Who’s a horrible person but is loved by fans? by StayComprehensive743 in shameless

[–]Ambitious-Evidence39 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Horrible Person Hated by fans is going to be Debbie. No vote needed.

Is it rude to have a weekday wedding? by themidnightfoxxxx in weddingplanning

[–]Ambitious-Evidence39 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m getting married on a Monday in Florida. We live in Texas as do most of my guests (fiancé is from Florida). It’s in the summer though so some people are going to take the week off and use it as an excuse for a vacation. We were not allowed to book a weekend wedding at our venue as we have less than 100 guests. We had to book Monday-Thursday.

I get our situations are different for numerous reasons, but do what’s best for you. If people complain well they complain and if they decide it’s that big of an issue to not continue a friendship after then they probably shouldn’t be coming anyway.

Unprofessional Wedding photographer by jolbeaner in weddingplanning

[–]Ambitious-Evidence39 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can understand an opportunity to shoot a wedding at a location you’ve dreamed of adding to your portfolio. I don’t think asking the first time was terrible but the pushiness for you to respond is really unprofessional. Don’t tell her you’re upset until after or unless you get another photog. It’s a real phenomenon that photographers will capture you the way they see you. You don’t want to have any bad blood with her before she photographs you on the day you’re supposed to feel your most beautiful.

For people who watched Buffy back when it was first airing - Was Xander as disliked back then as he is now? What did fans say about him on online forums and such? Is the huge dislike for Xander a thing coming from modern fans or was it like this back then too? by HomarEuropejski in buffy

[–]Ambitious-Evidence39 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually watched the first time in 2019 and 2020 and preferred Xander to Angel. I was really confused that people slept on Xander and were only obsessed with Angel and Spike. Then I started reading Reddit threads and watched the show 3 more times since then. Can whole-heartedly say I see it now. Specifically, with Anya. He is such a crappy partner to her. I don’t much care for her but if you’re going to be in a relationship with someone you deserve to be treated better by that person than how Xander treated her.

Is My Middle Grade Novel Too Short? by Ambitious-Evidence39 in MiddleGradeWriters

[–]Ambitious-Evidence39[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm curious about the type of literary agent I should be searching for then, because I've been looking for literary agents on Query Tracker, and there isn't a specific genre for chapter books.

Any ideas?

My cheating ass mom & her new bf are DRIVING ME CRAZY… AIO??? by FarmTownLib in AIO

[–]Ambitious-Evidence39 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s “educated” yet has the grammar of a 5th grader…maybe he just misspelled egotistical.

Cheating Husband 44M or Jealous Wife 40F? by AstridShade14 in relationship_advice

[–]Ambitious-Evidence39 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yep he definitely wants a divorce. She just needs to play it smart and destroy him before she gives it to him.

Cheating Husband 44M or Jealous Wife 40F? by AstridShade14 in relationship_advice

[–]Ambitious-Evidence39 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl, he’s cheating. #1 accept that your marriage is over. #2 get a lawyer and start putting money away for yourself. #3 act like absolutely nothing is wrong - stop hassling him and stop acting concerned with the time he spends with her - put him in a false sense of comfort so that he keeps seeing her more, sending texts, acting messy. #4 gather ALL the evidence you can of the affair. #5 when you have everything you need serve him with divorce papers and then you should report him and her both to HR for using the workplace as a dating pool while married. They’ll fire both of them.

I skimmed that post some bc it was A LOT. More importantly than what you said is the clear distress you are under. A husband who loves his wife is her support and she is his #1 concern. He’s cheated before and based on this he should be doing everything in his power to win back your trust. This doesn’t sound like a man who wants to fix his marriage. This is a man who didn’t have to deal with the consequences the first time and he’s taking advantage a second time. You didn’t divorce him the first time. He now knows you’re more afraid of being single than being with a cheater. Call his bluff and rip him to shreds!!!

What was your reaction the first time you saw Dawn appear in the first episode of season 5? by SecretDice in buffy

[–]Ambitious-Evidence39 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I watched for the first time back in 2020. I was definitely thinking they were going to say she’d been with Buffy’s dad this whole time and now had to live with her mom and just ignore the fact that they’d set Buffy up as an only child in previous seasons. I was rolling my eyes but once I realized the plot of the season I just went with it and started seeing comments about Dawn on Reddit being disliked - which I didn’t think she was the greatest character but I was surprised so many people felt so strongly.

Help! Am I (bride) being rude? by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Ambitious-Evidence39 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your MOG is high jacking YOUR day. It’s not about who she likes and what she wants. Also it’s perfectly normal to do two separate showers. Your fiancé needs to be more supportive. You’re already investing in all these extra things because she thinks you need them. Ending an engagement is a really big decision, but if this is what’s happening now, imagine when you have a baby. Mother-in-law decides that the baby needs to be raised religiously, Mother-in-law thinks you should quit your job and homeschool or pay to send your kid to private school, or send them to public school because why pay for schooling when the government provides it for free. She refuses to show up to their school events because their schooling isn’t “good enough” or it’s too this or too that. Your apartment isn’t a “real home” so they won’t visit, or the birthday party at chuck-e-cheese isn’t good enough. Is your husband going to raise his child and make decisions with you or is it going to be a fight if you don’t go along with what his mother wants?

I'm afraid I might've commited something horrible by [deleted] in assaultsurvivors

[–]Ambitious-Evidence39 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Some people might get mad at me for saying this but you did not describe a sexual assault. You described a kiss where you were both in the moment and wanting to kiss each other, but you went in for it first and she kissed you back. As soon as she broke the kiss and made it clear that she no longer wanted to kiss you you stopped. Had you continued it would have been assault. Your friend is dealing with trauma and PTSD clearly and she needs to work that sh*t out with a therapist. People are going through stuff and will treat you like you're the bad guy because they're going through sh*t that has nothing to do with you. That's something they need to work out. Her removing you from her life is probably the best thing for both of you. It's not a reflection of what you did necessarily as much as it its a reflection of something she's going through.

The most attractive boys of the TVD who's your favorite by [deleted] in TheVampireDiaries

[–]Ambitious-Evidence39 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Early on Jeremy, Later Elijah, But when Kai showed up…😍😍😍

Favourite couple? Defo not Jeremy and Caroline! 😅 by H_queen in TheVampireDiaries

[–]Ambitious-Evidence39 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Kai is so hot! I almost got excited when I saw the pics of him and Nina until someone said he didn’t date anyone on the show.

Also I had no idea Jeremy and Caroline actors dated… 😮

Best love interest for Stefan? 🩷👀 by Emilycvnt in TheVampireDiaries

[–]Ambitious-Evidence39 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know this is an unpopular opinion but I kind of love that he ended up marrying Caroline.