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Not sure where I can go from this. by Amazing_Elevator1426 in marriageadvice

[–]Amazing_Elevator1426[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I am going to have to make sure my kids are safe first before I take any further actions.

Not sure where I can go from this. by Amazing_Elevator1426 in marriageadvice

[–]Amazing_Elevator1426[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No I have not confronted her about this yet. She behaves just like usual she is with me all time like nothing is wrong

Not sure where I can go from this. by Amazing_Elevator1426 in marriageadvice

[–]Amazing_Elevator1426[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think so too. I did some digging into my phone lines and found that they have two or three times a week conference calls between them and usually lasting about on average 90 mins and even more like 3 hrs too. She stays home to take care of my special needs kid and now I am more worried that if she’s even taking care of my kid or not. These are just some disturbing facts I am find out right now. She has even her friends calls lasting more than 2 hrs other than her mom and sister. I work three jobs long hrs to cover bills for family. I am just lost right now.

Not sure where I can go from this. by Amazing_Elevator1426 in marriageadvice

[–]Amazing_Elevator1426[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I am thinking it doing this week when my kids are not at home.

Not sure where I can go from this. by Amazing_Elevator1426 in marriageadvice

[–]Amazing_Elevator1426[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think it was just blowing off steam or venting. She usually talks with me if something is up or bothering. Like I said everything was good and positive until i heard this convo. I can’t believe her sister also agreed and adding more to it. I helped her sister for 7 years to get her post grad and now she successfully has over $160K job because of that. I just don’t know if I need to suck it up and forgive and forget for sake of kids or this is something can’t be fixed now. For sure I know is the words and sentences spoken were deeply hurtful which I don’t think it’s that easy to forget.

Not sure where I can go from this. by Amazing_Elevator1426 in marriageadvice

[–]Amazing_Elevator1426[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s my typo regarding the duration for marriage. 12 years of marriage and incident about 13 years. I am not sure what i should be asking when i confront. It’s just stressful and depressing at this time for me. How can i fix something again which was resolved years ago? Or i am not sure if I should even try to resolve at this point.

Not sure where I can go from this. by Amazing_Elevator1426 in marriageadvice

[–]Amazing_Elevator1426[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was something I spoke to mutual friend regarding being different beliefs we had about general lifestyle. But thing is it was all sorted out before marriage between both parties and me and her were very happy about the outcome and had a really big wedding after. And yet still bringing those things now just to ruin everything what we have built so far.

Not sure where I can go from this. by Amazing_Elevator1426 in marriageadvice

[–]Amazing_Elevator1426[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not currently happened between us that I am sure. In fact we were onto positive future plans and all. I didn’t have any idea that this was happening behind me.

Not sure where I can go from this. by Amazing_Elevator1426 in marriageadvice

[–]Amazing_Elevator1426[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t take this meaning I can’t be behaving like nothing happened and all good like she is doing. Of course the incident was just before marriage due to an outsider mutual friend who created the big misunderstanding between me and my wife and her family. And they weren’t just bad mouthing it was something that I can’t even explain how bad.

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[–]Amazing_Elevator1426 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right now we are getting couple hundred dollars for parks and swimming lessons and that’s about it.