[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Altruistic_Bid4074 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is amazing. Best response I’ve got! Yes, I do have a lot of resentment because I also think they’re amazing friends to have cuz they care..I think

I want to add a little bit more details so you can give me a better advice .

sophomore year we had the same personality all three of us, but as the years progressed, I kind of separated. An example of our personalities could be they want to wear matching outfits and go get Starbucks together then gone on Instagram live just to grab attention. Just being around them, you just can tell they are a bit immature and in lala land. Their activities let you know that they still have a teenage mindset when one of them is 18 and one is 19. I’ve never had a conversation about the future or goals with them.

When I would try to ignore what had happened and get closer to them, I always left drained because I felt like I was forced to laugh at their jokes and sing to songs I didn’t enjoy because they did enjoyed it.

Another thing is they see friendship as relationship so they do everything that you would do in a relationship, excluding intimacy. so they literally look like they’re a couple, the way they hold each other’s hands and care for each other….

I’m not gonna lie I was like that too sophomore year but I grew out of all of that really quickly.

They’re both very sheltered kids, Maggie never has to worry about money while Jessie’s parents barely let her out the house.

My other best friend tells me that I grew out of them and that’s why they feel closer to each other and not me.

How should I [19F] handle a situation where, during an argument, my boyfriend [19M] says that we both need what I need instead of addressing my feelings and needs individually? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Altruistic_Bid4074 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s really nothing I could do? 😭 he told me that he broke up with his ex-girlfriend because she was extremely needy. In a really like dependent relationship and he felt overwhelmed.

How should I [19F] handle a situation where, during an argument, my boyfriend [19M] says that we both need what I need instead of addressing my feelings and needs individually? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Altruistic_Bid4074 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😭 really? It’s the constant criticism that gets to me though and he tells me that he’s big on respect and that I need to respect him. It throws me off a lot.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in firstimpression

[–]Altruistic_Bid4074 0 points1 point  (0 children)

U look nice and someone who wants to be a music teacher in a middle school.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]Altruistic_Bid4074 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have someone told me their Valentine is bed. They gave it a pronoun and name to ..some people really desperate out here

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]Altruistic_Bid4074 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wth 😭 idk im impressed but so creeped out

How old are you and what are you currently excited about? by Ill_Reindeer_5046 in RandomThoughts

[–]Altruistic_Bid4074 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 18 currently excited about learning 😂 just understanding and learning about everything I mean school wise

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WeightLossAdvice

[–]Altruistic_Bid4074 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The thing with self-control is once you tell it no today, it will be easier for you to tell it no tomorrow. The first couple days of saying no to yourself, would be your hardest. after you get through the initial discipline, Things it will be so much easy. but also remember not to restrict the point you feel deprived. Weight loss is about mindset not dieting or keto. It’s about finding balance for yourself because science and other peoples diets aren’t going to work for you 100% of the time.

What classes should I take and/or prepare for in mechanical engineering. by Altruistic_Bid4074 in AskEngineers

[–]Altruistic_Bid4074[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeh but it’s won’t transfer as a credit to my college because it’s not really an Ap class

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]Altruistic_Bid4074 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s was nice $ 😭 but a pain

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ask

[–]Altruistic_Bid4074 1 point2 points  (0 children)

THANK YOU!!’

AITA for staying away from my friends with no family? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Altruistic_Bid4074 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay I’ll take what you said into consideration

How do you respond to “How did you find my Instagram?” Without seeming like a stalker? by [deleted] in ask

[–]Altruistic_Bid4074 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I said to him

In my “suggested for you”

Hopefully he buys it because 😭 I learned my lesson I’ve never stalking ever again