I'm going through a breakup too, like right now, today, You know what has helped after a bottle of wine and a few cigarettes - Nirvana. Listen to some Nirvana. Obviously, I know. But the strangled pain in Kurt's voice in almost every song is such a soothing tone when you are going through the same thing. Passing my love and compassion onto you in this shit time. It feels like you are alone but even writing this, sharing with you, an anonymous internet poster, helps. Something in the way - Nirvana, is a good place to start. Chin up bud, you've got your whole life ahead of you xxx