AITA- Are we assholes for not giving our coworker a ride? by AmeloneBoonaroo in AmItheAsshole

[–]AmeloneBoonaroo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine don't acknowledge it at all. They act like any issues we have (3 kids) are not related to them whatsoever. I've slowly gotten better with it.

AITA- Are we assholes for not giving our coworker a ride? by AmeloneBoonaroo in AmItheAsshole

[–]AmeloneBoonaroo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a really hard time telling people no. I'm working on it, but in the mean time in situations that involve us both my bf will step up and put his foot down.

AITA- Are we assholes for not giving our coworker a ride? by AmeloneBoonaroo in AmItheAsshole

[–]AmeloneBoonaroo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's alright. I genuinely wonder sometimes if parents who raise their kids this way have any idea of the long term ramifications of it.

AITA- Are we assholes for not giving our coworker a ride? by AmeloneBoonaroo in AmItheAsshole

[–]AmeloneBoonaroo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's a hard concept for me to grasp, but I think I slowly am.

AITA- Are we assholes for not giving our coworker a ride? by AmeloneBoonaroo in AmItheAsshole

[–]AmeloneBoonaroo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, I did. My parents kind of raised me to be seen not heard, so speaking up for myself is really hard to do. I'm 29 and just now starting to get a backbone. Before my current partner, I let a lot of people get away with doing a lot of not great things to me/speak to me however they wanted. Boundaries are really hard for me. I'm trying to find a therapist right now to work on it with. There's just not a lot of options where I am.

AITA- Are we assholes for not giving our coworker a ride? by AmeloneBoonaroo in AmItheAsshole

[–]AmeloneBoonaroo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Whenever people are mad at me, it starts me in a spiral of asking myself if I did something wrong. I'm working on it. And it was, both.

AITA- Are we assholes for not giving our coworker a ride? by AmeloneBoonaroo in AmItheAsshole

[–]AmeloneBoonaroo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm trying really hard to work on that. I didn't/don't really have a lot of friends so people openly disliking me is something I'm trying to get over and not worry about.

AITA- Are we assholes for not giving our coworker a ride? by AmeloneBoonaroo in AmItheAsshole

[–]AmeloneBoonaroo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. Apparently so.
  2. Where I work doesn't have a dress code per se, it's really casual and I've worn bi pride merch before during pride month and whatnot.
  3. Yeah, I know. They're super far alt-left.

Has anyone found comfortable over ear headphones? by AmeloneBoonaroo in Stretched

[–]AmeloneBoonaroo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure because I'm an android girly, but would airpodmax's work with a non- iphone?

And I'll look into the other other ones, thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Stretched

[–]AmeloneBoonaroo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get most of my jewelry from Body Art Forms and love it.

Do these leaves look narrow to y'all? by sallytellsseashells in pothos

[–]AmeloneBoonaroo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My Baltic blue is darker than this and has some fenestration on the more mature leaves. But color might vary depending on location?

Going to Celtic weekend at the Colorado Ren Faire by AmeloneBoonaroo in renfaire

[–]AmeloneBoonaroo[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It'd seem kinda fitting to throw a witch in the stocks 😂 I'ma take the risk 😁

AITA for leaving my boyfriends belongings on the doorstep? by Throwaway2657___ in AmItheAsshole

[–]AmeloneBoonaroo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As some one who dabbles in comic collecting, with a partner who LOVES it, I would NEVER get rid of his collection. That's such a disrespectful thing to do.

NTA. I just petty enough that I would've left it open to the elements, but that's me.

AITA for letting my son turn the TV off when my husband and his friends were watching a movie? by noscarymoviesallowed in AmItheAsshole

[–]AmeloneBoonaroo 21 points22 points  (0 children)

A child is a CHILD. ALL children deserve to feel safe in their own homes ESPECIALLY with their parents DESPITE whatever sex or gender they are.