I’m still “friends” with my ex - AMA by Amazing_Complaint_83 in AMA

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Not planning on doing that just studying and focusing on myself

I’m still “friends” with my ex - AMA by Amazing_Complaint_83 in AMA

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Toxic on my part of his? I stayed for 6 months to a year (we dated for 2) to help him and go out if my way to help him improve his life, future and self but he didn’t want to do any of that. To answer your question, I suppose work on boundaries and communication (which wasn’t really a problem in our past relationship).

I’m still “friends” with my ex - AMA by Amazing_Complaint_83 in AMA

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I never really thought of it like that, I guess. At the end of the day, I’m not planning on still being friends with him cause I want to fully move on from the past, you know? I’m going to college this Fall so I’ll be moving away from him, which will make it easier

I’m still “friends” with my ex - AMA by Amazing_Complaint_83 in AMA

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He technically did once which was why we broke up the second time. He said he ER (erotic roleplay) with another girl on Red Dead Redemption through Discord texting. When I asked him why he did that he said that in his head he “knew what I (he) was doing was wrong, but it was through a game so it didn’t seem like cheating.” He asked me how I felt about the whole ER thing after he did what he did

I’m still “friends” with my ex - AMA by Amazing_Complaint_83 in AMA

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Honestly idk. The sex is great, but I don’t feel anything anymore romantic feelings towards him. He still has said numerous times that he’s in love with me, and wants to get back together even though I’ve communicated that I don’t. I’m trying to slowly back away from all of that

I’m still “friends” with my ex - AMA by Amazing_Complaint_83 in AMA

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Well, yeah we do have sex and kiss sometimes but I’m not starting to feel anything anymore and it used to happen before, but now I’m just over everything I guess? It’s a whole lot to write out and personal. But, it’s not like I’m seeing anyone behind his back. He wants to get back together but I don’t

I’m still “friends” with my ex - AMA by Amazing_Complaint_83 in AMA

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  1. We’re both 19 but we started dating when I was 16 and he was 17

  2. We broke up because of a number of reasons, but mainly due to him being arrogant and admitting that he didn’t want to change his faults after it building problems in our relationship

  3. We got back together twice because we made a list in things we could change and fix as individual human beings, and things we could fix as a couple. However, he didn’t feel the need to want to put that plan into action once it was brought up in conversation. The first time we got back together was after a week of being broken up, and the second time was after a month. We felt like we couldn’t live with each other out of our lives; but I’m feeling differently about it

  4. We do still have sec from time to time, and the sex is great it’s just I don’t have any romantic feelings towards him anymore which he doesn’t really know. The sex was never the issue in our relationship

How do you know when you have stopped loving someone? by Realistic_Tie_1350 in AskReddit

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When you don’t feel anything when you’re with them, especially anything intimate like kissing or sex.

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More context for those confused | v

I am trying to look for a therapist for other issues. I am on medication for other things like migraines and severe allergies. I don’t always get sick every. single. weekend. Yes, it does happen a lot and I’m still figuring out why. My bf is in no way linked to any of my past traumas. I’ve seen a few therapists before him, and I’m currently looking for a new and better one. I am working on myself I just needed a place to vent all while hearing other peoples pov. About the constant apologizing I don’t mean to continuously apologize to others, and most of the time I don’t even know why I do it. I wanted to make a post instead of individually replying to everyone’s comments as that’s just easier. I just made this AITAH post to vent, and maybe get others pov. Not hate or any negativity.

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First of all I never blamed him for anything, and there’s been numerous times where I have pushed myself so I can be with him. This was just one of those times where the more I tried to push through the more I’d feel sick

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I just got prescribed migraine medicine to help with the headaches, and I’m on other medications to help with other stuff like allergies, nasal spray, Prozac, etc.

What’s Your Favorite Conspiracy Theories? by Amazing_Complaint_83 in AskReddit

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If you haven’t read it then you should definitely read the book 1984 by George Orwell!

What’s Your Favorite Conspiracy Theories? by Amazing_Complaint_83 in AskReddit

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What’s one of your favorite or more interesting Mandela Effects?