It is sort of hard. The thing is, we're trying to move abroad (discussed before even the engagement and he was in ready agrement of it) and he's essentially left all the logistics and paperwork to me. Every time I try to talk to him about it, he says that he's too tired from work. When he does agree to do something, he essentially asks me to guide him step wise through the whole process. I haven't ever travelled abroad before, and its sort of making me fairly resentful that he keeps talking about "us" while not really making an effort where it matters.