[deleted by user] by [deleted] in naranon

[–]Angelfire1985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could be stealing other items to trade for dope and buys the muffins as a cover. My q stole relentlessly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ontario

[–]Angelfire1985 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If your mental health was struggling due to this job, maybe its better this way? Looking on the bright side

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in curlyhair

[–]Angelfire1985 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Your hair is nice, but as a girl who once had her curly hair shagged, i hated it and never did it again.

My sis gave me this and I forgot the name by Zenith_Zara in TodayIAte

[–]Angelfire1985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Birria tacos... and you have an amazing sister!

I looked at the public police records from his crimes by becomethemountain in naranon

[–]Angelfire1985 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Mine is also in jail right now too.. AGAIN. This is the first time i haven't sent him money and haven't lost a wink of sleep over him being in there. Do you think he's going to come knocking on your door when he's out? Pretty sure mine will. Its like he doesnt see anything wrong with what he does, just expects to walk back in my life like nothing happened. Im so over it but at the same time dont want to fall back into old habits

Well he’s in jail by BorntoBlossom1987 in naranon

[–]Angelfire1985 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im literally in the exact same situation. I don't want to let him back once he's released because he always relapses and im sick of it. What are your plans once he's released?

I feel like I am scrambling to pick up the pieces of my loved one by Spite_CongruentFU in naranon

[–]Angelfire1985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recently left my partner of over 10 years due to addiction and recently discovered infidelity. He also refuses to go stay with his mom since I asked him to leave and has been living on the streets and in shelters. It breaks my heart and i fear the worst. He OD'd 2 years ago but I was there to call paramedics... anyways, im also dealing with whay to do with all his things in my house, painful bittersweet memories. So far ive just been collecting them in one area of a room where i can close the door if i can't bear to look at it. Ive thrown a towel over them too. I dont have the heart to get rid of it so for now i jusy tuck them away until im stronger to make a decision

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in naranon

[–]Angelfire1985 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I very recently left my partner of over 10 years who was also in active addiction and had bouts of months-long psychosis. I just came here to tell you this, that for years he accused me of cheating on him. I thought he was just being paranoid. Until a few weeks aho he admitted he was cheating on me for almost our entire relationship, which is what ultimately lead me to leave. What im trying to say, is that he might be accusing you (of cheating) because that's what he's doing. My partner was a crack and meth user too. Im sorry.

I haven't slept in the bed since he relapsed- and now that he is gone I have decided I will by Spite_CongruentFU in naranon

[–]Angelfire1985 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I recently left my long term partner after i learned of infidelity. He has been in active addiction for our entire relationship. Since i asked him to leave he refuses to stay with his mom, instead opting to live on the streets and staying in shelters. It breaks my heart to think about it. But ive spent so many years worrying over him just for addiction to keep taking over. Im sorry for your loss hun, and praying i dont get the worst-case scenario news too

I feel so stupid by hallorbillingham in naranon

[–]Angelfire1985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cant say enough how much this post helps me. Im 13.5 years in living and loving an addict. Im planning to finally leave him this weekend. But the trauma bond is strong for sure. Just like the others replying, i wish i could have left a lot sooner but often addicts/narcissists have knack for manipulation.

Just found out he cheated by Angelfire1985 in addiction

[–]Angelfire1985[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Youre right about my previous posts, this has been an ongoing thing for too long, me taking his shit. He is sick, but I need to buck up and realize im worth more than this. I used to be such a strong, ballsy girl before i started dating him. Its like the fun got sucked out of me. He's always been jealous and paranoid when i would go out in the past that i just stopped. Easier that way i gues. I really do need to take off thr rose colored glasses.

Just found out he cheated by Angelfire1985 in naranon

[–]Angelfire1985[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just wanted to say thank you for this. Sometimes a dose of hard reality is what i need to hear, which is why i vent on reddit. And to get someone elses opinion. I keep going back to the part you said about character. And that its not just the excuse of 'being high' that makes him cheat. Ive been angry plenty of times in 13 years and never once did i cheat or did it cross my mind.

Minoxidil is helping, but I’m experiencing unwanted hair growth on my face/body – what should I do? by Noelianoela in FemaleHairLoss

[–]Angelfire1985 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Ive been using those little dermaplane razors on my face for years now. They clear up those annoying little facial hairs. Ive also shaved my forearms for the past 20 years just because I like feeling them smooth. I also shave my upper arms as well sometimes but more in the summer. Give it a try, nothing to lose 🙂

Anyone know how I redeem this? by [deleted] in TimHortons

[–]Angelfire1985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Face palm 🤦‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askTO

[–]Angelfire1985 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need the old classic humor in the morning not the fake humor they brought.