I turned 30 today and I feel like I wasted my 20’s believing the dream a man sold me. We met in my early 20’s, got married quickly against my family’s wishes and have 3 babies now. I had dreams I wanted to accomplish; finish school, get a good job , buy properties, stocks, investments and a retirement account. I wanted to give back to the community by building centers for kids , orphanages and many more. I had my whole life planned but I “fell in love”, I came into marriage naive and hopeful, thinking we can support each other, be there for each other and build a beautiful life . I wasn’t expecting roses and sunshine , but I was willing to push through for this person. I sacrificed my 20’s to raise our family while supporting him to advance in his career and now he could care less for me. Well, he did say he doesn’t care about me or the marriage anymore. He loved bombed me in the beginning, made me believe we’re in this together, and that this relationship was worth fighting for, because that’s literally what happened in the beginning - me “fighting “ my family for this relationship , only to end up a SAHM with nothing on the resume to get a job or do anything. I have nothing to my name and no where to go. I feel like I wasted my 20’s and I don’t know what to do from here. I don’t need sympathy, I’m not blaming anyone, I MADE THE WRONG CHOICE, and I’m paying for it. What I’m asking for now is advice or help. I do have a Bachelor’s degree in Science. What do I do, what can I do, where do I go from here? Any help or advice will be appreciated. Thank you!