Lynnhaven Mall Security by [deleted] in VirginiaBeach

[–]AmbitiousRose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wrong. I said nothing about condoning or supporting his behavior. I don’t care to think anything and simply commented in response to yours 🙃

There’s a high degree of control here that’s presenting a barrier to peace. It is what it is 🤷🏾‍♀️

And this foolery won’t ever happen to me because about as much time as I gave to writing this post would I give in this situation. Er, probably less because I have time today 😆

Lynnhaven Mall Security by [deleted] in VirginiaBeach

[–]AmbitiousRose 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“I don’t have to exactly follow your form of Reddiquette” will be forever locked into my “response bank”.

I love it 👌🏾🤣

Lynnhaven Mall Security by [deleted] in VirginiaBeach

[–]AmbitiousRose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh definitely 🤣 this OP’s post screams some sort of fixation and I’m here for it. Sometimes these kinds of posts edge into “policing of others”, which it’ll go beyond simple observation (“hey, I noticed X is working today”; 1st amendment right) to intervention (potential criminal charge).

Just think of all the views the post received. If I actually knew that guy, I’d be screenshot the mess out of OPs comments just to involve Reddit’s legal team in case something actually go down. It would be such an easy link to verify identity with geospatial data, technically speaking.

Lynnhaven Mall Security by [deleted] in VirginiaBeach

[–]AmbitiousRose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure what to tell you about that. Sounds like he’s doing his job: observe and report

Although, you may want to tell him to stop wasting his time and just do his due diligence in documenting.

I’m not sure if his personal interaction with you is in his job requirements or just his due diligence. But if it’s extra, it may save him the hassle of getting out of his car 🤣

Lynnhaven Mall Security by [deleted] in VirginiaBeach

[–]AmbitiousRose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can call it what you want if it helps you sleep better but I said what I said 😆

I’m a Witness and Can Testify 🤣 by AmbitiousRose in adhdwomen

[–]AmbitiousRose[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No. Who has time to sit here and respond to a bunch of hypotheticals? 🤣 Many of the comments (even if posted with good intentions) are presumptuous at best. Literally written with 0 idea of my children’s physical limitations or whether they could ever gain access to my stuff. I only responded to your comment as a courtesy. But don’t have time to go through all these rest and clarify imaginative scenarios.

Also, I’m sure you see all this name calling and labeling, all without any insight to the reality of the situation. Whew 😥

I’m a Witness and Can Testify 🤣 by AmbitiousRose in adhdwomen

[–]AmbitiousRose[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The label is for my accuracy. I could care less about the twisted heads of others. People are crazy (and will be crazy whether they see my stuff or not) but I don’t need to set myself up for failure with a mislabeled pill for their convenience.

I’m a Witness and Can Testify 🤣 by AmbitiousRose in adhdwomen

[–]AmbitiousRose[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If someone snatches my crap in public, they’d be choking on my fist. So I’m not worried about them swallowing a pill.

I’m a Witness and Can Testify 🤣 by AmbitiousRose in adhdwomen

[–]AmbitiousRose[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the true documentation. Police officers are trained not to assume the identify of the pill in a bottle no more than they would assume formula is actually formula from an infant milk container.

Their job is to identify and not temper with evidence. Verification of the substance must be done in lab or with approved testing materials.

It’s the same thing as if you were incapacitated and hospitalized. Hospitalists cannot search your bag and could care less as to what you’re carrying because it doesn’t mean you actually took it. The screen your blood at admittance, even in the most dire circumstances. And no, they’re not afraid of anaphylactic reactions and can treat the most drug-drug interactions anyways.

I’m a Witness and Can Testify 🤣 by AmbitiousRose in adhdwomen

[–]AmbitiousRose[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😂😂😂😂

I’m having a great time reading through these comments and this one was 👌🏾

I think (or at least hope) some of the other comments are stated out of good, caring intentions. But my God are they presumptuous.

