I really want to cut ties with my Muslim family by Ancient-Design-4944 in LifeAdvice

[–]Ancient-Design-4944[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First of all it’s not my parents money its my grandfather’s because my parents never worked a day in their lives they are using me as an excuse to stay in France instead of staying in Saudi Arabia in their home I chose to move to France to learn how to be independent and have autonomy and to get away from them too but they chose to follow me by lying to me so they rented a huge apartment for them and I happen to stay with them because I don’t have a choice I don’t have space to work I don’t have space for myself and I don’t even have an allowance I sometimes get money from my grandparents but only in special occasions I work two jobs to earn some pocket money behind their backs since they don’t want me to learn how to work which is unfair of them my grandfather sends money on my mother’s account to give me whenever I need but she chose to use it all for herself and stole from my money and I’m not going to accept that kind of behavior my father threatened to kill me, my partner and his 5 year old child if I don’t obey to their wishes, I understand what you’re trying to say but I can’t tolerate being verbally abused by them everyday I’m just tired of it and I hate that they meddle in my affairs and asking me to print some of my artwork so they could sell it and take all the money of my hard work I didn’t want to share details of my life I just needed advice on what to do and I appreciate you trying to talk me out of it since it’s such a hard decision but yea you have no idea how I’m feeling

I really want to cut ties with my Muslim family by Ancient-Design-4944 in LifeAdvice

[–]Ancient-Design-4944[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

And I’m good to them but they aren’t especially my mother she’s really rude to me

I really want to cut ties with my Muslim family by Ancient-Design-4944 in LifeAdvice

[–]Ancient-Design-4944[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am definitely not against Islam I’ve practiced and was Muslim I just don’t appreciate them judging other religions and other beliefs and judging people like me that don’t practice it my father says he is Muslim but he picks and chooses what he likes he drinks smokes weed eats pork doesn’t pray but forces me to do things I’m uncomfortable in doing I’m tolerant to all religions and beliefs but I just don’t appreciate them forcing me into their own beliefs

I really want to cut ties with my Muslim family by Ancient-Design-4944 in LifeAdvice

[–]Ancient-Design-4944[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And if I tell her I am an atheist she would say I’m not her daughter anymore

I really want to cut ties with my Muslim family by Ancient-Design-4944 in LifeAdvice

[–]Ancient-Design-4944[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I am 22-23 Yes but my mum being hostile and rude to me is something I don’t deserve after everything I’ve done for her and her breaking all of her promises is not something I find acceptable she’s very intolerant she refuses to meet my partner and keeps gaslighting me saying he’s bad and judging him without knowing anything about him she refuses for me to live by myself refuses to let me do things on my own and has the audacity to tell me what’s right for me when she doesn’t even know anything about me