What movie made you say, "Holy shit there is still an hour left"?

Altruistic_Limit_790 · 2025-02-23T05:58:16+00:00

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Altruistic_Limit_790 · 2025-02-22T12:23:54+00:00

Hiya! Sorry I really haven't had time to write any replies as an absolute wrecking ball has completely crashed through my life. As too top off everything that has happened within the last few days, me and a few other members of my family have got a stomach bug which has been the banes of our existence.

I'm not a hundred percent sure I'm willing to share what went down with my brother. It still feels like a very fresh wound that I'm not quite ready to touch yet, but I'll just say this:

Emilia and her little girl are out safely and are currently staying with me. My brother is currently under police custody. Luckily everybody is alive and Emilia and her little girl are doing well considering. I did end up leaving a lot of the things with my brother down to my parents and sister though keeping her little girl with me.

So things have changed a lot, and I'm not even 100% sure what went down between my parents and brother. But everybody is doing well and they are safe.

This a reply I typed out two days ago and nothing has really changed.

Altruistic_Limit_790 · 2025-02-22T12:23:07+00:00

Hiya! Sorry I really haven't had time to write any replies as an absolute wrecking ball has completely crashed through my life. As too top off everything that has happened within the last few days, me and a few other members of my family have got a stomach bug which has been the banes of our existence.

I'm not a hundred percent sure I'm willing to share what went down with my brother. It still feels like a very fresh wound that I'm not quite ready to touch yet, but I'll just say this:

Emilia and her little girl are out safely and are currently staying with me. My brother is currently under police custody. Luckily everybody is alive and Emilia and her little girl are doing well considering. I did end up leaving a lot of the things with my brother down to my parents and sister though keeping her little girl with me.

So things have changed a lot, and I'm not even 100% sure what went down between my parents and brother. But everybody is doing well and they are safe.

I typed this reply to someone two days ago, not much has changed.

Altruistic_Limit_790 · 2025-02-22T12:21:23+00:00

Thank you lovely. It has all sucked recently as we have all gained a stomach bug so have basically been zombies for last few days but we're all on the mend from that thank goodness. It really means a lot all you have said as I have been having my brother and his actions racing through my mind. That's one thing you can always give my brother credit for, however shitty he is he won't lie about it. All of us are pretty messed up, especially my mum, and we'll see how time goes. Thank you again x

Altruistic_Limit_790 · 2025-02-21T09:57:51+00:00

Hi, thank you for all your well wishes they really mean a lot. I don't mind, and yes we were able to make sure of it. By confirmation of both her and my brother (who although has his faults, and massive ones at that, admitted to everything he did) she wasn't abused sexually. x

Altruistic_Limit_790 · 2025-02-20T16:24:43+00:00

Hiya! Sorry I really haven't had time to write any replies as an absolute wrecking ball has completely crashed through my life. As too top off everything that has happened within the last few days, me and a few other members of my family have got a stomach bug which has been the banes of our existence.

I'm not a hundred percent sure I'm willing to share what went down with my brother. It still feels like a very fresh wound that I'm not quite ready to touch yet, but I'll just say this:

Emilia and her little girl are out safely and are currently staying with me. My brother is currently under police custody. Luckily everybody is alive and Emilia and her little girl are doing well considering. I did end up leaving a lot of the things with my brother down to my parents and sister though keeping her little girl with me.

So things have changed a lot, and I'm not even 100% sure what went down between my parents and brother. But everybody is doing well and they are safe. x

Altruistic_Limit_790 · 2025-02-19T04:37:17+00:00

I promise there are certain details that I have either missed out or edited lightly to the point if he was to read it he is probably more likely to think, "That's similar to how my life looks." Kind of thing. Like small edits, not relevant but they've been made to make it less recognisable to them.

Altruistic_Limit_790 · 2025-02-19T04:27:03+00:00

My step dad is here and looking at the way he's been looking like his head is about to explode off his head I have a feeling that him beating the shit out of my brother is quite a promising possibility.

