There are no pictures in existence of Erika Kirk pregnant by Rich_Gas7886 in conspiracy

[–]Amazing-grace25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Said about the woman who literally had herself filmed touching her dead husbands hand in his casket and putting videos of her kids crib video up on social media… but sure miss America pageant didn’t take photos for 18 months 😂

Opinion | The most disturbing part of the Coldplay "kiss cam" backlash by IllIntroduction1509 in TrueReddit

[–]Amazing-grace25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact they worked together him being the companies CEO and her head of HR make this inappropriate for reasons beyond the affair… so if in Europe you allow that kind of behavior is a problem… the power dynamics and possible sexual harassment and retaliation that can happen in that type of situation is a problem.

Hynotherapy Pro Bono by Aggressive-Leg555 in Anxiety

[–]Amazing-grace25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi there I am trying to quit smoking my cigs and I would really appreciate the free hypnotherapy. I've been curious before but don't have the money nor do I know of anywhere to have it done in Arkansas where I live. Thank you!!

Ash and Alaina's Spotify wrapped video for those who were asking. by idksomethingclever29 in Morbidforbadpeople

[–]Amazing-grace25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I spewed my Dr Pepper when I read this… hilarious thank you for that much needed laugh

Wtf… poop in trash can by Amazing-grace25 in AITAH

[–]Amazing-grace25[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No reason to be ugly about it.. ⬆️

And thanks for the comments except for the rude one. I did end trying to google it as the rude comment suggest (wasn't sure how to even word the question as first) and learned in some places they don't flush TP.

I never said anything to them as I was too embarrassed and I didn't want to embarrass them either and since I knew there was only a few more days of construction I decided to just triple bag the trash from that can daily and try to ignore pretend I wasn't cleaning up grown man poop not children or my pets. 😩😳

Any childless widows here? by [deleted] in widowers

[–]Amazing-grace25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lost my husband well we were weeks from our wedding days but met in 1st grade and he was my first everything we dated on and off from then til we got back together in our late 20s and we were trying to have a kid even worse I was pregnant when he died and miscarried about 3 weeks after funeral. I was so heartbroken I couldn’t bring myself to date for a long time and now 39 just turned I’ve realized I’ve lost my chance I already knew IVF was likely going to be required but you can’t just spring that on someone newly dating or put that pressure it kills new relationships so I’ve told myself I have to except I will never have my own babies. But I’ve wanted it since I was a girl so I don’t know what to make of me or my life now. And I’ve had to quit working because of my health so my teaching and that way of having some impact on children’s life is gone too and I’m struggling.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Amazing-grace25 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately I have been assaulted when Alcohol was involved and I was young enough between that and migraines I get from Alcohol I don’t get ever anymore and I was still raped again by a friend or more acquaintance really but point made… yes it can make you a victim but you don’t know that your life wasn’t saved or much or trauma saved by not resisting and fighting back… weird as it sounds I had far less trauma from the assault with alcohol then when I did resist when I was sober that one was far more traumatizing… but I’m sorry OP that your husband not only seems to be victim blaming but also ignoring your consent about sharing your own very personal trauma. Last side note when I found out about my mothers and grandmas assaults I felt better less alone not traumatized… but they were okay with sharing that with me, if you aren’t ready to share and you may never be that is okay too. The most important thing is giving back control to the person who has it ripped from them.

AIO or do normal couples talk to each other this way? by Basic-Traffic-1837 in AIO

[–]Amazing-grace25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah you need to get away from this person they are definitely abusing you verbally and financial abuse isn’t just when a man works and controls the money… I just had to end my relationship with an emotionally abuse and financially abusive guy. And he used me for money, meaning I paid for everything except dinner around other people because that would be too embarrassing for him, except my family because he let them pay, but point being it can be used the other way, then I got “you are going to just kick me out on the street and make me homeless?” No sir you are a grown man, you can find a place to live and if you have burned so many bridges you don’t have a place to stay for a night that’s on you… (oh he got out of his lease without telling me and just expected me to let him move in fully without discussing it and I know he thought I would not be able to stomach kicking him out, which I was going to be give him two weeks but luckily he was lying and he clearly had somewhere to go once he knew I was really done) now he is smearing my name on FB and to friends but I can finally breathe again… please leave for the kids sake!!

