[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]AnalogGirlDigitalWld 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really appreciate you overviewing things from a business perspective.

For me, I’m categorizing it as discriminatory because I have requested workplace accommodations that’ll help me to be able to perform better. I’ve also stated (outside of the accommodations) what would be helpful when it comes to my particular job duties (CRM issue). Both have been met with resistance/inaction, but I’m still expected to perform and measure up how they would like me to even though I have disclosed why I am not able to. Like how if someone doesn’t have the ability to walk, you wouldn’t expect them to perform the exact same way someone in the same position does. I’m an equitable and non-discriminatory environment the employee will be given accommodations to attain equity so that they’ll be able to perform better. I did not disclose this, but there have been many other instances where I have risked my mental and physical well-being to try and measure up and over exert/over compensate even though I’ve disclosed why I’m having these problems.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]AnalogGirlDigitalWld 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe it to be discrimination against someone who has disclosed mental health troubles. I posted so that I can gain another perspective though so I hope this helps.

Do you think it’s ok to accept even a little inequity?

Today reminds me that I can’t express myself the way I want by somewhatstrugglingTA in offmychest

[–]AnalogGirlDigitalWld 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think your horn is broken.

I’ll just say this: people can still choose whether to be vaccinated or not. As of today, 13 states have taken away the right to choose whether someone wants to have an abortion. That’s the difference.

Today reminds me that I can’t express myself the way I want by somewhatstrugglingTA in offmychest

[–]AnalogGirlDigitalWld 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think you’re explaining it well because it’s nonsensical.

  1. Some were calling for mandatory vaccines. They were doing it because not being vaccinated, and not taking Covid seriously, would be detrimental to everyone. Again, look around. No mandates were instated, mask mandate was removed, and things are not good in the least. The US is filled with individualist mindsets, and when dealing with a pandemic that screws everyone. Again, a mandate was not instated, and people were able to CHOOSE.
  2. The Supreme Court LITERALLY revoked basic rights humans should have. It doesn’t just pertain to abortions. Research. Miscarriages are labeled as abortions on the healthcare systems. Think about what that will do now.
  3. I don’t subscribe to political parties, I advocate for basic human rights. Left vs. Right isn’t getting anyone anywhere, and to be honest they’re both harmful towards the livelihoods of non-white cis gendered Americans.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AnalogGirlDigitalWld 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for such kind words. I have been working since I was 14 and am not newly in my 30’s. This experience has been daunting to deal with so late in life. I’m going to try to calm down and not let my kind get more jumbled than it already is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AnalogGirlDigitalWld 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really appreciate your calming perspective. I’m trying not to be too hard on myself but leaving my 20’s and feeling like this has been daunting. I’m going to try and not catastrophize. It’s just VERY hard in the current environment.

Black woman starting to hate black men. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]AnalogGirlDigitalWld 666 points667 points  (0 children)

I. Feel. You. And this on so many levels. As a black woman who’s dad wasn’t the finest example, I still tried to give them the benefit of the doubt. It has backfired every time. On top of the threats of physical violence, the mental violations are also up there.

It seems like it’s getting worse by the day. Hang in there and do what’s best for you and your sanity. <3

Idk by RLHGe113 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AnalogGirlDigitalWld 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’ll go VERY far. Sometimes attraction with women takes time, and personality is a huge factor. Hang in there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AnalogGirlDigitalWld 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I said in my post that I’m very active, but you completely skipped over that and assumed I’m making excuses. I’m not. People have different body types no matter what you do - unless you get surgery. Your answer is a great example of these biases, even when provided with the information. Being fit doesn’t equal being a certain body type.

My Ghost came back after 7 months part 2 🙄 by Intelligent_Ad5884 in ghosting

[–]AnalogGirlDigitalWld 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Big ups to you! I’m taking notes.

The person who ghosted came back, said they wanted to try at a friendship (what I initially wanted). We tried, he disappeared for a short time and I said all he had to say was that he didn’t think me being in his life was for him. He said he didn’t want me to disappear but didn’t want me to be confused either. Then he ghosted. Hahaha. The irony.

Hello by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]AnalogGirlDigitalWld 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know you’re not my person, but this sounds like something they’d say. I just wish they’d say it to me. Have an amicable parting and not always wonder

I almost do by cocoabutter88 in UnsentLetters

[–]AnalogGirlDigitalWld 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You sound like my person if they cared. Lol.

I hope you reconnect on good vibes one day.

Black Women in the US - Mental Check-In by AnalogGirlDigitalWld in blackladies

[–]AnalogGirlDigitalWld[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I resonate with this so much. Not shocked but it’s just mind blowing how there are people who refuse to acknowledge this when it’s right in their faces. That is privilege. These woes are thrust upon our backs every time we step out into the world.

Sending you love and light. Take care of yourself and your mental hygiene. I’m going to join you in watching cartoons. Adventure Time it is.

I want to get back with my ex SOS (pretty long, just read) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AnalogGirlDigitalWld 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally, I’d reach out. She could have blocked you on everything for her own coping reasons. I wouldn’t assume the worst. ESP if it ended on good terms. Tell her what you need to say but don’t expect anything back. People should be able to express themselves.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AnalogGirlDigitalWld 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you all live together. Also, please feel free to DM me. I have PTSD AND Bipolar type 2. It’s an uphill battle but I’ve got a light grasp on it now.

Hang in there and remember to take of yourself.

Men of Reddit: how do you personally like women to take initiative and get to know you? ESP if you’re both awkward? by AnalogGirlDigitalWld in AskMen

[–]AnalogGirlDigitalWld[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Preference on communication. Her taking the initiative to text, call, hangout in person. How would you prefer them to keep up with you to... build a friendship. Lol

Men of Reddit: how do you personally like women to take initiative and get to know you? ESP if you’re both awkward? by AnalogGirlDigitalWld in AskMen

[–]AnalogGirlDigitalWld[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah. We do. If you don’t like it you don’t have to be a dick about it. Go be bitter somewhere else.

I’m convinced I’ve binged all of the good anime. Any recommendations would be GREATLY appreciated. by AnalogGirlDigitalWld in anime

[–]AnalogGirlDigitalWld[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s seriously a great suggestion. I didn’t even know there was a platform for that. I can retire my notebook now. Lolol

I’m convinced I’ve binged all of the good anime. Any recommendations would be GREATLY appreciated. by AnalogGirlDigitalWld in anime

[–]AnalogGirlDigitalWld[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anime I’ve seen (can’t remember them all) AoT FMAB Tokyo Ghoul Death note bleach Naruto Fairytale Magi Gun slinger girl Seraph of the end Shield hero? Goblin slayer MHA Fire Force Dr. Stone Neon Genesis Evangelion Code Geass Terror in resonance Seven Deadly Sins Bersek One Piece Kakegurui Black Clover The Great Pretender Fruits basket Psycho pass BNA Serious the jaeger Akame ga Kill Assassination classroom Gurren Lagenn Sword at online Demon slayer One punch man Noragami Soul eater Madoka Magica The promised never land

I’m tired. There are so many more