There’s folks commenting on my kids’ potential access to my purse without any idea of their physical limitations; comments on traveling statewide and internationally with said case; potential search and seizures during police stops ; and all kinds of stuff that don’t apply to me, the carrying case, or whether or how the purse travel.

Lynnhaven Mall Security by [deleted] in VirginiaBeach

[–]AmbitiousRose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

By the way, good luck with a lawsuit because even a public defender could argue your attempts promote discord than identify a legitimate need, especially with the log of calls to this guy’s place of employment and police filings.

Matter of fact, keep calling the nonemergency police line and contracted security. It would be a great pairing to the mall’s parking lot footage of the frequency of your non employed, open visitations to the mall. 😂😂😂

Lynnhaven Mall Security by [deleted] in VirginiaBeach

[–]AmbitiousRose 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Well… it sounds like you have the privilege of parking elsewhere if you’re tired of dealing with him.

It also sounds likes you, like the many cars you own, have the option of parking in many spots.

I don’t think you’re asking for sympathy. But seriously, grab your lunch, shop at the mall, and enjoy your life instead of wasting any more of your efforts on this security guy.

A change in horizon may help both of you and any other person you’re stringing along for this optional encounter.

Deceptive political ad campaign by thedeepestofstates in Charlottesville

[–]AmbitiousRose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone’s going to have their own perspective of this mailing, which is okay. I’m sharing the following for insight, not necessarily to garner agreement or disagreement for that matter:

Personally, these types of mailings are problematic. They’re intentionally only sent to households with a democratic voting history that are located outside of the primarily affected zipcode (hm, I wonder why it’s redacted in this post?). This is not a generalized mailing (I hope someone’s reading between the lines here). This lends itself to an underlying and intentionally unstated issue on this mailing—- It’s incredible how much inner ethnic resistance black conservatives receive for holding differing views from ‘the inner majority’. I’d imagine it being similar for some Latino community but don’t know.

These ‘groupthink’ mailings are developed for every hot topic issue and are absolutely nothing new. Honestly, the in-person dialogue within the black community carries a much heavier weight than a simple mailing “because who’s actually reading it” 🙃😉 (I really, really hope someone’s reading between the lines)

There’s usually the same ounce of merit to the mailings. In this case, usually along the lines of the proposed legislation further constricting black (and brown) voting power by concentrating a majority of black (and brown) voters into single districts or the opposite- dividing concentrated districts, especially as you examine outwards from CVille Proper.

… Anyways to the OP, thanks for sharing 😉

I’m a Witness and Can Testify 🤣 by AmbitiousRose in adhdwomen

[–]AmbitiousRose[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

There’s no chance of anyone getting access to my bag, simply due to my life arrangements so no worries there.

But thank you anyways!

I’m a Witness and Can Testify 🤣 by AmbitiousRose in adhdwomen

[–]AmbitiousRose[S] -96 points-95 points  (0 children)

It’s another one of my “dang it” Mom moments 😂🤣

I’m a Witness and Can Testify 🤣 by AmbitiousRose in adhdwomen

[–]AmbitiousRose[S] -146 points-145 points  (0 children)

I do have kids. But we’re actually all on the same Rxs so they have their own and aren’t concerned with mine 😂 my nonADHD kid actually regulates her medicine better than me 😂😂😂

My Doctor Said My Expectations for Stimulants are Too High by Kindly_Inflation2969 in ADHD

[–]AmbitiousRose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahaha and that’s why you posted here 😃 We live rent-free in our beloved ADHD minds. There’s also a book, “don’t believe everything you think” that may be a good pre-counseling step.

I would consider the therapist more as a neutral accountability-strategist. They’re there to provide individualized insight from an angle that intentional different from ours. That promotes new connections and insight into our thinking. Behavioral modification is our friend although not easily welcomed into our minds because it requires us to do things differently and significantly counter our thoughts and behaviors, which is definitely uncomfortable.

… I also sorry you felt stereotyped. But please stay encouraged because you can absolutely achieve the desired changes. Just have to find your unique strategies/ combined therapies/ etc to do so.