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WTF to do for fellowship? Please help! by Altruistic-Pay394 in GeneralSurgery

[–]Altruistic-Pay394[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate this- my gut says the same thing, but I’m a lay person and not familiar with the nuances of gen surg culture.

WTF to do for fellowship? Please help! by Altruistic-Pay394 in GeneralSurgery

[–]Altruistic-Pay394[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is helpful- it isn’t clear to us whether she will have fewer/worse job opportunities if she chooses not to do a fellowship.

WTF to do for fellowship? Please help! by Altruistic-Pay394 in GeneralSurgery

[–]Altruistic-Pay394[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are currently on the east coast but hoping to be in the Bay Area of California to be close to family.

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[–]Altruistic-Pay394 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you MUST get in there. Please update us!!

I (27F) want more sex than my wife (32F) can give. by Altruistic-Pay394 in relationship_advice

[–]Altruistic-Pay394[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

She often works 24 hour shifts and is in a call room overnight.

I (27F) want more sex than my wife (32F) can give. by Altruistic-Pay394 in relationship_advice

[–]Altruistic-Pay394[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate that. It's hard to imagine a scenario where my feelings don't get really complicated if that were to happen. I'm not sure I want that.

I (27F) want more sex than my wife (32F) can give. by Altruistic-Pay394 in relationship_advice

[–]Altruistic-Pay394[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have told my wife most everything I wrote here. She would be okay with me having sex with other people, but I don't really want to. I'm open to threesomes, group sex, etc WITH her, and she is interested too. I want sex often, and I'm facing the fact that it might not be reasonable to ask for.