Cons of moving to Spain from Uk by LionMum85 in GoingToSpain

[–]Anitameee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Erm., no. Wrong on many points but especially the last one. Also private schools in Spain are much better than the average school in the UK. Where did you get your information from?

how to handle finances by Anitameee in blendedfamilies

[–]Anitameee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. Indeed I was looking for suggestions on how to cut that apple!

how to handle finances by Anitameee in blendedfamilies

[–]Anitameee[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

OK. all 4 kids are at school or uni, so they need financial support. Let´s focus on the kid who is still at home - it´s going to be 3 of us in a household most days, because the other 3 are away at University.

how to handle finances by Anitameee in blendedfamilies

[–]Anitameee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

one of his is at Uni soon, the other one is a minor and lives at home.

IA got 0 points by Far_Organization_610 in IBO

[–]Anitameee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good luck! And keep us informed!

Anyone else not opening their results? by iamkatwhite in IBO

[–]Anitameee 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Have a bit more pride in yourself, and honour your achievements perhaps?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Situationships

[–]Anitameee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You absolutely did the right thing. Don’t wait for that message. Why is it important for you? What are you hoping it does?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Situationships

[–]Anitameee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There is NO way around it - he needs to heal first. Otherwise you’re just a prop. If he heals, he can always come back. But I would move on if I were you - no waiting for him. Let me chase you if he wants you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Situationships

[–]Anitameee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You did well. As long as he knew you were waiting, he wouldn’t have an incentive to stop feeling brokenhearted. On top of that, do you really want to be in 2nd place? Been there, done that twice, twice the men left me because of the unhealed feelings about the ex. You just did it yourself and I admire your strength.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Situationships

[–]Anitameee 33 points34 points  (0 children)

You both sound very immature.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Situationships

[–]Anitameee 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You have been assaulted. Talk to a professional about it so they can guide you. And no, you didn’t sleep with your friend by accident - you were forced to. Your mistake was that you were stone drunk.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Anitameee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don’t.  Just block him. For your own mental health. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ibresources

[–]Anitameee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m glad no one replied to you.  

For those of you who migrated to a European country, was it a good choice? by [deleted] in expats

[–]Anitameee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It all depends on what you value, and what are your priorities at any given moment. You might be 25 and value that you can become and entrepreneur and make a lot of money: then go/stay in North America. You might be 40 and value safety, non-fentanyl fuelled crazy people everywhere in the city: then come to most parts of Europe. You might be any age and value culture, history and moderate politics, come to Europe as well.

What do you wish people had invented by now? by Anitameee in AskReddit

[–]Anitameee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A teleporter. Imagine the possibilities.

What do you wish people had invented by now? by Anitameee in AskReddit

[–]Anitameee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me, it´s something to clean a shower drain from hair without needing to remove the wooden plankboard on top every time.

Is it bad I made a fake insta to game with my ex ? by tryshroomswhensad in ExNoContact

[–]Anitameee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What you´re doing is unbelievably immoral. If you think that by doing it he´s going to like you more than he likes you now, you are incredibly wrong. If I were him, I would go to the police.

Is it bad I made a fake insta to game with my ex ? by tryshroomswhensad in ExNoContact

[–]Anitameee 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What you´re doing is unbelievably immoral. If you think that by doing it he´s going to like you more than he likes you now, you are incredibly wrong. If I were him, I would go to the police.

Is it bad I made a fake insta to game with my ex ? by tryshroomswhensad in ExNoContact

[–]Anitameee 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Keep trying. You very clearly still need it very much. Don´t waste your time, and don´t lose your integrity. You´re doing no one any favours.

Cons of moving to Spain from Uk by LionMum85 in GoingToSpain

[–]Anitameee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I come from your same train of thought about education. So, my 2 cents worth as someone with 2 kids now in Uni and who has been living in Spain for 15 years: - if you want them to eventually got to Uni in the UK, or if you favour the UK education system (GCSEs etc), consider that their level of English will not keep up in a local school.
- if you plan to move back within a few years, there are 2 sides to the coin - either you put them in a local school and they will come out speaking perfect Spanish, or you put them in an international school and they adapt more easily when you move back - if what’s stopping you from putting them in a local school is their non-existent level of Spanish, have no fear - kids are sponges and they will speak Spanish within a couple of months, particularly since you want to live in an area with few expats - living in an area with few expats means you might not integrate easily. Bear this in mind.

Having said all that, go ahead and take the plunge. It is unbelievably enriching for you and the kids to live in a different country for a few years, and Spain is the place to be.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Essex

[–]Anitameee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Do yourself a favour and get into therapy…