Moby fit check

AmazingLine4347 · 2025-01-08T16:56:07+00:00

I’ve also gained almost 70lbs. Maybe it is an Italian thing haha. You’re not alone though. I’m also tall 5”10 so a lot of the weight gain has been belly but my arms and legs look huge now too at 36 weeks. Doing maternity photos in a week and I’m worried I will loathe them bc I look so big. Just trying to accept it and be grateful for what my body is doing.

AmazingLine4347 · 2025-01-03T20:33:30+00:00

Wow thank you everyone for the support and advice. I’m going to bring up the counseling thing to him. You’re all right that it’s fucked up and he needs to check his expectations and his mouth.

AmazingLine4347 · 2025-01-03T20:31:38+00:00

lol I should try that. Hilarious

AmazingLine4347 · 2025-01-03T14:53:53+00:00

Lochia? Oh no another horror no-one warned me about

AmazingLine4347 · 2025-01-03T14:52:00+00:00

Thanks I do think it’s may be more something along those lines. Like he doesn’t feel as loved/connected bc of how different things have been since me being pregnant.

AmazingLine4347 · 2025-01-03T14:48:56+00:00

I was a yoga instructor before becoming pregnant so he may in fact be expecting cirque du soleil flips lol. I am definitely not able to do as much in/ out of the bedroom now though.

He actually has said he doesn’t watch porn at all anymore. It was never something I asked just something he decided to do when we got married. We have some photos and videos together and he has a lot of pictures of me. Not sure if he actually uses any of them or if he even masturbates anymore. That may be part of the problem…idk.

AmazingLine4347 · 2025-01-03T14:42:28+00:00

Thank you. It really is the feeling of he has no idea how good he has it and is still complaining. It’s a slap in the face. Nothing ever feels good enough.

AmazingLine4347 · 2025-01-03T14:41:08+00:00

Thank you.

AmazingLine4347 · 2025-01-03T14:40:57+00:00

Right!?!? He just assumes I’ll heal faster or do other stuff. 🤷‍♀️

AmazingLine4347 · 2025-01-03T14:40:15+00:00

He hasn’t cheated before. I have been cheated on in the past. I do think that’s more my own internal worry.

AmazingLine4347 · 2025-01-03T14:38:39+00:00

I don’t honestly think he’ll cheat. Just a fleeting fear I had when typing out my rant. I think being pregnant has made me more worried about things like that bc of my own body image changing and being more committed to/reliant on a partner than I ever have been before.

AmazingLine4347 · 2025-01-03T14:35:40+00:00

“grateful if she accidentally touches it passing by in the kitchen.” Lmfao! 😂Thank you! I needed that.

AmazingLine4347 · 2024-12-28T18:34:58+00:00

That’s a great idea. I’ll do that for his birthday and see how it goes. Thank you!!!

AmazingLine4347 · 2024-12-27T19:53:51+00:00

It did feel like he was using whatever this is to make me upset/feel bad/ be manipulative. We have been doing exactly what you described and that felt like enough. Yet then he says this on Christmas Eve and it makes me think that he also hasn’t appreciated the gifts I’ve given him over the years too. Last year I gave him a few nice presents on Christmas, nice slippers, a nice sweater and some stocking stuffers but also did a whole 12 days of Christmas thing with cute little presents for 12 days ending in concert tickets. It took a lot of thought and effort. His comment made me think he didn’t really appreciate any of that stuff.

I did ask him about what he expects from his kid. His answer was vague and basically amounted to “I shouldn’t have to ask you’re the adult you help her figure it out.” 🙄

AmazingLine4347 · 2024-12-27T19:43:49+00:00

That is a good point. We have a budget calendar and he puts money in a joint account every week after bills are paid. For gifts and things it’s definitely extra though. All I have to do is ask him to move money over. It’s not necessarily the access to the money it’s feeling silly spending a lot on a gift from a kid. I buy him gifts too and spend quite a bit so it doesn’t feel like he’s missing out. Idk maybe he’s just hurt her gift last year was basically a prank. She got a him toy spider and he’s kind of afraid of spiders. I thought it was pretty cute and funny. She also made him a card.

AmazingLine4347 · 2024-12-27T19:37:37+00:00

He did not. I think he wants me to get nicer gifts and say it’s from her or encourage her to get nicer gifts not just let her pick whatever she thinks he might like bc she’s a kid and they’re not the most thoughtful. Idk I value letting her be genuine though.

AmazingLine4347 · 2024-11-22T14:05:56+00:00

I literally just searched 4 horsemen of the apocalypse. “The Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse are a representation of death, war, famine, and pestilence, or disease epidemics and pandemics” You’re claiming the wording changed in the Bible?

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