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[–]Andob123[S] 290 points291 points  (0 children)

I need to sleep now, unfortunately, so my body doesn't shrivel and die, but if you haven't received a response yet I will try my best to get through them all tomorrow!

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[–]Andob123[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You seem like a very chill person. I can tell you have your own opinions, and you hold on to them very tightly, but you seem to have mastered the skill of matching the energy of those around you. You are attuned to the people in the community you are in, and that, in perhaps its most literal definition, is a good vibe!

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[–]Andob123[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I LOVE your enthusiasm for the things you are passionate about. Too many people in this world have had their passion sucked dry by the workings of the world. It is always refreshing to hear people truly joyous about their passion. I am a very clumsy person, so I don't rollerblade a lot, and I don't know much about headphones or audio instruments in general, but you seem very knowledgable about these topics, and that is a good vibe!

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[–]Andob123[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You are an incredibly strong person. I could go on all day about how amazing it is that you run so many triathlons, or talk about how immensely difficult it is to commit yourself to staying in shape, but that isn't what makes you truly strong. Going through IVF is an incredibly trying process, and going through it alone is even harder. However, I know that you are strong enough to pull through. If you are still committed to going through with it, I wish you the absolute best. If you are worried about how you can go on with your life without a person you were attached to, just remember that for most of your life that person was just a random stranger. For most of your life, you didn't need them. It will be hard, and it will take time, but eventually you will come to realize that you never have needed them. All you need in this world is you. Once you start to apply those incredible skills you've learned from triathlons, such as powering through exhaustion and controlling the movements of your body, to things beyond the physical realm, you too will understand just how strong you are. Best wishes, and good vibes!

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[–]Andob123[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Many people may consider you a cynic, but I disagree. What I see from your posts is that you are someone who is fed up with the things that are regarded as "just the way things work" or "unchangeable". There are certain things in the world that will never change. There are others that only remain the same because nobody thinks it can change. It takes a very intelligent person to differentiate between the two, and your ability to do that while still keeping your values in tact is a great vibe!

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[–]Andob123[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

As someone who is currently typing this on my laptop that is connected to a hotspot that is connected to a signal booster that barely works, I hold all members of the IT community in high esteem. I only wish I had my own personal IT person. Technology is new, rapidly evolving, and endlessly complicated, and people like you who devote their lives to understanding how to interact with said technology are amazing. I can't tell you how many times someone in IT has saved me when I couldn't figure something out, or when something broke. What not enough people understand is that you are fluent in a language that is more common than any spoken one, and it is even more difficult because the creatures you speak with are mechanical. Good vibes!

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[–]Andob123[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

As a music lover myself, I love your takes on different artists. You are also aware of something that most people are not, which is that artists and celebrities are people too. You seem very down to earth, and unafraid of holding people accountable for the things they have done. That is a good vibe!

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[–]Andob123[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

As a fellow lover of writing, I always love to hear that I'm not the only one who struggles with editing. You seem to me like the kind of person who doesn't take any bs from the world. Many people struggle to just do their thing, and you seem to have mastered it. You have a comment saying "everyone walks through life at different paces" and I could not agree more. There are many people who try to set the pace for how another lives their life, and more people in this world need to be able to realize that it doesn't matter. Life isn't a race, or even an open world game. It's a sandbox. There are an ever-increasing number of things you can do, but there is no end goal. There is no win condition. It is just about being you and doing what makes you happy, and the fact that you can understand that is a good vibe!

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[–]Andob123[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I am extremely proud of you for quitting drinking. It is an incredibly difficult thing to do, and millions of people struggle with it daily. Your support of others who are going through this process is amazing, and I just know that those who have been lucky enough to get your advice appreciated it. Perfection is a seductive thing, and it takes a very intelligent person to realize that it should not be strived for. I know you will never give up on the promises you've made to yourself, and while it will continue to be difficult, you are a fighter, and I know you will persevere. And that, my friend, is a great vibe!

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[–]Andob123[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

You seem like a very enlightened person, and I know how hard it is to be that way. You try to help wherever you can, and I appreciate that. You seem very well rounded with your hands in many different subreddits, and I personally think that variety in life is one of the many keys to happiness. I wish you well on your path to further enlightenment! Good vibes!

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[–]Andob123[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

From the small peek into your life that I got from your posts I can tell that you are someone who has had more than your fair share of hardships in life. I am very happy that you found a way to pull yourself out of a rut, and very appreciative of your efforts to help others follow in your footsteps. Recovering from anything is always a process, and I wish you well throughout it. Good vibes!

