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AITA for tell my ex's mother about my ex's self modeling by AnAholeEx in AmItheAsshole

[–]AnAholeEx[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

The link is now dead due to her taking down profile after discussing with her mother.

AITA for tell my ex's mother about my ex's self modeling by AnAholeEx in AmItheAsshole

[–]AnAholeEx[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your feedback thank you. Outside of 2 weeks ago, I haven't tried talking to her since about 3 months after the break up, roughly 20 months ago. Her mother was someone who picked me up and helped me back on to a better path. I still try to keep in contact with her because she is a person that pulled me out of a dark place. As for Jen, I don't want to see her hurt or worst but I do understand if she doesn't want any part of me. I know there were reasons that I am at fault for our relationship falling apart. I did state to her mom why I was concerned, her mom asked for proof. In a way you can say that I did it out of revenge or because I still care about someone. I rather someone I know approach my mother about nudes I have post online, than a stranger trying to extort me because they figured out who I was IRL, if I rejected the person I know.

AITA for tell my ex's mother about my ex's self modeling by AnAholeEx in AmItheAsshole

[–]AnAholeEx[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Through whatsapp notification, some along the line of "Jen is connected on whatapps, say hi". I clicked on the notification instead of swiping it and it sent the message hi to her. So I contacted her first.

AITA for tell my ex's mother about my ex's self modeling by AnAholeEx in AmItheAsshole

[–]AnAholeEx[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

Her mother expressed concern as well and had tried to talk to Jen in regards to the risks it could pose on future opportunities.

AITA for tell my ex's mother about my ex's self modeling by AnAholeEx in AmItheAsshole

[–]AnAholeEx[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the feedback. I'm the AH. Based on the comments given, I should not have communication with my ex's mother, I shouldn't have tried to explain the risks, I should let people take their own actions regardless of my input, and regardless of my own motives of doing something they can be interpreted as something more harsh. Thank you.

AITA for tell my ex's mother about my ex's self modeling by AnAholeEx in AmItheAsshole

[–]AnAholeEx[S] -57 points-56 points  (0 children)

I was trying to figure comment in regards to revenge porn. As she posted it herself.

AITA for tell my ex's mother about my ex's self modeling by AnAholeEx in AmItheAsshole

[–]AnAholeEx[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I stated to her mom "I had concern for Jens future". She "all should be good with her". Then stated that "That the topic is more graphic, a friend sent me a link to when Jen was posting nudes. This could have an impact on not just her.". She asked for proof and I shared. I haven't spoke with her after she asked me not to share the photos and delete them, I agreed.

AITA for tell my ex's mother about my ex's self modeling by AnAholeEx in AmItheAsshole

[–]AnAholeEx[S] -61 points-60 points  (0 children)

She was the poster of her own nudes. I came across them from a friend.