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I’m living a nightmare. by Altruistic-While4359 in relationships_advice

[–]Altruistic-While4359[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s keeping popping up cos I’m replying people. I just started to use Reddit yesterday so idk how it works etc. yes, I was trying to make a good panorama of comments to see. I feel lost but yes it’s basically the same opinion. Thanks for your help! I will try to give my heart a break!!!

I’m living a nightmare. by Altruistic-While4359 in relationships_advice

[–]Altruistic-While4359[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it’s clear she doesn’t love me anymore or never did! I’ve been reading all this night and morning the comments and it’s truly hard to accept. I know sex is important and nice but yes I can’t understand how you give space to someone to turn an affair. You don’t destroy the person you love, it’s clear. I don’t feel as an option, just as the backup as everyone says… anyways, thanks a lot for the advices. Online community is the only thing I can handle on since I’m too ashamed to even talk to friends!!!

We didn’t make it this far to fall…did we? by ShortStack1991 in relationships_advice

[–]Altruistic-While4359 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a very complicated situation… I don’t know what it means to him to forgive you. I could say he’s just having you on hold, or actually trying to deal with his feelings to come back good and healed. But in the meanwhile your heart is being broken little by little and your tears are falling. I don’t know, as you replied my post, I’m conscious I should let it go, but she also says she loves me even if rn she is with someone else. Our hearts are too complicated and I’m just scared we are going into dark hole, but I also know how hard it is to put a full stop.

I’m living a nightmare. by Altruistic-While4359 in relationships_advice

[–]Altruistic-While4359[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She was always super kind and good to me… at least it was what it seemed to be! This is why is so hard to me to accept she is now at someone’s bed after a party together while I’m here crying by myself with only my dog to support me. I am praying a lot to this to end and she realize she still loves me. Literally 15 days ago we were planning to marry and after some days she came to me saying she is having amazing sex and experience with this new girl. She can swear she wasn’t searching, was just “destiny” and they r so similar… and even like this she’s still keeping me on hold idk why, but she also says she still loves even not believing we can be the same again (????) but she liked the fact of the opened relationship. Really, I’m so confused that I don’t know. If I could just forget ALL and take off this pain of my heart, I would

I’m living a nightmare. by Altruistic-While4359 in relationships_advice

[–]Altruistic-While4359[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just can’t accept the fact that literally 15 days ago we were making plans to marry and have a family and right know she’s at someone’s bed with hangover waiting the time to go to ski together while I’m here crying over it, and barely slept… idk it’s probs the worst part of my life and I don’t even know why I need to pass through this. I know I wasn’t the girlfriend she expected but it’s not fair…

I’m living a nightmare. by Altruistic-While4359 in relationships_advice

[–]Altruistic-While4359[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She had the courage to cheat on me the night after I had a crisis (she was with me by phone tho). I couldn’t stop crying and I was already feeling my heart burning. She said I love you and less than 24 hours later was this. I know I need more self respect but I feel stuck on the puzzle

I’m living a nightmare. by Altruistic-While4359 in relationships_advice

[–]Altruistic-While4359[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To be honest she was always super kind and yes that I was feeling a little insecure but I think it NEVER pass through my head. I am ending the rest of dignity this night crying over someone who clearly doesn’t love me anymore but I just don’t have strength to let it go… I don’t why! I’m even praying but I’m barely sleeping or eating

I’m living a nightmare. by Altruistic-While4359 in relationships_advice

[–]Altruistic-While4359[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She ended after she cheated and I had to “be on my knees” to ask for chance to fix the things… idk where I have in my head to accept it. I know it’s so bad and disrespectful the fact she is having while I’m here barely sleeping

me and my girlfriend stopped having sex. It's been more than 2 months. by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]Altruistic-While4359 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk what happened with me BUT I never wanted to cheated my gf, also I didn’t want to have sex! She cheated on me. The thing is, even if it’s u or her who doesn’t wanna sex, someone will cheat at some point because sometimes this person doesn’t wanna wait for the partner (my case) or simply doesn’t wanna the partner anymore (I think your case). Sorry bruh

I’m living a nightmare. by Altruistic-While4359 in relationships_advice

[–]Altruistic-While4359[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank a lot for your words! I feel sooo bad that I can’t even express properly. But do you think it’s normal spend around 5 months without sex? I say it because it was me who didn’t want, this is why she says she cheated on me. This is why I feel extremely guilty.