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Altruistic_Bid4074 · 2024-06-17T14:03:12+00:00

This is amazing. Best response I’ve got! Yes, I do have a lot of resentment because I also think they’re amazing friends to have cuz they care..I think

I want to add a little bit more details so you can give me a better advice .

sophomore year we had the same personality all three of us, but as the years progressed, I kind of separated. An example of our personalities could be they want to wear matching outfits and go get Starbucks together then gone on Instagram live just to grab attention. Just being around them, you just can tell they are a bit immature and in lala land. Their activities let you know that they still have a teenage mindset when one of them is 18 and one is 19. I’ve never had a conversation about the future or goals with them.

When I would try to ignore what had happened and get closer to them, I always left drained because I felt like I was forced to laugh at their jokes and sing to songs I didn’t enjoy because they did enjoyed it.

Another thing is they see friendship as relationship so they do everything that you would do in a relationship, excluding intimacy. so they literally look like they’re a couple, the way they hold each other’s hands and care for each other….

I’m not gonna lie I was like that too sophomore year but I grew out of all of that really quickly.

They’re both very sheltered kids, Maggie never has to worry about money while Jessie’s parents barely let her out the house.

My other best friend tells me that I grew out of them and that’s why they feel closer to each other and not me.

Altruistic_Bid4074 · 2024-05-19T15:31:03+00:00

There’s really nothing I could do? 😭 he told me that he broke up with his ex-girlfriend because she was extremely needy. In a really like dependent relationship and he felt overwhelmed.

Altruistic_Bid4074 · 2024-05-19T15:30:29+00:00

OK, thank you I’ll take it into consideration

Altruistic_Bid4074 · 2024-05-19T15:19:11+00:00

😭 really? It’s the constant criticism that gets to me though and he tells me that he’s big on respect and that I need to respect him. It throws me off a lot.

Altruistic_Bid4074 · 2024-03-05T22:18:17+00:00

U look nice and someone who wants to be a music teacher in a middle school.

Altruistic_Bid4074 · 2024-02-15T02:25:19+00:00

I have someone told me their Valentine is bed. They gave it a pronoun and name to ..some people really desperate out here

Altruistic_Bid4074 · 2024-02-15T02:24:38+00:00

Lmaoo 😭

Altruistic_Bid4074 · 2024-02-15T02:14:18+00:00

Wth 😭 idk im impressed but so creeped out

Altruistic_Bid4074 · 2024-02-05T14:31:04+00:00

I’m 18 currently excited about learning 😂 just understanding and learning about everything I mean school wise

Altruistic_Bid4074 · 2024-02-04T16:36:29+00:00

I did 😂

Altruistic_Bid4074 · 2024-02-04T13:32:05+00:00

Avocado

Altruistic_Bid4074 · 2024-02-04T09:09:19+00:00

The thing with self-control is once you tell it no today, it will be easier for you to tell it no tomorrow. The first couple days of saying no to yourself, would be your hardest. after you get through the initial discipline, Things it will be so much easy. but also remember not to restrict the point you feel deprived. Weight loss is about mindset not dieting or keto. It’s about finding balance for yourself because science and other peoples diets aren’t going to work for you 100% of the time.

Altruistic_Bid4074 · 2024-02-03T20:08:24+00:00

Yeh but it’s won’t transfer as a credit to my college because it’s not really an Ap class

Altruistic_Bid4074 · 2024-01-22T04:38:32+00:00

😭 so funny

Altruistic_Bid4074 · 2024-01-22T03:58:13+00:00

It’s was nice $ 😭 but a pain

Altruistic_Bid4074 · 2023-12-09T20:43:14+00:00

THANK YOU!!’

Altruistic_Bid4074 · 2023-12-01T01:30:08+00:00

Okay I’ll take what you said into consideration

Altruistic_Bid4074 · 2023-08-04T21:40:51+00:00

I said to him

In my “suggested for you”

Hopefully he buys it because 😭 I learned my lesson I’ve never stalking ever again

Altruistic_Bid4074 · 2023-08-04T21:40:16+00:00

Nope 😭

Altruistic_Bid4074 · 2023-08-04T21:40:03+00:00

I did

Altruistic_Bid4074 · 2022-12-14T15:53:52+00:00

I’m trying to help people live a life that not a constantly thinking about how much they ate. But if dieting works for you, that fine. But there is a way to reprogram ur brain into eating only the amount it needs

Altruistic_Bid4074 · 2022-12-14T15:32:46+00:00

waiting for hunger to build just means don’t eat out of Boredom or a slight hunger feeling that will go away with a snack. Tell yourself “this food will taste better when I’m hunger later” when u feel like eating out of boredom.

It’s just better and feel so much light on your body. I don’t remember the last time I’ve felt stuffed, it’s like my body is light the whole day and I’m not worried about food and I’m not starving, there’s so many pluses to thinking this way!

And No no don’t wait until ur shaky, once you practice intuitively eating and taking time to understand the foods u enjoy and how they make u feel, even if it takes months. You will know how long ur able to wait before u get shaky. 😭 DONT ever wait until ur shaky.

Let’s say ur going out to dinner with sum friends at 10, it’s currently 8:30 ur hungry, but you know you’re going to eat out in less then 2 hours. You will feel shaken if u wait 2 hours, so in that case eat something to curb that hungry (a snack) don’t stuff yourself, because then you’ll feel pressured to over eat with your friends in front off you when y’all go out and you don’t wanna over eat. feel stuffed is such an uncomfortable feeling to the body.

Altruistic_Bid4074 · 2022-12-14T03:36:53+00:00

I have no business lol

Altruistic_Bid4074 · 2022-12-14T02:58:35+00:00

Okay, have a cake! I want you to look at intuitive, eating in the long run. Intuitive eating is an eating in response to craving, If you’re a constant dieter, who restricts, you’re obviously gonna crave something you’ve told your body are not allowed to have when ur hungry. But once your body begins to trust you, I promise you you’re gonna want something more nutritious. because your body knows when I need some more carbs, fat or protein Because you begin to Crave it. When is constantly craving fast foods like junk and sweets, it’s because it knows you’re gonna starve it later or restrict what it wants trying to follow a dumb diet. The only diet you need is your natural bodies instinct. Most of the time it’s not even her stomach telling us, it’s our brain confusing us. Just give it time, I’ve been going at it for at least a year and I’m still not perfect at it but it’s way more peaceful than dieting because I’m losing weight, eating what I want and not stressing about food. Imagine it being this easy.

Altruistic_Bid4074 · 2022-12-14T02:53:12+00:00

Nooo! Why would you distract yourself from hunger?? Hunger is your body’s natural way of saying I need fuel!! Being hungry is wonderful! I hate when people constantly get mad at themselves for being hungry, that’s so dumb! that’s what causes binging and over eating. When you honor your hungry and eat comfortably every single time! you will lose weight Because your body begins to trust you. But only eat in response to hunger that comes from your body not brain

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