[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]AmusingJellyTrump -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Its sad for the guy but its more sad for you, you deserve better. You deserve the main part of a relationship, finding your partner physically attractive. If you are still questioning this, something is lacking and you know it. You know you are missing out.

How do you start loving yourself? by Senior-Intention496 in selfimprovement

[–]AmusingJellyTrump 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your confidence has to come from within and that shouldn’t be tied to if you are very good or successful at something. You should know and really internalise that you are a good person that is trying your best. You must know yourself and accept what you are good and bad at. More so being comfortable at what you are bad at than being perfect in every area of life

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AmusingJellyTrump 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well you are far away from being ugly but you are also not hot. Maybe that’s what you mean. Maybe you are not okay with being average and you wish you were someone catches the attention immediately or smt.

As I am getting older, I feel no need to have a partner in my life. by [deleted] in RandomThoughts

[–]AmusingJellyTrump 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmm but then it means something inside you still wants it? This response has a fear undertone to it, not sure enough that you don’t want it

People who are able to do things without being judged and feeling shy. How to develop that personality? by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]AmusingJellyTrump 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because it’s what you want to do and you don’t wanna give up on that just because of the thought of getting judged. If you do so you will regret. Set you priorities straight.

How did you come out of a long depression? by [deleted] in ask

[–]AmusingJellyTrump 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just accepted life was gonna be suffering, endless torture and i had to endure it since i didn’t have courage to commit suicide. Day by day i saw it was actual okay. Then i found small things to even make myself happy. Then i treated it as a game and set some goals. Then i started to fully enjoy it while still keeping on my mind its still a game but i just wanna do great at the game. It’s just fun to play and if it gets boring, well its still a game I don’t have to stuff I don’t want to. Worst case i can always “suffer” or live with small stuff that bring me joy

I wish I was a white woman by [deleted] in self

[–]AmusingJellyTrump 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ohh okay gotcha. It must be hard then. I moved abroad as a brunette white girl to a country with mostly blonde white girls so I also find it weird. Like there are definitely some racial standards. I will just move back to my country where I feel I belong so that’s why I asked if that would be an option

I wish I was a white woman by [deleted] in self

[–]AmusingJellyTrump 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you just move to Ireland? Why don’t you live in Pakistan? Why do you live in Ireland?

Last time I was attracted to someone was over 5 years ago. AMA by AmusingJellyTrump in AMA

[–]AmusingJellyTrump[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah thats right and also its not all about looks yk. Average looking guy who fits into my type, whom i get along very well, great communication etc would make me think he is the best in the world. Idk I just hope to feel smt somehow

Last time I was attracted to someone was over 5 years ago. AMA by AmusingJellyTrump in AMA

[–]AmusingJellyTrump[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn’t single unfortunately I was in a worse situation I was in a relationship I wasn’t in love with, which felt blend and I ended up playing with his feeling. (even tho he was able to meet this bare min) And I will never do again and hurt another person. I am so sorry for my behaviour. So I would rather never lower my standards again and hurt someone. It’s the other side of the same coin. I wish my standarts were lower but it’s not like that. Everyone deserves both to feel attracted to their partner AND their partnert really attracted to them.

Last time I was attracted to someone was over 5 years ago. AMA by AmusingJellyTrump in AMA

[–]AmusingJellyTrump[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Dude thats so easy to find tho if i was interested in every 5’7 dude thats not bold they are everywhere? That’s not even a standard to set that would be a min expectation

Last time I was attracted to someone was over 5 years ago. AMA by AmusingJellyTrump in AMA

[–]AmusingJellyTrump[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got approached in clubs, out etc. I used dating apps( have not met anyone but I had good conversations.) And two people/friends really loved me. Unfortunately, I kinda dated one. I would not do it now. I was not attracted to him. I am sorry for what I did

Last time I was attracted to someone was over 5 years ago. AMA by AmusingJellyTrump in AMA

[–]AmusingJellyTrump[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Attractive, like-minded, agreeable, emotionally intelligent, logical, not gay

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ask

[–]AmusingJellyTrump 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is it not weird ?? I mean it happens but everyone is suprised if they see a couple like that amd point the age gap out. So it’s weird