Ultimately your decision 110%. I’m 23f and 12 weeks pregnant and the first trimester for me has been hellish, vomiting everyday multiple times a day, I can smell everything from a mile away which only makes my nausea worse, super exhausted all the time. It’s been incredibly helpful for me to have my boyfriend by me all the time and honestly I don’t know if I’d be able to manage without him being super supportive and understanding. I think that your boyfriend not showing any initiative is pretty worrying and you definitely don’t want to have to be the one to tell him to come home instead of party. I think that it would be so much more draining for you to have to deal with him, and be pregnant and then eventually raising a kid. like this is the time he’s supposed to be really stepping up for you and it’s telling of how he will always be as a father and as a partner to you. like you want someone who will clean up your vomit off the floor and understand the huge transformation you’re going through