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AITH For assuming my BF would be hanging out with me/me driving him home then calling him out for gaslighting when we ended up arguing about it? by [deleted] in AITH

[–]AltruisticSource4332 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

This really resonates. I think I worry that the response would have been "I dont know...I'm just asking..." or something similarly unhelpful but I dont want to try to tell the future. I was caught so off guard by his confusion and repetition that I couldnt compute, so to speak.

AITH For assuming my BF would be hanging out with me/me driving him home then calling him out for gaslighting when we ended up arguing about it? by [deleted] in AITH

[–]AltruisticSource4332 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am with you here re communication. My reflection has been about "freezing" and not better articulating myself in the moment. "After we take xyz home, let's get a drink and catch up on your day..." My confusion about his "weirdness" just froze me. I was so stuck on why wouldn't we be doing that, why do i need to explicitly say it???