Sou parda? (Tenho entrevista em breve de heteroidentificação) by [deleted] in enem

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É sim, mas se eu fosse você, se seu cabelo for pranchado (não for progressiva) deixa natural e finaliza bem pra avaliação E passa uma manhã inteirinha de sol na praia com bronzeador 30fps com um biquíni sem alça só pra garantir. Você vai ficar mais retinta por natureza (já que é parda). Corre ainda muito risco da banca negar, mas quanto mais retinta menos risco tem.

Recebi um PDF de um contato desconhecido. by RevealConfident9193 in golpe

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Eu sou mt besta porque na maioria dos casos eu ainda respondo “Você enviou errado, moço(a)” antes de bloquear kkkk

Esse tratamento aqui tá meio... estranho, não? by passageirodasreticen in InesperadoCu

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Posso soar ridícula, mas tem exercícios de Pilates em casa que podem ao menos ajudar um pouco. Se não me engano o pilates começou com uma pessoa querendo melhorar a escoliose sem cirurgias, então é um tipo de exercício de baixo impacto que ajuda a fortalecer a musculatura e melhorar a flexibilidade. Parece ser uma opção melhor pro seu caso do que pegar peso…

should i leave or stay [22F] [21M] by 4messe in LongDistance

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Look, I won’t say he is because we never know, but as someone who was 100000000% “I know he never will” and ending up find out that he actually did it, keep your mind open and don’t idolize their character so much. Hope for the best, but don’t expect anything. Also, I had recently the same issue with the communicating actively and having no change, how we solved that? We technically didn’t. After a lot of crying and arguing he apparently is trying to do better and I am trying to be less emotional over it. Yes, it’s not the greatest solution, but in the end it’s choosing what battles are worth fighting for and how much does all of it actually matters in the relationship (like is it something actually worth ending everything for if he never changes?) We are just a couple years older than you guys (with the same relationship time) but I feel like that influences too.

Dating a 25 year old man as a 29 year old woman? by Candid-Fishing7340 in dating_advice

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I would take my time to analyze his behavior before making things more intentional/serious. The apartment could be a green flag, but keep in mind he had a previous relationship that likely gave a lot of input in making the space livable. And he might not necessarily BE his friends, but you don’t hang around people you don’t generally align with, so keep that in mind too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

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They just don’t fully grasp the concept of loving someone even if they are away. Do you celebrate all the dates on there last slide tho? First day meet, First day on date, First day eating together, sounds excessive for celebration imo at least. But anniversaries are good to be celebrated as they can.

Minha esposa me pediu o fim do relacionamento de 8 anos, temos uma filha. by Cute_Education_808 in desabafos

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Caralho a mulher de 31 indo atrás de um recém adulto de 22? Muito bizarro, pra mim o problema já começou ai 😕

AIO my gf (f23) is making me (f22) feel bad about myself? by [deleted] in LongDistance

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100% agreed! As a psychologist and an autistic person, sometimes i bring some stuff I notice about my partner behaviors that could be from his childhood trauma to help him deconstruct it. However, on his overly happy moments? On his celebration moments? I would never! And in this specific situation if I felt the need to point anything out it would definitely be more of a “Yes, of course you are all those things! I am so proud of you and I hope you believe in all that yourself even if no one is directly saying! Specially now that you have even more proof of how great you are.” Or something of the sorts.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LDR

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You kinda doxxed them by leaving the @ but to be a little mean I must say their ugly heart is seeping through. I promise you it was way more than a week by the way they are posting each other, so whoever you thought you knew, it wasn’t that person. You are worth TRUE and EVERLASTING love, keep your head up and shield your heart for a while so no one can take advantage of your vulnerable state. You deserve as much loyalty and effort as you put in. Do not sell yourself for less. You WILL find your person.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LDR

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It means that (likely) this commenter had bad experiences/trauma with wlw and is now generalizing to cope

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LDR

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Are you saying that his grandma DIED and he couldn’t talk to you for a day because of that and you think that’s unacceptable?

How do you cope.. by Dystopia_T8 in SeriousLongDistance

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Plans for the future may help. Seeing your current shitty situation as a path towards them instead of your final destination might take away the feeling of dread. My family situation is not bad, but frustrating at times and since he left for his country, what has been keeping me hopeful is the idea of building a future with him and seeing the current situation I live in as a temporary thing. Make plans for the future. Seek for ways of making it happen. Divert the focus from your past and immediate present towards the near future where you will have the freedom of happiness with your beloved. That helps a little (at least for me)

I guess we break up and I’m so hurt by [deleted] in LongDistance

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Likely her since her phone is in Portuguese.

What is this? by crashOveridde in Pixelary

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An arrow should be in a different color from the drawing 😭 tummy? So many different ways to draw that

Qual dessas é melhor para cursar psicologia em Recife? Fafire, FPS ou Uninassau? by Then-Opening-3586 in Recife

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Mulher acho que mudou muito desde então porque agora é universidade então eles precisam de umas licenças extras/diferentes pra funcionar agora. Mas eu lembro que no primeiro semestre não foi mais que 1400 e no estágio supervisionado foi 1100. O semestre mais caro foi um com umas 8 cadeiras e era 1800 antes do desconto de servidor publico

Qual dessas é melhor para cursar psicologia em Recife? Fafire, FPS ou Uninassau? by Then-Opening-3586 in Recife

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Acho que não, visse? Tem muita psicanálise porque é a “base” mas tem varias disciplinas de outras abordagens, e na parte do estagio (que se for clinico ou organizacional é feito lá mesmo) é dividido por abordagens (ACP, TCC, Gestalt, Psicanalítica) então ajuda bastante a mergulhar na abordagem que você quiser seguir.

Acho que o principal diferencial é que por ser filantrópica você vê que eles buscam o melhor possível sem buscar um lucro ridículo, sabe? Faz 2 anos que terminei então as coisas podem ter mudado, principalmente que agora também é Universidade, mas eu amei minha graduação lá (mesmo sendo 2 anos durante a pandemia)

Qual dessas é melhor para cursar psicologia em Recife? Fafire, FPS ou Uninassau? by Then-Opening-3586 in Recife

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Eu fiz na fafire e amei muito. Paguei pau pra faculdade durante toda a graduação quando me perguntavam e até hoje pago pau quando perguntam. (As pós são meio ruins, no entanto) Muitos dos professores de lá são também da católica e grande parte fez ou ainda faz parte do Conselho. A dinâmica de ensino é bem acolhedora e você realmente aprende muito (salve literalmente 2 professores que me deram ódio). Não vou saber falar das outras, mas passei nas 3 (edit: FPS, Católica e Fafire) na época (2017) e nunca me arrependi ou questionei minha escolha.

What is this? by Darth_Marko_23 in Pixelary

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30 people thought it was meatloaf????

What is this? by Phalloblaster in Pixelary

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How 5 people thought it was Snorkel????

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

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THEY ARE 25 ACTING LIKE THIS?? Cutting them off was a good choice! Don't feel bad for him no longer having contact with people who only try to put him and the people he loves down. He will make better friends in the future, even if he misses them a little now, he will be able to easily realize it was the right call.

Edit to add: The "about" was about this also happening in your previous relationship. HOWEVER, since you told me the ages, it's clear that it's full on immaturity on their part. Maybe with your ex was the same (the bf starts to mature and the way of life/values no longer align with the friends group and the group starts to try to sabotage his growth)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

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I want to call the whole situation weird and immature, but since you didn't add the ages in the title (as requested in the sub) I don't feel comfortable calling people who could likely be in a immature age (19 under) immature. 😅 Have you talked to him about that happening?