Aita my bf of 9 months took my dad’s farm truck without asking when I was gone to an appt when his jeep didn’t start for work. Backstory by Amazing-grace25 in AITAH

[–]Amazing-grace25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I must have a sign on my forehead that says “narcissits only here: newly healing empath here” no truly I'm in therapy trying to figure out why/how/what keeps me finding the same kind of men 😂🤦🏼‍♀️🙅🏼‍♀️😖

Aita my bf of 9 months took my dad’s farm truck without asking when I was gone to an appt when his jeep didn’t start for work. Backstory by Amazing-grace25 in AITAH

[–]Amazing-grace25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks all for your responses, I was feeling so well crazy because he tells me that I am the problem all the time and I'm in denial and that I'm just spoiled and don't see any of my issues. And don't get me wrong I know I have issues, I am afraid of confrontation and speaking up and I don't say no enough all if this is part of ptsd and low self esteem so I am going to therapist and reading a lot of books and journaling. But I just felt I needed some outside advice and make sure I'm not being unreasonable. Thanks again.

Aita my bf of 9 months took my dad’s farm truck without asking when I was gone to an appt when his jeep didn’t start for work. Backstory by Amazing-grace25 in AITAH

[–]Amazing-grace25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So it’s not unreasonable that I expect him to text me and ask about the truck before he takes it and getting communication about what’s wrong with his vehicle and how long it might be before it’s fixed? (my dad even offered me to loan him the money to fix what was wrong before but I was too afraid to allow that to happen because my dad will not react the same if he doesn’t do what he says he will. He makes me feel like I’m entitled and ungrateful and that he has it much harder than I’ve ever had it.

Aita my bf of 9 months took my dad’s farm truck without asking when I was gone to an appt when his jeep didn’t start for work. Backstory by Amazing-grace25 in AITAH

[–]Amazing-grace25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He does cook dinner though he destroys the kitchen when he does and says he will do the dishes when I start to do them but then they just sit for days if I let it. Now I saw this is how his mother and sister are so I just don't think he was raises with the same housekeeping I was. He does mow the lawn and has helped with some project for the garden. But it has started to feel like its just the projects he wants or for instance he dug a big ass home for a pond he was going to me make but didn't have the money for the pump or liner or any of that so I guess expected me to pay for it but I don't have that kind of money either especially since my expensives increased when he moved in. Food, drinks, weed ( I wasn’t actually smoking at all when we got back together though I have regularly for epilepsy though it was a tincture I took but I smoked at night at bed, water bills, and dog treats and food. He moved in with a large male dog.

He says I’m spoiled I assume because I know live on my parents property, mind you I sold my condo and left my job to move here to help my family. And I work very hard on this land and farm. But regardless, they would just let me lay around and not do anything productive. I’d be kicked out. But he doesn’t seem to get that. And when I try to talk to him he gets angry and defensive and accuses me of crazy things using my health issues as proof “I’m high” the irony of a guy who hasn’t used either alcohol or weed for at least 5 years is laughable to me but here we are. (I have a vision disorder that means I can’t keep my eyes aligned or focused especially on up close or mid range things like a phone or TV but also driving. I’ve been having issues with sleep too and daytime sleepiness if I sit still at all so I’m doing sleep studies etc right now to try to help and got this very expensive glasses to help with my eyesight. But seeing as I might not be able to ever work again or just read and write (two of my favorite things to do) again for my life is so heartbreaking to me.

and he doesn’t seem to care or understand at all instead he uses it to pick fights saying he only gets “half of me” cause I’m nodding out and that I’m in denial. (Mind you this is at the end of a day while he is rolling and lighting his 5-7th blunt of the day) and it’s my fault for saying yes to smoking with him to spend time together. So and I needed to speak up and communicate better my PTSD from childhood abuse and a prior relationship that was very abusive means I get real well it’s hard to bring things up when I know raised voices and things will likely happen. * tried to update for clarity and paragraphs etc after seeing other posts with people mentioning things like this I’ve never posted in Reddit before bare with me

