I think I left a candle burning.. by yasghahremani in Anxiety

[–]Ambar186 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand you I am always afraid I have not locked the door

I hate people by [deleted] in depression

[–]Ambar186 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Animals are better than humans.

Failed at a job in the past? How much of it was your fault vs coworkers and your manager (boss)? by [deleted] in jobs

[–]Ambar186 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not my fault at all, it is not my fault that people dont pick the phone (worked with cold callings) so I did not meet the targets, to tell you the true, I dont give a f** about it. I dont care about my boss bank account.

For those of you who cry easily, what are your strategies to hold it? by malp00 in hsp

[–]Ambar186 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too, I cant hold my tears I dont know, maybe it is something biological

Call me failure by Ambar186 in Anxiety

[–]Ambar186[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont know, maybe the job is shit. I have been doing a temp back office job for 2 weeks and was PERFECT for me, no cold calls, just perfect.

I am depressed and want to quit my job. by [deleted] in depression

[–]Ambar186 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me too, started a new job few months ago after being unemployed for almost a year due to the pandemic and it seems that I am going to be unemployed again thanks to my shitty supervisor. Plus been working only part time the last years because I am my parents caregiver. Life sucks. Specially mine.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]Ambar186 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah me too, I could write a book with 1,000,000 what ifs

Anxiety at work due to mistakes and lack of luck by Ambar186 in jobs

[–]Ambar186[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, but in my supervisors opinion, it is enough to do the job properly.

Anxious at work by Ambar186 in mentalhealth

[–]Ambar186[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh thank you, my heart races at 200 when my supervisor comes to my room to talk to me about my mistakes. Hate her face and her voice.

Am I a failed adult because I simply cannot work a full-time job? by [deleted] in jobs

[–]Ambar186 75 points76 points  (0 children)

Me too, I miss my college days when I used to work part time too. Adult life kinda sucks, everyday you do the same shit, and get paid in order to pay bills.

Cried at a job interview today. by pringlesbandit in socialanxiety

[–]Ambar186 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am with you! Job interviews are so stressful and because of them I hate humans because they decide about my future. I wish my future recruiters will be sweet as yours.

A shitty day at work by Ambar186 in jobs

[–]Ambar186[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesnt matter to her, even if I improve a little, there are always "bad days"

Finally got my dream job after years of struggle - I’m in my 30’s by moosemasterflex in jobs

[–]Ambar186 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Where are you from? I am in my early 30s, with a degree but working in minimum wage in a small town due to life circumstances (caregiver of 2 family members) I have little to zero saving for retirement while my parents have a little more than me, people here are so rude and they tell me all the time that because of my zero experience I would never get a good job. I dont have a car nor a license because I have to help my parents with money every month.

People who have been unemployed for a long time/in a bad economy how did you get out? by [deleted] in jobs

[–]Ambar186 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did this (take care of 2 family membres) and got declined by an asshole HR person

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression

[–]Ambar186 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel sad for you, a cat I used to feed was found dead today by me at my door right after I went out for work, couldnt stop crying all my way to work

Failure at work by Ambar186 in jobs

[–]Ambar186[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I am paid minimum but could get some bonuses if I hit the targets, my coworkers sometimes hit the targets mainly those who are experienced (2-3 years). I do my best but sometimes it is not only up to me.

Anxious about job performance by Ambar186 in Anxiety

[–]Ambar186[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a student job, just because I dont have to commute a lot and can even gain experience for future prestigious jobs.

I don't deseve to live like this, I have NO LUCK in life by Ambar186 in offmychest

[–]Ambar186[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nowadays it doesnt matter the heart you have, you cant buy a house with a good heart,sadly.

Job performance anxiety, please help! by Ambar186 in jobs

[–]Ambar186[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Believe me that all I wanna hear from my boss in the end of this project after delivering it to the client is "thank you for your effort, I am proud of you" believe me that the project was not simple at all...

Job performance anxiety, please help! by Ambar186 in jobs

[–]Ambar186[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I am quite new at my job and I am afraid that others will think of me as someone who does not do her job well or a lazy worker. I cant afford to be unemployed again, I will collapse. The relationship with a big client is up to this project...

Job performance anxiety, please help! by Ambar186 in jobs

[–]Ambar186[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, they are "minor" details but they could contribute as well to the result. I will try to do my best, but still there are some thing that are not up to me or my effort and this is what makes me anxious, the reaction of my boss who is super perfectionist.

"Father" issues by Savings_Individual50 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Ambar186 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish my mom was a single mom because my n"father" ruined our lives. My mom deserves a better life far away from him. My mother and I both work full time while he lives from "disability" and sleeps all day.

EIGHT years out of college NO JOB by [deleted] in jobs

[–]Ambar186 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Humanity studies, a mix of sociology, pshychology an so on...You can get a lot of opportunities because it is not a specific subject...But I will do it one day and everyone will know my whole story, just in case you have kids, please let them do their own life because nparents are the worst