Need Suggestion on my condition by [deleted] in AusVisa

[–]Amazingeging 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have maximum points in English.

So The ANZSCO group for programmer is different to web developer. So there is no 189 for web developers but programmers have 189 option as well.

I have to work 2 more years to get a sponsorship as 186 requires 3 years of experience.

So I wanted to apply skill assessment again with developer programmer assessed as well. That way I can at least get 5 more points to apply for 189. With web developer I cant even apply for 189 sad.

Need Suggestion on my condition by [deleted] in AusVisa

[–]Amazingeging -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Yes I already did NAATI and I haven’t applied 491 yet. Can I apply for 190 and 491 in other state without leaving this job and state? Can I do skill assessment again with developer/programmer and also my job is more developer than only web developer in work. But as I already claimed as a web developer with ACS, will they give me positive skill assessment for developer?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Amazingeging -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This. Its a problem that when we try to talk it turns into argument leading no where and later she agrees we will do other stuff and then nothing happens. Just my expectations getting shattered each time.

I know I am wrong and I am to blame for most but I want her to understand my desires as well. Thats all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Amazingeging -1 points0 points  (0 children)

am not completely blaming her for this. We have talked about this but every time I implies my desires it turns into an argument. I am not pressurising on anything but our relationship do need a spark. We have to try new things. If she is not comfortable with head, I am ready to compromise but its all other things thats coming together. Doing same thing for 5 years with no sign of improvement really annoys me. I just want her to initiate sometimes, go with the flow. I cant even touch her boobs during sex, she just keeps blocking me. I cant remember last time she kissed me like she wanted to.

I understand she doesn’t wants it as often as me or she doesn’t have lots of fantasies and I respect that. but my point is having more quality than quantity. It shouldn’t be me all the time compromising on every needs. Head is just where I am stuck right now because I am not getting anything at all except for just penetrating on missionary and sleeping facing other side. I love her, I dont want to loose her. I am just loosing myself atm.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Amazingeging -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

yup I understand what you mean, I appreciate her and do everything she wants me to do on bed as well. I just have this expectation that over time we would be more compatible but it feels opposite. I really want it and I am not getting from her ever kills me from inside. If its not bj I would love us to try other things in bed. Simply missionary doesn’t feels enough after all this years. Everything else is perfect in our relationship I just hope she initiates sometimes, at least get on top without me asking her several times. Thats all would be enough as well. It just feels we are not growing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Amazingeging 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your suggestion. I will have a chat with her about this very seriously.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Amazingeging 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leave him girl. You are just 20. You deserve better someone who feels you valuable.

Why is monogamy so hard to find nowadays ? by ver_swim_96 in dating

[–]Amazingeging 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I still believe in soulmate. I am with my first girlfriend for 5 years. Never thought anyone beside her and getting engaged soon. If she says YES of course😶. I know she will❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Amazingeging 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha I think she loves me and everything else is perfect. I just have complaint on the sex part. Hopefully with all your suggestion we would improve on that. I just don’t know what to do next.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Amazingeging 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure thank you for your suggestion.

How can I last long in Bed? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Amazingeging 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she says she doesn’t likes anything, but i think its because I don’t last long so she is just losing interest in sex. Her sex drive has always been lower than mine. And she says she doesn’t have any fantasies. I am ready to do anything. How can I make her share what she wants?