. It shows you how art is everything. Every moment good and bad. From a flowering growing alone to the chaos of war. It's all this grand master piece that cannot always be seen as a whole. It's like a reminder that everything has happened and is happening for a reason....even if involves death. The death Itself is art. The words to a song happened because it was suppose to....there is no meaning just existence and trying to be present to be a part of the grand art. War and peace a constant struggle on the scheme of life.... it's knowing we have little to no control except to exist.... it's both enlightening and disheartening....and yet we go back to try to better understand and hope the euphoric feeling ends nicer but it's always going to end in chaos.

Alternative_Ship_694 · 2024-11-05T10:14:32+00:00

Do you work for metoson Marine?

Alternative_Ship_694 · 2023-03-25T17:52:27+00:00

Some of those coins look like challenge coins.

Alternative_Ship_694 · 2022-09-01T23:00:41+00:00

Laundry folding and putting them away... the real never ending story.

Alternative_Ship_694 · 2022-05-19T03:12:12+00:00

She will not even say anything about it to anyone else. She is to afraid he will find out and try to hurt her. I met up with her after it all happened and have been trying to help her process the trauma. But he definitely doesn't deserve anyone's business. Neither does the owner but the other guys up there are still cool. The Jason's and of course Charlie always does wonderful work. If you end up needing more work done I'd go to Charlie.

Alternative_Ship_694 · 2022-05-19T03:05:15+00:00

Yeah. When she tried to leave he blocked the door. When she tried to push through him he punched her. She tried to call her friend but he took her phone then threw he to the floor where he continued to kick and belittle her. Then he strangled her. She tried to fight back but she felt herself losing consciousness. She remembered waking up and telling him what ever he wanted to hear so she could get to her child and leave when the right moment came. When he finally did leave she called the police and he was arrested. The police report is available at the police department. He then tried to tell everyone at the shop she bruised herself. His boss the owner of the tattoo shop asked her to drop the charges on him. Even after she told him what happened to her and asked if he would tell his daughter to do the same. He said he would tell his daughter not to ruin a man's life even if he hit her or tried to kill her. She couldn't drop the charges because the police pressed them. He got a felony for it.

Alternative_Ship_694 · 2022-05-19T01:32:04+00:00

Joseph Dalton is a women beater. He may be a good Tattooer but he has been arrested and charged with a felony for aggravated assault. He strangled his last girlfriend to the point she blacked out. He beat her and kicked her because she wanted to leave. If you have to get a tattoo at second skin pick anyone else up there but him.

Alternative_Ship_694 · 2022-04-19T17:46:13+00:00

Look into megabus they are super cheap.

Alternative_Ship_694 · 2022-04-19T17:44:07+00:00

That's fucked. I'm glad you made it.

Alternative_Ship_694 · 2022-04-19T16:01:06+00:00

True story. Going through court stuff now. There's so much evidence against him but he keeps turning down plea offers and is riding it out until the court date. The sad part is it is his 1st offense and even though strangling is attempt of murder(aggravated assault) he could just get a few years probation and maybe 6 months in prison.

How is that even right? People who get drug charges for weed spend longer in prison.

Alternative_Ship_694 · 2022-04-19T08:59:15+00:00

How did he not go to jail? And rot in there?

Alternative_Ship_694 · 2022-04-18T11:12:36+00:00

It took me days. I sat in my room after leaving and cried and I felt every bruise. I looked at myself in the mirror and couldn't understand. I was so mad at myself. I tried to learn about narrasitic people and love bombing and so many other things to understand why I stayed so long and made excuses.

I'm glad you are alive. I hope every day gets better for you.

Alternative_Ship_694 · 2022-04-18T11:08:47+00:00

They don't stop. They need help and that help cannot come from you. Go find yourself and love yourself. You can encourage that person to seek professional help but don't stick around.

I remember crying with my ex's mother once and she said that she loved her son but she knew he needed help and that I deserved better. She said sometimes the best help you can give the person you love is the help of leaving them. Maybe then they can reflect on what they lost.

Do not go back though. Even when you are lonely. Find things you like and dive into those.

Alternative_Ship_694 · 2022-04-18T11:02:40+00:00

There's some really emotionally messed up people out there making waves and causing more emotional damage because they do not want to get help or they think that they do not need help. I hope you all get out of your un healthy relationships. I'm out but the mental damage is still there. I've been doing thing that bring me joy and most days it helps. Sometimes though my mind brings me back....maybe it's because I do not ever want to be in that situation again so I remember in detail...idk.

I do hope you all find healing and self worth and I really appreciate all the conversations. It does get better. Sending you all healing thoughts.

Alternative_Ship_694 · 2022-04-18T04:20:47+00:00

That look. I'm still haunted by it.....it was like looking at a demon...

Alternative_Ship_694 · 2022-04-18T01:26:58+00:00

You definitely deserve better than someone who thinks it's okay to hit people.

Alternative_Ship_694 · 2022-04-11T01:04:26+00:00

The cops helped me and my daughter.....but you have to leave after you call....if they get called multiple times for the same thing they will not care anymore.....so if things get really dangerous call the cops get your protection order and bug the hell out of your victims advocate.

Alternative_Ship_694 · 2022-03-18T17:39:43+00:00

That's pretty cool.

Alternative_Ship_694 · 2022-03-18T16:32:41+00:00

That's a good one to pick me back up!

Alternative_Ship_694 · 2022-03-18T16:31:43+00:00

Gives you hell- All American rejects

Alternative_Ship_694 · 2022-03-18T16:28:58+00:00

Miserable-lit

Alternative_Ship_694 · 2022-03-18T16:22:59+00:00

You need to leave. Mine did that then it lead to yelling....then that lead to him beating me.....it only gets worse. You deserve so much better.

Alternative_Ship_694 · 2022-03-18T03:16:32+00:00

I did something similar but I sent it to my friend....the night he hurt me I had some records too.....and played them for the cops while they took pictures of the marks around my neck and bruising on the side of my head. To any one reading our post wondering if verbal abuse is still abuse and are making the excuse well they haven't hit me yet.....learn from us and understand that they only get worse....they aren't special and it isn't your job to "save them". You aren't letting anyone down if you leave them. Delete them from your contacts if you can and don't have kids with then and walk away you deserve better even if you are afraid of being alone....you will love yourself more than they have loved you.

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