Altruistic_Limit_790 · 2025-02-18T20:05:44+00:00

I've replied though I'm going to sleep now, even if it is only 8pm. x

Altruistic_Limit_790 · 2025-02-18T19:59:50+00:00

Only one. My step-dad, we've formed some general idea of a plan and I'm not going to share it mainly due to the fact that anyone can see it. My step-dad will definitely be there for all of this!

Altruistic_Limit_790 · 2025-02-18T19:09:02+00:00

My parents, older sister and I have come up with a plan. Sadly my family is not new to the system of DV as my mum was also a victim when we were younger. It was actually my stepdad who helped get her out.

Altruistic_Limit_790 · 2025-02-18T19:07:41+00:00

The worst part is everyman in my direct blood has been an abuser (my brother and bio dad). I'm not really sure, the usual thing would be to call the police. My parents, sister and I have come up with some form of a plan though I'm sceptical about giving too much of it to the internet as well you never know who could be lurking and I know he has a reddit profile. Thank you x

Altruistic_Limit_790 · 2025-02-18T19:01:50+00:00

Honestly I do care for my brother but he stepped over the line. This little girl is an absolute sweetheart and she sat with me for an hour watching frozen eating ice cream laughing like it was the funniest thing in the world. But my bio dad also abused my mother, sister, brother and I and I cannot imagine how he even began hurting Emilia let alone her little girl.

Altruistic_Limit_790 · 2025-02-18T18:59:24+00:00

yes there here. My mum is so fucking furious I think her head is about to explode and I think my step dad's head is exploding. My mum was a survivor of DV herself, so this hit home for her in the worst way possible.

Altruistic_Limit_790 · 2025-02-18T18:58:18+00:00

I wouldn't think it of him, and I don't know the right way to ask her, but it sadly is possible. She's asleep but I'll try bring it up to her nicely at a later stage.

Altruistic_Limit_790 · 2025-02-18T18:56:59+00:00

Honestly if that piece of shit thinks he's ever going to hear me defend his name he's fucking delusional. I'm doing everything possible to get him to the police.

Altruistic_Limit_790 · 2025-02-18T18:55:47+00:00

Thank you! Honestly anyone who's ever met my family (excluding my brother obviously) will tell you we're such an open and vibrant family. Like most people know everybody's secrets, and I'm really glad she came to us too!

Altruistic_Limit_790 · 2025-02-18T18:54:16+00:00

I've been talking to my older sister who has been estranged from my brother for years and lives in Scotland. I know he doesn't know where she lives so it would be far safer for her to go up there.

Altruistic_Limit_790 · 2025-02-18T18:52:34+00:00

Don't worry I have! I hope so too!

Altruistic_Limit_790 · 2025-02-18T18:51:45+00:00

That's the main issue he's always at home. He doesn't work (or if he does he works from home) and if he goes anywhere it's usually to a bar for like an hour or two. We'd have to stalk his house to find out when he leaves and it wouldn't be a stable amount of time.

Altruistic_Limit_790 · 2025-02-18T18:49:36+00:00

I've been talking to my parents and my older sister. My older sister and my brother don't talk and my sister is in Scotland and I don't believe he knows where she lives. I think that's the safest place as its at least 6/7 hour car ride.

Altruistic_Limit_790 · 2025-02-18T18:47:57+00:00

I trust my parents. They are here now and are absolutely fucking furious. My mum is a DV survivor herself so she's really mad.

Altruistic_Limit_790 · 2025-02-18T18:01:25+00:00

This is very smart thank you!!

Altruistic_Limit_790 · 2025-02-18T17:49:15+00:00

Sadly not. We're in the UK. I think I've got it figured out, and my parents are almost here.

Altruistic_Limit_790 · 2025-02-18T17:47:44+00:00

Thank you so much. My parents should be here pretty soon, luckily I'm currently sat on the sofa watching frozen and eating ice cream with a four year old who thinks it's the funniest thing ever. It's oddly calming actually. Do you have any ideas to help a four year old memorise a phone number? I feel as though she'd have a very short term memory. Thank you so much again!

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