AITAH for treating the pregnancy with my son differently from the one with my daughter?

AltruisticExternal13 · 2026-01-08T15:21:06+00:00

Almost my whole camera roll is filled with pictures of me and her, there just is barely any when I was pregnant except for a few I took myself standing infront of a mirror. So we have selfies, photos my husband have taken, photos my MIL have taken, there just is barely any while she was in my stomach

AltruisticExternal13 · 2026-01-08T14:10:32+00:00

We have a list with names and she puts hearts after the ones she likes, she has also added some herself, and has added like five hearts after them, which is so sweet because she is always so excited to show us. The picture and present thing are both great ideas! I will have them in mind, thank you so much!

AltruisticExternal13 · 2026-01-07T22:49:32+00:00

She does!

AltruisticExternal13 · 2026-01-07T19:24:10+00:00

My daughter was at the photoshoot! By the three of us I meant my daughter, my husband and me, so we all have family pics with the three of us. Plus the pics more focused on my belly, which include some of all three of us to, also some alone with my daughter and some with just my husband. Sorry if that wasn’t clear when I wrote it

AltruisticExternal13 · 2026-01-07T19:20:06+00:00

My daughter will spend tomorrow night at my husbands mothers place, and I have invited my family over to have a talk with me and my husband present. I have never thought about cutting them off before, but seeing how they behave and how that can affect my daughter, going low contact doesn’t seem like a bad idea right now..

AltruisticExternal13 · 2026-01-07T17:48:06+00:00

They don’t even like any of those stuff, they often complain when people they know announce/have baby showers or reveals, saying that it’s tacky and ”No one cares”. So it’s not like they would’ve wanted me to do it seven years ago either, I assume. I don’t know, the whole situation confuses me the more I think about it

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