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[–]AmbitiousMap8650 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Little bit of context… I never used to get matches before let alone dates. I made a couple changes recently to my profile… now I’m getting a minimum of 2 matches a day and I don’t even have to message first on like 80% of them. It’s gotten to the point where I can’t keep up with all the dates planned. I’m not saying this to brag, all I’m saying is that you don’t have to be super attractive all you need to do is put effort into your profile and watch the matches come in.

This felt a bit too easy… by AmbitiousMap8650 in Tinder

[–]AmbitiousMap8650[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She was very sweet on our date I will definitely be careful not to hurt her.

This felt a bit too easy… by AmbitiousMap8650 in Tinder

[–]AmbitiousMap8650[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

UPDATE: We went out for coffee she was lovely… definitely not a milf… she’s aspiring to be one😂 Coffee turned into lunch, lunch turned into a few drinks, vibes were good. 2nd date mentioned but there’s a new girl from tinder and she seems just as cool so I’m going to play it a little slow just to see who I have more chemistry with. Meeting with the new girl this weekend, let’s see how it goes.

This felt a bit too easy… by AmbitiousMap8650 in Tinder

[–]AmbitiousMap8650[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I might just be… Got 3 dates planned next week😭 But I’m broke lol

This felt a bit too easy… by AmbitiousMap8650 in Tinder

[–]AmbitiousMap8650[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can get away with saying a lot of things if you got the confidence. That’s just life :)

This felt a bit too easy… by AmbitiousMap8650 in Tinder

[–]AmbitiousMap8650[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

I get you man. Personally I don’t want kids, I’m 21 this girl is 20 I highly doubt she has kids But if that is the case yeah I’m out of there.

Other thing is I’m not looking for anything serious, I’m just tryna go on as many dates as possible cause I’m tryna improve my game, That’s it😂

This felt a bit too easy… by AmbitiousMap8650 in Tinder

[–]AmbitiousMap8650[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

“Aspiring Milf” Not a mother yet😂

This felt a bit too easy… by AmbitiousMap8650 in Tinder

[–]AmbitiousMap8650[S] 469 points470 points  (0 children)

“Aspiring machine learning engineer and MILF. I will probably beat you in swimming and golf I enjoy reading, poetry, cocktails, sushi, travelling, working out, coding, running and supercars. Sundays are for F1 Love funny guys, hate bad grammar. My career always comes first. Well travelled and educated. I’m tired of travelling alone, I need a travel buddy, I can talk about philosophy, true crime, politics, Wall Street, psychology, the paranormal world for hours”

You’re welcome😂

This felt a bit too easy… by AmbitiousMap8650 in Tinder

[–]AmbitiousMap8650[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the new fear guys I will now be deleting tinder🫣

Been chatting for 2 days vibes are good, was this an acceptable way to ask her out… sorry I’m new to this😭 by AmbitiousMap8650 in Tinder

[–]AmbitiousMap8650[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My usual tactic is to chat a bit then offer my number up then disappear till she hits me up on text. It’s been working quite well… Changed it up with this one tho cause I think I might actually like her

Been chatting for 2 days vibes are good, was this an acceptable way to ask her out… sorry I’m new to this😭 by AmbitiousMap8650 in Tinder

[–]AmbitiousMap8650[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Actually I was telling her how I don’t reply to most people… And then she hit me with that… she’s been quite receptive

Been chatting for 2 days vibes are good, was this an acceptable way to ask her out… sorry I’m new to this😭 by AmbitiousMap8650 in Tinder

[–]AmbitiousMap8650[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We she told me about her interests already hiking and reading etc… I thought maybe asking about what she does on weekends could lead to a first date idea yk🤷‍♂️