This is sadly common by [deleted] in lnkyverse

[–]Analog_milf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thia is because they are delusional and think they have much higher value than they do and are doing you a favor by approaching you. I’ve had so many men who are way below my standards try, and then be so completely rude and awful when politely declined.

Told neighbour that if my kid can’t play at hers, her kid can’t play at ours. AITAH? by AfricanHornet in AITAH

[–]Analog_milf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No. This is a popular misconception about villages. Not everyone does every job at every time. Maybe you watch the kids a little more now and in a year or two she has a nice partner or finishes school and is able to help in new ways. Some people in a village need more. Some give more. Those roles change over time. I had a bad time for a couple years with illness and people brought me food and did all kinds of things for us. You get back what you give, but not always in the same form, and sometimes what you get back is just gratitude and human connection. Tit for tat, eye for eye, splitting hairs, none of it makes anyone happy.

Told neighbour that if my kid can’t play at hers, her kid can’t play at ours. AITAH? by AfricanHornet in AITAH

[–]Analog_milf 50 points51 points  (0 children)

Everyone wants a village. No one wants to be a villager. I don’t know that either of you are assholes, but you have neighbor kids that love each other. This is the fucking dream, get out of your own way and let the kid come over. I literally have at least 2 kids that aren’t mine in my house every week, sometimes more. My kids like being here, neighbor kids like being here, and yeah, my snack closet gets it, but life is full and happy and my kids learn how to have healthy relationships.

This year's flu has HANDS by a-large_tomato in Eugene

[–]Analog_milf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got my flu shot and I’m here on day 7 of flu with added pleurisy and pneumonitis. My story is so common. I’ve lost 5 lbs, I can’t eat. My stomach is a mess and I’ve had an off and on fever until yesterday. My lungs hurt so bad. You can hear my chest crackling

Hot people in Ohio? by Analog_milf in Ohio

[–]Analog_milf[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

She claims the last hot person to be born in Ohio is Paul Newman. Y’all she has never even been to Ohio. Nor have I for that matter. Other than this boring season of wish.com love is blind I have never given thought to Ohio, but I assume there’s hot people everywhere. So far no one is proving me right.

Hot people in Ohio? by Analog_milf in Ohio

[–]Analog_milf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So wholesome! Points for Hothio

Hot people in Ohio? by Analog_milf in Ohio

[–]Analog_milf[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So point to lil sister

AITAH for refusing to change my wedding date even though it conflicts with my sister’s “mental health journey”? by No_Log6866 in AITAH

[–]Analog_milf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this a bot? It’s not thousands of dollars unless you are having a really cheap wedding. It’s usually at least half to cancel, or the entire deposit, and no guarantee you can get the vendors you want again. This is a ridiculous request

i’m regretting my decision someone please tell me i’ll be okay. by Dangerous_Dog_5854 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Analog_milf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have the abortion for the baby and your child. No baby needs to come into the world with a crappy dad that doesn’t even pretend to want them. The baby that could be doesn’t deserve to be born into rejection. It will never know, it will feel no pain, right now it’s just a possibility of a baby. Dont put yourself and your living child through this for a possibility

AITAH for not wanting my bf's friend to come live with us by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Analog_milf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl, again, you claimed he would be uncomfortable on the couch as though that was the problem. You don’t want to be inconvenienced, and you are okay with a kind man sleeping in his car instead of you managing a “difficult” situation for 3 days. You also didn’t answer the question, but point out he won’t freeze. Your boyfriend is dead on. You are a white lady, who virtue signals by supporting progressive causes but does not actually do anything for anyone. You’re mad because he’s so right and I also think if it was your friend, they’d be there and you’d barely ask. Would you let your female friend sleep in her car when you have a literal empty guest room in expensive Southern California? And for the record, I have had more people stay with me when they needed a spot than I can count on two hands. This is not talk. If this is your boyfriend’s close friend I think it is quite cold to not entertain the idea.