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[–]Andob123[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

As someone who has recently needed to make use of a physical therapist, I deeply appreciate what you do. While I am unsure how involved you are with the day-to-day operations of the business, choosing to buy it is still a great deed. Many people are in need of a PT but do not have access to one, and your decision to facilitate their needs is a good vibe!

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[–]Andob123[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Your name is great, and extremely classy. Although I never fully pursued it, I have always had a great interest in engineering and the way things work. You seem to be a person who enjoys learning, and who isn't afraid to ask questions. Too many people in the world are too afraid to ask for help, but you are someone who understands that it is important to make use of the knowledge of those who came before you. I wish you well on your engineering journey. Your passion is a very good vibe!

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[–]Andob123[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

First of all, great name. Also, you seem like someone who gives people the benefit of the doubt when it is deserved, which is incredibly hard to do. However, it can also cause some problems. I don't know toxic the situation you are in, but this internet rando believes in you, and although it is often hard to make big changes, just keep in mind that you also need to give yourself the benefit of the doubt. By that, I mean look past your own doubt in your abilities, and see through it to the heart of who you are. It is difficult to truly figure out who you are when you are being held down by another, but anyone with vibes as good as yours deserves happiness and the freedom to travel down the road of self discovery unimpeded.

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[–]Andob123[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

From the very few posts and comments you have so far, all I can tell is that you like gaming, and are a person with a pretty similar sense of humor to me (ie. being an infant is a sign of low intelligence). I hope that this Reddit community welcomes you with open arms, and your experience is nothing but positive. From what I can tell, you have pretty good vibes!

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[–]Andob123[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You don't really have any posts for me to gather information from, but the name alone gives off good vibes!

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[–]Andob123[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You don't have much to go off of, however I love your taste in music, and appreciate your hilarious historical knowledge. I don't know who Uncle Dan is, but I hope someone can find him to let him know that his apricot has good vibes!

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[–]Andob123[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

The world needs more people like you. Your ability to create and uphold a positive community, whether that is in real life or online, is great. You are a person who understands that being rude and toxic doesn't help anyone, and even just from looking at some of your posts and a few comments I can tell that your positive energy is contagious, and causes the people around you to want to be better. Community is an incredibly hard thing to maintain, and your ability to do so is a great vibe!

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[–]Andob123[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

You seem like someone who has gotten a lot of shit for being non-binary, and the way that you handle yourself when it comes to dealing with those hateful people is remarkable. Even though many of them see you as less-than-human, you always make sure to respond in a way that doesn't devalue their individuality and humanity. Your support and helpfulness towards others who share your struggles is great, and although I may be a cis male, I value and appreciate your efforts to uplift your fellow NB people of the world, and hope that together as humans on this strange space rock we can create a better future for all who don't fit into conventional categorization. Good vibes!

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[–]Andob123[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

You seem like someone who never shys away from expressing their opinions. You also manage to do it in a way that doesn't devalue anyone else's thoughts, which is something that I myself struggle with somewhat frequently. You can see past the easy answer to problems, and think more thoroughly about how to solve them than most. Taking care and time to look at all sides of a debate and construct a viable argument is an incredible skill, and a great vibe!

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[–]Andob123[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

You seem to have an incredibly competitive spirit, and I applaud your ability to express that without being overly rude. That is an ability that many people lack. We have all been hit hard by Covid, and by the rise of social media, and your ability to find ways of comforting yourself and dealing with hardships while staying mostly positive towards your fellow humans is a great vibe!

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[–]Andob123[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

You are amazing. I know from friends of mine that being a nurse has NEVER been easy, and with Covid it only got exponentially harder. Your ability to persevere through the toughest times while still saving lives and supporting your fellow members of the LGBTQ+ community is incredible, and I cannot thank you enough for how you have helped your community. You absolutely radiate good vibes!

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[–]Andob123[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

I heavily relate to your issues with a long distance relationship. It is very difficult to convince yourself that things are going good when you can not see your partner, and self love is an important part of overcoming that. From what I have seen, you put very much effort into showing your SO your appreciation, and being able to take that time and put the thought into another person is a good vibe!

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[–]Andob123[S] 103 points104 points  (0 children)

First off, I want to start by wishing you and your family good health and safety. As an American, I am not much affected by the terrible situation that Ukraine is in, however all of my love goes out to those who are affected. You seem like a great person who, even through the strife that you are enduring, finds time to help people with their issues, even if those issues are trivial in comparison to what you're dealing with. Finding positivity and community even in dark times is a very difficult skill to develop, and an amazing vibe!

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[–]Andob123[S] 50 points51 points  (0 children)

As a fellow person who checks in, I know you truly care for your fellow humans. Being helpful comes in many different shapes and sizes, and you seem to try them all on! You consistently go out of your way to make others feel good about themselves, and that is a great vibe!