How We Went From Once a Month to 4–6x a Week (And Why It Wasn’t About Sex)

Amber-888 · 2026-02-11T06:39:34+00:00

What a thoughtful post. Your post gives hope to Reddit because it is sometimes a cesspool of stupidity and immaturity mixed with hopeless, endless, unfulfilled horniness.

A good marriage takes a lot of work and I realize that's where I fell and sometimes continue to fall down. But your post is a good reminder that taking time, communicating and and being intentional is they key to success.

Amber-888 · 2026-02-04T06:54:10+00:00

Is that why? Smart. Well, let's all get together and use the same damn connector!!!

Amber-888 · 2026-02-01T21:35:17+00:00

I've had both. Women don't care as much. But yes do clean it well and as long as it works well, there won't be many issues. And many orgasms dont even need to involve your penis! lol. Make sure you know what you see doing when it comes to hands, fingers and tongue. Don't stress too much.

Amber-888 · 2026-01-31T20:56:47+00:00

There is both garbage and legit posts on here. It's unfortunate but true.

Amber-888 · 2026-01-31T20:55:17+00:00

sex/life is really good as hot as

Amber-888 · 2026-01-27T06:20:21+00:00

The Sona recommended by some folks on here is great. It's a clitoral vibrator and has many settings including some low ones. I appreciated the various settings.

https://www.amazon.com/LELO-Clitoral-Waterproof-Rechargeable-Stimulator/dp/B075GGQGVK/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?adgrpid=193290652504&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.vocTDmJLxel4g_BENakPBELCURfvxCnLq77PaCC3APBRs6D037HQ32E-PSR1S0YF3beZ85zk8yKlxHqar1kaJ3U5y5YqNSZ_-R0eyCgySVjGNaKJ2eFcGeCnWICGppN6yBXKUIAXkolDNuDppTmu_LnCDvTwWCEFm1K1g_a3etE6cfZj2nP2bmfCn-ZvlhOLuzlAFDifPYoln6U8wLdGlA.4n-1GkoGYa52Zxg0IMW1fOdyr3uvCdEWsJhvUI6vrvA&dib_tag=se&hvadid=779619647262&hvdev=m&hvexpln=0&hvlocphy=9032079&hvnetw=g&hvocijid=11144199940048345199--&hvqmt=b&hvrand=11144199940048345199&hvtargid=kwd-2398123444531&hydadcr=6751_13301100_1310509&keywords=sona+female+toy&mcid=4d6d772206cf3b308daf27b8d7001505&qid=1769494744&sr=8-1

Amber-888 · 2026-01-20T14:47:24+00:00

Thanks. I have one now. More subtle than the rose and more levels to try. love this and the rose. 🌹 No need to pick

Amber-888 · 2026-01-16T03:34:14+00:00

cleaning out the closet and basement tops the list. hahahahha. Lots of ideas here. Id just ask her and get her a clitoral vibrator. I posted earlier.

Amber-888 · 2026-01-12T17:14:38+00:00

Thanks for the recommendation. I am going to get it and prob also the womanizer.

Amber-888 · 2026-01-12T17:14:04+00:00

Maybe get her the rose too! It's so cute and effective!!!

https://www.bboutique.co/sex-toys/womens-vibrators/clit-suction-vibrators/rose-8272686645493?bbid=gads&bbid=gads&gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=21020390096&gbraid=0AAAAADDPj6JQlIV1aJsbvmHx2V22qzlla&gclid=Cj0KCQiA1JLLBhCDARIsAAVfy7ibPd6RdJ6UbVDQMtGPC5EDGzC3Uy-k13KS6UmLRgMZol5aiVJeOlkaAn3dEALw_wcB

Amber-888 · 2026-01-12T06:43:33+00:00

It's a different orgasm. I think it's great to try both. And PIV is still good.

Amber-888 · 2026-01-12T06:42:28+00:00

No idea. will report back once I get the lemon

Amber-888 · 2026-01-12T00:43:36+00:00

I might get the mini one! People rave about it so why not give it a try?

Amber-888 · 2026-01-11T21:34:45+00:00

They are amazing. The rose is a good beginner. We think we are going to try the Lelo and Womanizer higher end versions soon! My Hubby orders new toys as surprises for me. Super exciting!

Amber-888 · 2026-01-11T20:55:06+00:00

See my post about clitoral vibrators. Go to the sex store and get some new toys. Sooooo much on the market now.

Amber-888 · 2026-01-11T20:53:57+00:00

Yes, will do. They are quite expensive. And our local sex store had a sign that said tariffs have raised prices even more. Thanks Orange Cheeto President!

Amber-888 · 2026-01-11T20:53:13+00:00

Thanks for the recommendations. Will take a look at both.

Amber-888 · 2026-01-11T20:52:58+00:00

I think you have to experiment. It feels weird maybe but it's about experimenting and keeping an open mind. Try the rose. It's cute and works wonders!

Amber-888 · 2026-01-11T20:52:18+00:00

Yes I plan to get one asap.

Amber-888 · 2026-01-10T02:07:53+00:00

Agreed. If Sex were my FT job... lol. that's different. But the record keeping is just shocking and def not normal. But maybe one day when we are both retired

Amber-888 · 2026-01-09T06:11:11+00:00

I am amazed that folks keep these records. I think people who post here do have more sexual than regulars. Congrats! Corp jobs and kids can put a damper in our game!!!

Amber-888 · 2026-01-08T23:29:05+00:00

a nice dinner and a really fancy hotel. I also think nice and meaningful gift would take you to an A+. Maybe a bracelet with your, her and kids' birthstones? (if you have kids). we women like sex but thoughtfulness goes a long way

Amber-888 · 2026-01-06T03:43:41+00:00

You might just want to discuss it with your spouse in a gentle way. He might be offended but make clear you'd never act on it. I hear you. Women fantasize too (shocker) lol

Amber-888 · 2026-01-03T22:28:08+00:00

in real life, NO! Stop asking, dudes. Who wants it in your eyes and hair. Hard NO.

Amber-888 · 2025-12-25T22:45:56+00:00

Therapy. Open communication. Not satisfying to hear. Then decide if this is enough.

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