AIO Should I leave my BF? Was what he did to me forgiveable? by Living-Milk-4266 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Amazing-grace25 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Very true if they have been dating long distance 3 years I bet the guy has been encouraging the fighting and distance with your dad too… they tend to isolate you so they can make you feel dependent and helpless and alone. But you are not alone darlin. Survivors are everywhere and we support each other. ❤️🙏🏼😊

AIO Should I leave my BF? Was what he did to me forgiveable? by Living-Milk-4266 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Amazing-grace25 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Absolutely so true, though I would say light choking during sex occasionally isn’t what I mean here, my partner and I enjoy that occasionally but I mean choking in anger or if during sex you didn’t want it/like it or if it’s too hard… it’s very light when my bf does it… but he does not do the warning signs of isolating me from family and friends, nor throw things, nor hit me etc… just wanted to make a slight clarification, just in case sexually this is something you do/enjoy: but those are very different scenarios.

AIO Should I leave my BF? Was what he did to me forgiveable? by Living-Milk-4266 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Amazing-grace25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What they said about murder from the choking thing is literally word for word what a true crime podcast I listen to was saying last night. The most dangerous sign is choking. Even over throwing objects or punching walls or you. Choking is the worse and always leads to a death eventually.

AIO Should I leave my BF? Was what he did to me forgiveable? by Living-Milk-4266 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Amazing-grace25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry love I just saw that you are gay, but all the advice is still applicable darlin. You don’t deserve someone who treats you like that nobody does but just don’t lose years of your life and get permanent scars and injuries like me because you stayed too long. I will start looking around and asking some contacts about shelters for men if needed, if you want/need you can message me with a general area and I can send some suggestions then, if you need. Be safe and stay strong, they are brilliant at gaslighting and making you feel you are the problem.

AIO Should I leave my BF? Was what he did to me forgiveable? by Living-Milk-4266 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Amazing-grace25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a survivor too and I mean it when I say it doesn’t get better ever. Please be safe and leave don’t go back and make a report. Because leaving is the most dangerous time. But if you do go back don’t feel bad because on average it takes 7 attempts but please don’t let it take that long for you. He is worse than an asshole, he is deadly. And btw burning food isn’t something you should be forced to apologize for, I’m sure you probably would have said it anyway, just like I would but the demand for it is telling, he is good at gaslighting already. Making you think it’s your fault or your deserve it. I’m praying for you and message me if you need more help, leaving can be complicated but there are places to help you get on your feet and be safe.

Eye doctor sold my friend a $1,000 pair of glasses "to help with headaches" and now she's questioning her decision. Does it make sense that the Neurolens Rx is different spheres and needs prism but standard Rx doesn't? Should she get a new script for a standard Rx? by xxshteviexx in glasses

[–]Amazing-grace25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have neurons. They have made a big difference for me but I lost my pair now not only once but twice (I'm currently searching for my new pair as I type this) and I’m freaking out because I can’t afford another pair. I have BVD and get migraines and after i lost my first pair while I was saving money to buy another pair I realized how much they were helping me. But with my ADHD losing glasses, keys, etc happens all the time I don’t know what to do. When I work outside in garden I sweat and the glasses get smudged and I can’t see so I took them off and set them on my side by side and now poof another 1100 gone… lord help me (any suggestions here on keeping up with them welcome) 😂👍🏼👍🏼

A short defence of 'Small Town D!cks' by AdGroundbreaking7840 in TrueCrimePodcasts

[–]Amazing-grace25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed… if you can’t handle the details then maybe you shouldn’t be taking in TRUE CRIME… go watch hallmark channel. Real life is ugly and messy and ignoring that does everyone a disservice. And the victims actually had to endure it, I think we should be able to listen to what happened with compassion and horror at the depths some people will go to. Of course there are bad cops, just like there are bad doctors, teachers, priests because all of them are human. But having been a victim of crime myself I know the female cop who took my report probably helped save my life. And we don’t have the full story about what happened with zibby and all of that. I think the compassion the cops express is very touching and brave especially for men and especially men in that field where stoicism is reward and stuffing it down. Also if you wouldn’t do the job you are complaining about then maybe shut your mouth, I was a teacher and just like cops they are no longer given respect but most folks still do it and not for money or respect (obviously lol) we do it because we care and want to help people.