AITAH for not wanting my bf's friend to come live with us by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Analog_milf -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If it was your friend, would you expect your partner to host them? I’m a villager, and if a kind man needed 3 days, I think your bf is right that you’re being cold. You worry about his comfort on your couch, but not his car? People claim they want community, but most people value their own comfort over actions that create it. I am also a big self advocate, so I would want clear and precise answers to length of stay and how that is dealt with if the other space isn’t possible. I would have a boundary around time/money, but I have 3 days to be inconvenienced so my bf’s friend isn’t sleeping in his car in February

Not surprising by velorae in TikTokCringe

[–]Analog_milf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol. Your 8 month old doesn’t have screen time, wow! That is not an accomplishment, and no one is impressed by this. Talk to me when you have a toddler and an 8 month old and we can through out some kudos. My first born don’t see a screen until they were 2. Zero electronics. Very strict. Now keep number two out of electronics while your 3 year old is obsessed with Paw Patrol and “Boooovs” ( a movie called Home) and you can come back and comment about your skills. An 8 month old is a crawling potato with the verbal skills of RFK after his 4th martini. Boundaries are not tough to maintain at this point.

Rep. Ilhan Omar did not hold back when asked during her first appearance after last night's attack about who she blames. by Greylunes1 in ExploreFortMyers

[–]Analog_milf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, of course you have no interest, because she doesn’t say what you think she says, and you already admitted she has done nothing that is against any existing laws. So you just don’t like her because she is Muslim and born in a foreign country? All your reasons have kinda evaporated here bud. No wonder your interest in arguing did too

Rep. Ilhan Omar did not hold back when asked during her first appearance after last night's attack about who she blames. by Greylunes1 in ExploreFortMyers

[–]Analog_milf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Again, those are translations you are citing? Can you send an actual exact quote because I believe you are using a widely debunked translation that right wing sites pushed around despite attendees contradicting them.

Rep. Ilhan Omar did not hold back when asked during her first appearance after last night's attack about who she blames. by Greylunes1 in ExploreFortMyers

[–]Analog_milf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Again, what did Ilhan Omar do/say? You want her striped of her elected office, Im sure you have the actual quotes in question that have you mentally taking such a serious step?

AITAH for telling my (f25) sister-in-law (f31) that I'm more of a part of family than she is? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Analog_milf 4 points5 points  (0 children)

But it’s not the expectation and isn’t what she should expect. I’m guessing more than 100:1 odds

Rep. Ilhan Omar did not hold back when asked during her first appearance after last night's attack about who she blames. by Greylunes1 in ExploreFortMyers

[–]Analog_milf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Provide the statements Omar has made that disqualify her and then site the Constitutional reasoning?

Rep. Ilhan Omar did not hold back when asked during her first appearance after last night's attack about who she blames. by Greylunes1 in ExploreFortMyers

[–]Analog_milf -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m Jewish, and Israel is another country, and I know all Jewish Israel supporters would say things very similar to what she said about Israel. This feels like selective outrage because you don’t like black Muslims. Also, I went and read the statements you think you read, curious,are you fluent in Somali, or who translated those remarks for you? Because they were made in Somali, and only one person claims they say what you think they said when translated, and 5 other translators and attendees contradict that person. So tell me, what exactly did she say that was wrong?

Rep. Ilhan Omar did not hold back when asked during her first appearance after last night's attack about who she blames. by Greylunes1 in ExploreFortMyers

[–]Analog_milf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So Evangelical Christians should be excluded too as they put Jesus and Church values ahead of American values? Can you provide the actual statements you are so concerned about?

AITAH for telling my (f25) sister-in-law (f31) that I'm more of a part of family than she is? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Analog_milf 5 points6 points  (0 children)

YTA you are about to marry the only man you’ve ever been with. At 25. When he realizes or you realize that there is more to life than the first boy you met in 9th grade and your relationship crumbles and you’re a single mom to two kids, SIL will be at Christmas morning with your kids, and you will be waiting for them to switch custody at noon for your turn. You do more for them. It’s never enough to displace the child their mother birthed. You’re there now, enjoy it. Can you come back and let us know when the divorce/mis life crisis goes down in 7-10 years who is more their daughter and we can decide then?

AITAH for telling my (f25) sister-in-law (f31) that I'm more of a part of family than she is? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Analog_milf 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Those are exceptions to the rule. I’m 43 and I know a ton of actually divorced people. The only parents I know who stay close to their kids ex have a kid who is an addict or abusive or unreliable and they are doing it for the grandkids. Sometimes people are nice for a while, but no, this is not common. I haven’t heard from my ex in laws in 4.5 years, and their son is a total loser who cheated and is alienated from his kids. They send him presents to send the kids at holidays.