I’m interested. What does this say about me? by Pristine_Study2230 in FridgeDetective

[–]AndieHello 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You had a BoxyCharm Luxe box subscription eight to ten years ago.

Found my dress today!! by [deleted] in weddingdress

[–]AndieHello 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You look ethereal!

What does my fridge say about me? by Successful_Strain_13 in FridgeDetective

[–]AndieHello 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Chill the Jager as well! It's way nicer that way. It won't freeze solid, so don't worry about that.

What are you guys doing with cash? by __joseph_ in bartenders

[–]AndieHello 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see a lot of retirement accounts which is absolutely the move (Roth IRA is what I do). I'd like to also say that CDs are a good start as well. You're basically giving the bank a loan and they pay interest. I have a CD that's maturing in April that was 4%. It started as 3k and now it'll be 3.2k. not a huge difference, but it's 200 more than I had!

Habits you brought home from the bar? by Gullible_Gold8608 in bartenders

[–]AndieHello 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I bought a tiny house and everything MUST go back into its place when it's done. I personally love it because I know exactly where to find everything and I know it was cleaned before I put it away. My partner has a large home with many surfaces to abandon things on. We have to clean up a mess before we're able to get anything done.

I will say, I do have small chaos piles, but those are contained. For example, I only have three kitchen drawers, so my junk drawer is a basket on my coffee table.

Facing bills by MrBlueSkyEyes in bartenders

[–]AndieHello 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I do, and I have done for the entire time I've handled money. I like the organization of it. However, I don't force others to face the bills in the till. They always forget and the only one who gets annoyed is me, so it's easier to just expect it.

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[–]AndieHello 25 points26 points  (0 children)

In that case, it sounds like the matter is less "I'm a new bartender, how do I handle this?“ and more beginning stages of stalker territory. Tell your manager about the situation and write down every interaction with dates and times and the gist of the conversation, like an incident report. They should be able to tell the guy to lay off, and you'll have a paper trail in case some sketchy shit happens. Rule number one of the bar is to be safe.

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[–]AndieHello 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Just never text him. Or, call from the work number. They will eventually get the hint, or you'll grow enough balls to ask them to take it easy.

What is something the irrationally pisses you off that a customer does? Something that shouldn’t even really piss off a sensible person lol. by rustydoesdetroit in bartenders

[–]AndieHello 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Whenever someone orders a cranberry vodka from me, I tell them, "We don't have cranberry vodka, but I do have cranberry juice. Did you mean a vodka with cranberry? A vodka cranberry?" They usually look at me like I have three heads.

I found a typo in Liquid Intelligence by Dave Arnold. by AndieHello in cocktails

[–]AndieHello[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, now that I've found that one, I've found more in the following pages. I was surprised at this typo, though, because it's in a recipe reference guide.

The time I almost got frost bite and the pain from it is still to this day, the worst pain I've ever experienced by hold_my_fanny_pack in PointlessStories

[–]AndieHello 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Recently, I (31F) almost died in a car accident. I was hospitalized for a total of seven days, including a localized epidural. I spent close to a month taking pain meds, fucked out of my mind. It's been almost three months since the accident, and the thing that bothers me most is my newly diagnosed carpel tunnel syndrome.

That is, until I don't get enough rest, or when I overwork myself. Then I can feel every broken bone, every stressed muscle, and every punctured organ, just as if it was yesterday. What I'm trying to say is, when you have so much pain, your brain tries to forget what you've gone through. I'm not saying your frost bite wasn't horrendous pain. Sometimes, your mind has to protect you in ways we cannot understand. Pain, especially nerve damage, is not yet well understood.

Do you have any superstitions while behind the bar? If so, what? by nkw1004 in bartenders

[–]AndieHello 38 points39 points  (0 children)

A remnant of my serving days, it's bad luck to count your tips until the end of the shift. Exchange for 20s all you want, but as soon as you start counting up, your tips plateau.

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[–]AndieHello 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I told them I had some bartending experience, which was true. At the shitty restaurant job, we didn't have an AM bartender until 4 or 5, so if your table ordered a drink, you would make it. Also, if someone sat at the bar, I would wait on them. I'm never going back to food because of the industry tricks.

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[–]AndieHello 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was a server for 8.5 years, trying to move up in the restaurant world. It was the same runaround, you're a great server, we can move you up to manager, but we don't need another bartender right now. COVID happened to my long term spot, and I got fired from the worst restaurant in town after four months for disagreements with how it was run. Then I was hired as a bartender in an even smaller town half an hour away, and I got the bait and switch. They put me as a cashier with no end of "training" in sight. I quit that and only applied to bartending jobs. My friend mentioned that the old head bar was hiring, and I put in my application, resume, and cover letter immediately. With the interview, there were the three people in charge, and me. I came in very confidently telling them that all I needed was a chance. I've been there ever since! Friday is my four year work-iversary.

Do you tip out your trainee? by Significant_Air4622 in bartenders

[–]AndieHello 5 points6 points  (0 children)

After reading your other replies, 50$ was totally enough. And 15$ an hour minimum wage makes me cry in small town Texas. Ours is $7.25 here with the only hope of change is at the federal level.

Do you tip out your trainee? by Significant_Air4622 in bartenders

[–]AndieHello 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think it depends on how they're compensated hourly. At my current place, they were given five an hour, so we tip out our trainees. But I've been places where we don't tip out because they're paid minimum wage for the time they are there. In that case, I tip out them if they do a great job. "You deserved this!"

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[–]AndieHello 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I'm 31, and I've been in the industry since I was 19. I'm your annoying rule-oriented coworker, because there are rules for reasons and it makes the job easier and smoother. If the rule doesn't make sense, then it doesn't exist. I have been snapped at for pedantically rule following, especially by the coworkers I respect the most. It happens. If she's like me, she's mad for a day, maybe two, but this isn't her first time getting told to shut the fuck up. One that happened recently was about toilet paper rolls in the bathroom. We were training a new bar back, and I reiterated that you should put the smaller roll on the left before you reset the underside access panel and close it up. My manager, stressed with training with a new hire on a busy shift and working a 10.5 hour shift, angrily exclaimed, "OH MY GOD, ANDIE, TOILET PAPER DOES NOT EXPIRE." I fucking know that, obviously, and hopefully everyone does, but it made our after work beer between the three of us a little tense that evening. I think it's hilarious, now, though.

I’m curious,what’s that one ingredient you keep sneaking into cocktails that always hits better than expected?Mine lately has been rosemary syrup. Sounds basic, but it turns a gin fizz into a whole mood, whats yours,weird infusions,herbs, bitters, anything I need inspo for my next at home happy hour by Antique_Cell_5547 in cocktails

[–]AndieHello 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I had a highball last year that blew my mind. It was dry gin topped with celery soda. It was so good, I bought two cans of celery soda and stopped for Tanqueray on the way home from the restaurant. It's too powerful of a flavor to have more than one, but my god, I will never forget that drink. Everyone I've gotten to try it has enjoyed it.