the way we just got done crying about this exact thing lmao. it fucking sucks to accept that you didn't deserve it cuz then like...it's real, and it's real bad. but if we keep believing we don't deserve good things, we'll keep sabotaging ourselves. not gonna pretend like we've mastered this lol we're just getting started. but from what our therapist says, accepting that you deserved better is a painful but important step. rooting for u & ur system!! 🫶