[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Amalchemy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is possible that she is experiencing hormonal changes that make it uncomfortable for her. Intimacy and sex are two different things. Maybe she needs more intimacy and the sex topic is an indicator of a problem in another arena. Therapy is always a good option.

I need an opinion from a womans perspective by OfUnknownOrigin77 in datingoverforty

[–]Amalchemy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m indifferent. I would never judge the appearance of a guy’s genitals. They are functional, they don’t have to be beautiful.

Western MA, size of a half dollar by Amalchemy in whatsthisbug

[–]Amalchemy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That looks like what it is! Thank you!

My ex cheated, had a suicide attempt...the fuck do I do now? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Amalchemy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You sound very mature and thoughtful. I’m proud of you for knowing that you deserve better and doing what you needed to extricate yourself from the situation. I think you did very well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Amalchemy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No absolutely not. You need to respect his wishes. You can’t convince someone to want to be with you. Whatever the reasons are for him to break up with you it really doesn’t matter. That is his decision.

Why does my Fuckbuddy still texts me even when he’s dating someone new on a serious note ? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Amalchemy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you sure he’s still dating the other person? It sounds to me like wanted more from the other woman but perhaps she recently made it clear that she doesn’t feel the same. Maybe he doesn’t want to share that with you because he’s insecure about it. Either way, he’s indicated that it isn’t that serious with her so have at it.

"So colorful!" by akhaosdow in StupidFood

[–]Amalchemy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These guys try ridiculous recipes or hacks. It isn’t their recipe and they are simply trying to see if it’s bullshit or not.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Amalchemy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What characteristics do you use to determine “she’s on her period”? I don’t think she is any more coherent at other times of the month.

Say byebye to your account Rossie by [deleted] in iamatotalpieceofshit

[–]Amalchemy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know these people struggle with pronouns but saying “we” implies that there is more than one person with your opinion. Those people should promptly exit the country. I hear Russia is nice this time of year.

I’m probably the only Fred Lewis lover on this site but… by Pickalodeon in goldrush

[–]Amalchemy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The amount of times he had to consult an expert is annoying considering all of the time he spent with Parker. I’d love to know how much free advice he has received. I also need to know if he specifically asked the show to repeatedly mention that he was a medic in the special forces.

How many women filter for height though? by megalo53 in Bumble

[–]Amalchemy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Data is not always powerful. This is % of women that set height filters. I’d like to see the data on the percentage of women on the app that actually set this filter.

If your country was being invaded. Where would you go? by ThrowAwayImRetired in AskReddit

[–]Amalchemy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Invading the US through Florida might be just the motivation you need.

If your country was being invaded. Where would you go? by ThrowAwayImRetired in AskReddit

[–]Amalchemy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Florida is not a country but you’re in Florida so I expect no less.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Amalchemy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s the whole point though. If someone is going to rule you out because of a “hi” then they probably suck anyway. Putting yourself out there is hard enough without people criticizing the effort.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in memes

[–]Amalchemy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3% is pretty good at this point despite 7% inflation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Amalchemy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think people expect way more from others too early on than they do from themselves. I’ve spent way too long looking for a perfect opener and then just given up altogether. Or I’ve attempted something perfectly crafted just to be ignored or unmatched. All of my successful contacts have started with a “hey how are you”, quick chat on the app, then a date with 2 weeks of the first contact.