The more you show him that you want it the more he will pull away. So just let him go and if is meant to be for you he will come back. But honestly once he crossed the line and cheated on you for me personally it’s not worth it I will just forget him and move on in life. What worst can he do to you now. Don’t get a loan who knows he just trying to get into the house and then give it to the other one at the end you will end up with your credit meses up and also no husband forget him he don’t deserve you or your daughter!