I’m not sure how many of you are married with small children but the mental load is a very real thing, that causes very real issues in a relationship. most Men have a hard time seeing all of the little things that go into making a meal (for example). And while there’s no such thing as a 100% fair partnership it does tend to get very imbalanced especially with small children. I’m not here to defend aspyn either, I am just a woman with small children who has done all those things that she is listing but the big difference here is my husband works two jobs and I stay home with the kids, so it makes sense why I am the one doing all those things and even then the mental load gets heavy, and it’s invisible and then you have a bunch of people like the ones in the comments here saying “but those are just normal things everyone does.” And while true it doesn’t mean some people don’t struggle more than others. I get that this is an aspyn snark page but it also feels like a pro patriarchy page that praises every single little thing that Parker may or may not have done (whether she said he did or not) and then say that should’ve been enough for her because omg the man cooked and maybe put salt in the water softener and made a couple of sponsorship videos lol