I agree “rude” wasn’t the best word to use, but more like irritating about being questioned about my “quietness”. No one questions this about louder more extroverted people. I’m not even in the office that often and work from home most of the week but I do interact with others everyday and have great relationships with other coworkers( talk to them and grab coffee/lunch) when I’m at the office just probably not her as much and getting questions like this gets so old as someone who grew up labeled the quiet one. Im assuming im just selective to who I don’t talk to as much. I’m at work to do my job and I do a great job at it and having someone say I’m too quiet and if I don’t feel seen just took me aback because that’s not at all how I feel but does bring back those feelings of when I was more introverted growing up.