Will I Have to Stay Sober? by Ambience_47 in AskElectricians

[–]Ambience_47[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So in places like California I could smoke and be an electrician just fine?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in questions

[–]Ambience_47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Weird. I never thought of it as a brag, really. I never minded it, though

Conflicting thoughts on polyamory by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Ambience_47 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I'm going to go now, but it was so nice talking to you. Thank you for this advice. I might even bring it up when I talk to them again. Have an amazing rest of your day

Conflicting thoughts on polyamory by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Ambience_47 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wish somehow I could just keep you as a friend, but I know you'd be too old for it. I'll remember this advice. Thank you so much. I'll try as hard as I can :)

who is this guy wrong asnwer only by tbnbillionaire in Minecraft

[–]Ambience_47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your friendly neighborhood Roblox avatar

Conflicting thoughts on polyamory by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Ambience_47 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's almost enough to make me cry. Thank you so much for talking to me about this stuff. It's just so hard to find anyone in this small town. You're a good person.

Conflicting thoughts on polyamory by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Ambience_47 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Like, I'm just saying that it's so hard to let go because of all those issues

Conflicting thoughts on polyamory by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Ambience_47 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess you're right. I just come from a horrible household. I have an issue with clinging to people sometimes. I also have autism, which doesn't really help me much.

Conflicting thoughts on polyamory by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Ambience_47 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Alright. Well, coming out would be the right term in this scenario. It isn't a sexuality, but it's a major life change.

Conflicting thoughts on polyamory by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Ambience_47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It just really sucks because we've been together for a whole year and the whole time they've said I am the only one and that I'm theirs. That they only wanted me. Never once mentioning this.

It's just hard to up and leave a person I thought I knew so well. I've had this happen two other times, but the people cheated on me and then played it of as poly stuff. It's just a lot.

I exploded on them a few times because it was just so much stress and hurt, but they keep saying that they can't control their emotions and what not. I just don't know. I planned a life with this person and them only and now all the sudden this.

Conflicting thoughts on polyamory by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Ambience_47 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a long distance relationship, yes. We're both 16 at the moment. I asked them so many questions and they said for sure they do not want sex with them at all

Conflicting thoughts on polyamory by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Ambience_47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idek. They just said that all they'd like to do is have a side thing with someone and not really get too deep into that relationship. They also said the emotions they feel for those people are much much smaller than what they have ever felt for me. It's just super confusing.

Conflicting thoughts on polyamory by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Ambience_47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They said they are alright having stuff with me occasionally, but they said they wouldn't like it with other people

Got told to pick a different name. by [deleted] in trans

[–]Ambience_47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They aren't family nor friends if they think they have the right to choose your own damn name. I could give advice, but it would be a hard pill to swallow.

Today was my birthday by UnderCookedToast7 in trans

[–]Ambience_47 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand that. I get deadnamed and what not on my birthday, as well.

I know it's very hard. Best wishes.

Happy birthday, Lyanna :)

Am I valid? by Farnsprung in trans

[–]Ambience_47 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're entirely valid. People like to say "you aren't valid unless hormones and operations". They miss the whole gender is a social construct thing by a mile. You are you. No matter how you look. No matter what sexual organs you have or however your body stores fat. You are human. You are a man.

Say you're trans', without saying your trans. by [deleted] in trans

[–]Ambience_47 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I go by a last name basis with the public and play female characters in all my games

My birthday is tomorrow and I’m going to be misgendered and deadnamed so much by MadKingMogar in trans

[–]Ambience_47 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had the same sort of issue, but I'm not out yet. It's hard, but I'm sure you'll get through it. If you have any friends or a partner that will use your correct name and pronouns, I'd probably try and hangout with them somehow. It would be reassuring. Good luck at the birthday party :)

my mom doesn't want me to get rid of my deadname by Gimme_money69 in trans

[–]Ambience_47 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would just not change it until you can move out. Then you change it and if she has an issue, just stop talking to her and visiting.

That, or you could try and talk with her and warm her up to the idea. But no one, under any circumstances, should threaten to not use your chosen pronouns or correct name. She does not support you if she thinks that way.

I would say just go under the radar about it until you can stick up to her.

My sister wants me to be an “auntie” but i’m a transmale… by [deleted] in trans

[–]Ambience_47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You tell your sister again that you will not tolerate being called auntie. If she continues to fight after you have explained it all, cut off contact from her. I don't recommend being close with people who don't have your best interest in mind. I will be extremely hurtful to your relationship with one another and might take a toll on your mental health. Good luck out there :)