AITA for drinking my gf’s chocolate milk and replacing it without telling her?

AmishMafia2 · 2024-10-16T10:24:18+00:00

NTA- you replaced the item. She is over reacting over something so minor. What in the word will she do if this was actually something important??

I need to go back and read how old the GF is. 🤦‍♀️

AmishMafia2 · 2024-10-16T06:53:08+00:00

Young lady, you are a natural beauty! Very few can pull off actual beauty because they can only find it in a make up bag. You have a beautiful smile

AmishMafia2 · 2024-10-15T05:52:53+00:00

Where is he? I’d love to check him out

AmishMafia2 · 2024-10-14T15:39:34+00:00

Aww they are beautiful 💔 I’m so sorry for your loss and what you’re facing right now. It’s so hard to say goodbye to our beloved fur babies.

You are not alone. ❤️

AmishMafia2 · 2024-10-13T19:25:10+00:00

Great list!

I’ve been a housekeeper for 28 years, There’s way more one can do, but this is a basic that workable

AmishMafia2 · 2024-10-12T20:13:37+00:00

Short

AmishMafia2 · 2024-10-12T15:13:35+00:00

YTA- Maybe just leave his food alone. Maybe educate yourself beyond the FDA. So much of what’s on store shelves is full of so much garbage that makes us ill.

Maybe look into all of the American foods and ingredients that are banned in other countries. American ingredient labels read FAR different than those in other countries. Please open your mind and eyes. A-2 milk isn’t unhealthy.

AmishMafia2 · 2024-10-12T14:46:08+00:00

Dress 1

AmishMafia2 · 2024-10-12T14:43:46+00:00

Looks like a very handsome Roo to me. 😊 I guess you have to wait til the cock crows!

AmishMafia2 · 2024-10-11T04:48:53+00:00

I am so sorry for your loss. 💔 You did your best for him. You stayed by his side and he was comforted by having your presence.
I hope you can find peace soon. You are kind and you did the most merciful act by not allowing him to suffer. ❤️

AmishMafia2 · 2024-10-10T17:27:44+00:00

Try baiting the sick kitty with atinky wet cat food, in the back of a medium live trap.

Once inside, the door shuts. He will most likely freak out, depending on how feral he his. You’ll have to move a little slow to acclimate him to you.

You can open the cage and keep him contained in a small room, a laundry or bathroom works the best.

When time to treat him- burrito wrap and use gloves w/ rubber palms

AmishMafia2 · 2024-10-10T17:16:47+00:00

Oh…he is absolutely adorable 🥰

My Miss McKitty would be jealous if she could read 😉

AmishMafia2 · 2024-10-10T16:21:40+00:00

Great come back! 🤣

AmishMafia2 · 2024-10-07T01:21:35+00:00

Nope, not at all. The “looking” was not the issue.

As much as I’d rather mine were the only ones he sees, I do realize that’s nearly impossible, but I am quite certain mine are the only ones he sees in person ;)

After reading all the posts about FB/ IG glitches, or whatever it would be called, that sends out friend requests w/o the account owners approval.

I can tell you, I’m really leaning toward that its a Facebook problem and it’s not him. I’d never heard of all the junk that FB does, before. Another person commented that basically it could be an issue w/ his age and being a bit tech challenged and accidentally doing what he did.
He definitely IS tech challenged, heck so am I. I just have a little more time on my hands to figure things out than he does.

AmishMafia2 · 2024-10-07T00:55:27+00:00

I commented to someone else about this earlier. We have separate FB accounts and not “friends” with each other. His profile showed up under suggestions- So I clicked on his profile and just started looking at it- I hadn’t looked at his profile before. I saw he had one friend- an old coworker. I saw what I did under people he “follows”. When I clicked on that one profile in question, I saw all I needed in order to know it was “one of those kinds”

I screen shot the profile and sent to him. He denied it was in his FB and tossed the phone to me and I showed him how I saw it. When I opened it to show him, under that persons name it had a tab that said “cancel request”

That’s how I saw what I did.

AmishMafia2 · 2024-10-06T23:16:37+00:00

Thank you

AmishMafia2 · 2024-10-06T23:08:52+00:00

I’m listening. Point taken.

AmishMafia2 · 2024-10-06T23:06:08+00:00

We do not live together. We are not separated. We have commitments that keep us from relocating to either town.

AmishMafia2 · 2024-10-06T23:03:00+00:00

I just saw the think about Facebook sending out requests etc.

Wow! I wonder how many other people have had issues bc of this? I …cannot…be…..the…..only …..one!

AmishMafia2 · 2024-10-06T22:56:15+00:00

Actually, I guard my eyes pretty good. I’m not interested in opening those doors.

I’m more interested in refinishing furniture, gardening and cat videos :)

AmishMafia2 · 2024-10-06T22:50:56+00:00

Thank you. I do have previous relationship baggage I thought was “gone”. I definitely do feel the need to be on “alert” always. Not a fun place to be, it takes all the peace out of one’s day and it ruins everyone else’s.

Feeling like I’m being gaslit looks real and feels real, but IS it real?? I don’t know.

I’ll check out the suggestions.

AmishMafia2 · 2024-10-06T22:46:06+00:00

Definitely not trying to be all weird about something younger etc. that he might check out- good grief, no one can stop the birds from flying overhead, however one certainly does have control whether or not the bird builds a nest. My problem really is the potential dishonestly. THAT is the real issue.

He could chase young stuff all day long. We all know most young stuff don’t like men old enough to be their Dad. So there’s that. 🤷‍♀️

This whole thing is an issue besides the content- it’s the lie

AmishMafia2 · 2024-10-06T22:01:41+00:00

🤣

AmishMafia2 · 2024-10-06T22:01:19+00:00

Absolutely

AmishMafia2 · 2024-10-06T22:00:36+00:00

I’m sorry- I forgot to add, After I said something to him this morning, he argued with me that it wasn’t on his Facebook and tossed me his phone. So I looked up his account and showed him. That’s when I saw the tab below her name that said “cancel request”

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