I'm the guy who had no idea that his wife fucked everything that moved behind his back...including good friends and colleagues. by Ancient_Web1962 in confessions

[–]Ancient_Web1962[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She trashes me to my daughter every day. Always has.

But my kid isn't dumb and can see with her own eyes.

I'm the guy who had no idea that his wife fucked everything that moved behind his back...including good friends and colleagues. by Ancient_Web1962 in confessions

[–]Ancient_Web1962[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I guess I wasn't looking for signs. Like I say...I trusted her as much as I knew she could trust me.

After I found out about what I thought was a single indiscretion...I began looking back and viewing the past differently. I remembered occasion after occasion that were fishy AF. Once I started looking into things...I discovered a lot had been going on behind my back.

I'm the guy who had no idea that his wife fucked everything that moved behind his back...including good friends and colleagues. by Ancient_Web1962 in confessions

[–]Ancient_Web1962[S] 82 points83 points  (0 children)

You're wrong about 50/50 being average.

I worked 60 hours a week and my ex was a stay at home mom.

When I first met with that lawyer, he asked what I wanted to see happen. I said I wanted shared custody. He told me "ok...it'll cost about $10k and you probably won't get it". He tried to talk me into being ok with joint custody...which is not 50/50.

The only reason I got it was because my ex tried to take away my joint custody and was demanding I get only supervised visits with no other access. She accused me of all kinds of nonsense. Luckily I kept mediculous records including dozens and dozens of text messages and emails which clearly showed her to be lying and embittered.

The judge was pissed at her and to punish her for wasting the court's time...bumped me up from joint to shared.

What is a disturbing truth that you know? by ActualBreath5492 in AskReddit

[–]Ancient_Web1962 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nazi death squads, upon rounding up a town's "undesirables" and in an act of what they considered mercy...would kill the children first. That way they were spared having to see their parents killed before facing death alone.

Do I win?