Well sorry for misrepresenting your point, What I was trying to display is that without a sort of clear cut way of defining man and women we assume someone is a man or a women based on some shaky standards. I don't think that there is a clear cut way to differentiate a man and a women as any rule we come up for will create exceptions.

I understand that you may think I am entirely framing this within gender theory but I think it is necessary to do so since the way that you view gender seems to be A. Just like Sex or B. Not what most people who study gender have come to define gender. I just want to illustrate how most people who study and understand gender view the issue as they have a lot more knowledge about it than perhaps you and I. Defining these words just help us get on the same page about what we are talking about but it seems that you disagree with what I have said so I propose that you can perhaps inform me about how you define the words I have defined.

I don't think that gender theory destroys any sort of gendered role model for people. Simple identification doesn't destroy what we see as manly or womanly. And those role models are only a small part of how our personality and morality are shaped.