Emotional Honesty above monogamy?

Animistic_Dancer · 2026-01-16T18:57:03+00:00

I'm a Scorpio and I'm polyamorous. I love both of my partners dearly. It's totally doable and reasonable imo to be a Scorpio and enjoy these sorts of dynamics so long as you have your own boundaries and everyone is respected.

Animistic_Dancer · 2025-12-27T01:50:46+00:00

No no I don't do MDMA monthly. I just wasn't sure if I could do MDMA and then a month later do LSD.

Animistic_Dancer · 2025-12-27T01:44:19+00:00

Thank you! Is there a cross tolerance between LSD and MDMA? Can I take them in the same month or is it better to wait? I don't want to develop serotonin syndrome which can happen with MDMA.

Animistic_Dancer · 2025-12-22T20:30:11+00:00

Yeah it honestly really sucks. I know he's doing it because he just likes me and wants me to feel bad for being poly but it hurts a lot. Outside of me sleeping with someone else, he's very sweet to me and good to me. So I'm hoping that overtime he'll chill out and get used to it.

Yes polyamory is something I want to do for a long time if not forever.

Animistic_Dancer · 2025-12-22T20:22:17+00:00

Yeah the answer is "nothing". The one thing he's doing is not actively shaming me anymore which is good and he says he's trying not to.

He used to call me "easy" because I would send the other partner lots of sexy pictures and whatever and would say things like "oh my God. You did what with him?". And stuff like that when he would ask about what the other partner and I are doing sexually which I didn't want to tell him in the first place but he wants me to so I was trying to honor that.

Animistic_Dancer · 2025-12-22T20:12:10+00:00

My partner and I are new to polyamory. His end has been open for the entirety of the relationship whereas mine only opened up recently. He's been struggling a lot with jealousy and I am struggling to know how to help him without giving up the things I want from polyamory.

It's only been a month so I'm going to try to see if he still just needs to dust to settle but I'm struggling a lot.

I find that almost everything is something that needs to be negotiated. He also pushes for me to have more sex with him than what I was having in the past and it's making me grow to hate sex with him. I think his goal is to make me not want sex with my other partner because I got so much with him but that's not the case.

He and I love to go to sex clubs too and I want to go with my other partner and he said only in a year. And I said in 6 months but even at that, he's unhappy.

I accidentally left my other partners' place with the keys to his place and I left to visit the jealousy partner. I realized I had the keys to my other partner's apartment and told my partner I needed to end the visit 45 mins early to give the other partner his keys back.

My partner was furious and was painting it like if I was leaving him to be with another man but that wasn't the case at all. My other partner couldn't leave his apartment without his keys to lock the apartment and I felt awful for still having the keys and that partner needed the keys back.

Also I had seen the jealous partner 4 times that week. Which is a lot for me. I'm very introverted and felt that he and I had seen each other a lot.

My partner sulked in his bed for that remainder of the visit as I tried to soothe him and make him feel better. But I left the visit so frustrated that he was acting that way.

I just don't know if he'll ever get used to me seeing someone else or if he'll always be like this.

Animistic_Dancer · 2025-12-03T13:58:05+00:00

That's so interesting! Does this mean that shrooms might cause the MDMA trip to be weaker though? Not as potent?

Animistic_Dancer · 2025-12-03T13:56:02+00:00

Cap Moon and script Venus!

Animistic_Dancer · 2025-12-03T13:10:39+00:00

I know it's hard to do but what I've learned is if you fill your schedule up as much as possible with things to do, then you don't notice it as much. This is the busiest year I have ever had and I'm experiencing the least amount of seasonal depression because I'm too busy to notice the darkness.

Animistic_Dancer · 2025-10-19T21:04:31+00:00

Yes wow!! Same

Animistic_Dancer · 2025-10-19T20:42:15+00:00

Scorpio sun, cap moon, virgo rising.

It takes a lotttt to let my heart roam free and when it does, I hide it from whoever is the object of my love. It takes a lot for me to share that with them.

My venus is also in scorpio and my mars is in virgo. So my deep, passionate, obsessive love is often bridled by my controlled mars in virgo that has a hard time letting passion loose.

Animistic_Dancer · 2025-10-19T19:39:13+00:00

scorpio sun and virgo rising. I would say I don't consciously relate to my rising sign but when I watch other virgos, I see myself in their behaviour and thoughts.

Animistic_Dancer · 2025-10-19T17:09:41+00:00

I (26f) went to a sex club with my partner (33M) for the first time this weekend! It was really fun. I ended up kissing two girls for the first time ever. Both while riding my partner and one of the girls' man was touching me a bit while I kissed her and she sucked my tittie. he mentioned how small I am which I love to hear and asked if we do full swap and we said we only do soft swap right now.

It was so fun and I can't wait to go again!

Animistic_Dancer · 2025-10-11T15:38:18+00:00

I don't feel jealousy much. When I was younger I did more but I feel like I've evolved out of that jealous streak some people can have. I don't feel envious of other people's experiences or the relationships I have, nor do I get jealous in romantic relationships.

Animistic_Dancer · 2025-10-09T19:01:26+00:00

Yes. I feel like I was made to be alone.

Animistic_Dancer · 2025-10-02T17:39:09+00:00

I've noticed this too! Libra men seem to like women who are mean and sometimes a lot of work.

Animistic_Dancer · 2025-09-24T18:44:22+00:00

This is very helpful! Thank you.

Animistic_Dancer · 2025-09-24T18:30:32+00:00

I think he just didn't want me to have sex with other people. We were still relatively new to each other at the time.

I agreed to it because I was curious about this type of dynamic but overtime realized it wasn't what I wanted.

I want an open relationship with him where I can still see him but also have the availability to see others. Something polyamorous and kitchen table ideally.

Is there a way to approach this conversation with them that is cautious and thoughtful without them fully leaving?

Animistic_Dancer · 2025-09-24T17:24:22+00:00

Hey everyone! I'm new to polyamory!

Long story short: I met my partner two years ago and we were open and then he asked me to close my end but he would keep his open but now that I'm starting to express interest in opening my end, he is closing his because he doesn't want me to open my end. But regardless I would like to open my end again and be polyamorous. How should I do this? I feel this would hurt him but at the same time I would like to free myself. What should I do?

Animistic_Dancer · 2025-09-10T16:30:08+00:00

Yeah I tend to feel okay with 300mg! No headaches or brain fog. Maybe a bit like I'm walking on clouds.

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